Men, would you ever fall in love with an ugly girl?

[Anonymous]

[talka20]

No not easy or fast... but i think if we get along and i fall in love w her personality/vibe/our bond etc then i won't care bout looks i guess... but all this is hypothetical

[Asker]

ok :/

[Effably]

If I did she wouldn't be ugly to me, so it is somewhat if a null question.
Could I fall in love with someone who most people think is ugly? Sure.

[Asker]

Okay that's cute!

[Jessica405]

There is no reason why not. Thing is, he won't think you are ugly. That may be what you think about yourself, but you are wrong.

[Asker]

Maybe!

[Jessica405]

True! Not maybe!

[exitseven]

I think beauty is a very subjective thing. A girl who is considered ugly to some could be seen as cute or quirky to somebody else. I could fall in love with somebody like that.

[Asker]

Ok thanks!

[JBlade]

I’ve never loved so probably not. However, I may really like her personality enough to be with her.

[Asker]

Ok thanks!

[Guanfei]

Hard, but it happened when I was younger. She wasn't the best looking, and fat. But her eyes... something coming straight out of a fairytale. And she was so sweet, and caring.

[Asker]

Aw that's sweet, what happend between you and her?

[Guanfei]

I was a complete retard, and choose a better looking girl over her. And lost both, of course. Last time we talked, she had a boyfriend and was pretty happy. She deserves it.

[Asker]

Aw I'm sorry, I hope you find the right one soon.

[Strightwhitrepub]

I found good looking girls become ugly with a bitchy attitude and girls became beautiful when I got to know them better.

[Asker]

OK thank you!

[Mangospacho]

It doesn’t matter how ugly someone is, at least one person will find that person attractive.

[Asker]

OK thanks!

[jasco]

That depends on the definition of ugly and that changes per person

[Asker]

OK, but when I say "ugly" I mean your version of "ugly" physically.

[jasco]

no i haven't

[jobego]

what some guys think is ugly others find hot
i find most girls that are seen as ugly not ugly at all

[Anonymous]

It is possible if I am forced to know her and I get cached by her personality. If I see an ugly girl on the street I don't care of her at all. Of course if I can choose I choose a pretty girl.

[Asker]

Okay!

[anylolone]

Would you ever fall in love with an ugly guy?
Considering you are asking I'm going to assume no.

[Asker]

I would and I have multiple times.

[anylolone]

Do you understand that ugly means that in a list, they are the ones that get behind, right?
At least in some list.

[Asker]

Yes I do, I am an ugly girl myself that's why I asked this question.

[anylolone]

That's one the things, I don't know if you are ugly.

In a list of 100 random girls, where would you be?

[Asker]

What do you mean by "in a list of 100 girls, where would you be" I don't understand the question.

[anylolone]

On what you'd call beauty, if you were to list 99 random girls and you in order from prettiest to ugliest, where would you sit?

[Asker]

Probably the lowest possible. I'm extremely unattractive, below average. No guy has ever flirted with me, asked me out or had a crush on me. I'm always told I'm ugly by guys. I think the bottom.

[anylolone]

Bellow average means a lot of things. You don't know who has a crush on you, most people don't tell.
I don't know if you could recognize flirting.

Not being asked out, specially as not highly social is the norm, including for women.
How often are you called ugly? Any pattern in the circumstances?

[Asker]

I used to have a guy best friend, I had a crush on him but he rejected me and told me that I was ugly. I get called ugly by my siblings, by people on the internet etc. I also get laughed at by boys in groups.

[anylolone]

So, you had one friendly crush that called you ugly, and your siblings call you ugly, and you get called ugly by people in the internet, and sometimes groups of boys (let's say people) laugh at you.
So you have an average experience of life up to now. Please, elaborate more.

[Asker]

My crush had a crush on my sister and his reason was that "she was prettier". Literally all guys that my family are friend's with fall in love with my sister and they all tell me I'm ugly and annoying.

[anylolone]

So, your sister calls you ugly and annoying then the guys who like her call you the same and you don't see the pattern? And I'm to assume it's young guys as well.

It took me no time to understand people bullied me because of my sister, not because they loved her and she talked badly about me, but because they hated her because she bullied them.

Before we continue this, just join two and two together.

[Asker]

No I'm just generally ugly

[anylolone]

Seems like the general experience, instead of the ugly experience.

I'm going to assume your sister is older, right?

[Asker]

No my sister is younger than me by 14 months, she looks older than me though. She hit puberty before me when we were younger.
And no it's not just a "general" experience. NO ONE I know has ever went through that. Even my girl friends that claim that they're "ugly". I've never been in a relationship.

[anylolone]

I said average, not average for a girl.

Also, you let your sister, who's over a year younger with a year less experience get to you?
"She hit puberty before" and how's that relevant? Maybe to beauty, but it's a mistake trying to compete over beauty with relatives.

[Asker]

I have no control over my sister, she is very bossy and more controls me lol. And she has more experience than me even though she's younger.

And I don't want to compete with her, I just want to find love and be loved without the guy leaving me for my sister.

[anylolone]

"She's very bossy" and you got one year of experience above her.
Even if she's given more freedom, which I assume it's the experience you are talking about.

Your friend approached you for your sister, you weren't left for her.
He's clearly not with you for you, even as a friend, ditch him, get new friends.

Or you can teach him a lesson and try to "help him" with a warning he's in for a world of pain.

[Asker]

I will ditch him, thank you for the help!

[Pilaka]

Been there, done that. But then she wasn't ugly to me so...

[Asker]

Oh ok!

[Jasooty]

Ugly looking, yes
Ugly personality, no

[Asker]

Ok! Thanks!

[donnny2367764]

As long as she has a beautiful round ass to make up for her face then yes.. I would

[Asker]

Ah... ok

[dudeinohio]

Sure, if she had the perfect personality

[Asker]

ok thanks!

[dudeinohio]

U r welcome

[MCheetah]

Yup.

[Asker]

Alright thanks!

[JesseJayNeak]

Of course. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder

[Asker]

OK thanks!

[Anonymous]

She better at Least have a nice body

[Asker]

aw ok

[In_Trance]

ugly is a perception

[Asker]

okay

[BarryLiverstone]

What makes her ugly?

[Asker]

Facial features

[BarryLiverstone]

You don’t have to look like a model to be considered attractive

[Asker]

Well I'm not talking about "average" features. I'm talking about ugly features.

[BarryLiverstone]

Like what?

[Asker]

Features that *YOU* consider ugly on a woman since everyone has a different perspective of "ugly".
A woman you would find EXTREMELY.

[BarryLiverstone]

If I’m not attracted to someone then can’t imagine having a romantic interest in them.

[BarryLiverstone]

Can you love someone unattractive?

[Asker]

I think so

[BarryLiverstone]

I actually tried by the way. Dated a girl for a month because she liked me and I wanted to see of romantic attraction could grow. It didn’t so I told her. So I know I can’t fall in love with someone I find unattractive. Feel free to do the same and confirm if it’s possible

[Asker]

Okay, thank you!

[BarryLiverstone]

You are welcome, let me know if it helps

[Fuentes]

Probs not

[Asker]

Okay.