Men how hard is it to understand women?

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TheBootyChest · Accepted Answer

My first barrier is usually trying to find a woman who is willing to sit down and talk about these things to me. And also not just saying "I don't know why I do it."

Plus the fact women are more "complex" then men are and so it tends to melt their brains because it's too much info that they didn't want to know in the first place.

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Twalli · Accepted Answer

If a guy is eating a pint of ice cream and he says he's fine, he is. Girls not all the time, typically not. Guys don't hide how they feel in their words, girls do. Guys who wear the same clothes develop a "brother" connection, girls can go crazy if that happens. If a guy is mad he'll tell you, a girl will say she's fine while hating your guts. In other words, you know what a guy is feeling and such while girls aren't up front.

little_bird1 · Accepted Answer

I don't think it's hard, most of them just don't even want to try.

awkward_author · Answer

I have Autism, so understanding others is difficult for me in general. This makes neurotypical women even more confusing for me. Many of them don't say what they actually mean, and I take what they say at face value, which causes them to become angry. I never really know what's going on with them.

loveslongnails · Answer

It's not difficult to see "what" they do and learn to anticipate it. "Why" they do it is a bit more complicated, but all in all, most humans basically want the same things. Women just tend to cloak it better and want to make you believe they're all so deep, complex and mysterious, while men just don't care if you know exactly what they want. LOL

Kaamraj · Answer

Just maintain leverage, there is no need to understand. Men cannot win in a disagreement or conflict with a female because they mostly use feels before reals, so your logic and rationale will hold no value. So always reserve the options and power to walk away.

UdontNeedtoknow · Answer

Most women use there feelings when making a decision, while most men use logic in there decision making. That is why women are hard to relate with most of the time. There just not logical and ignore facts a lot of the time. Usually because they just want something and pretend to care what there lover thinks or there opinions in a relationship.
Not all women, just the majority from my life experience.

Air_Force_Guy · Answer

I wish it was as easy for me to read a woman as it is for her to read me. I hate playing games. I get it, women don't want to be thought of as easy so y'all aren't as open as guys are. I hate that stigma more than most women do

Oigit · Answer

F. it can be hard to understand people in general. You might thinking thinking men or women is hard. But you turn around and meet someone that is hard to hell to understand even if you remove their gender from the picture.

Anonymous · Answer

It’s quite easy if you take more notice of their actions over their words.

Also I think that a lot of guys who say that they can’t understand women expect women to act like men, and they should probably just go an get boyfriends or something.

SlothySlob · Answer

In general it isn't that hard, it the individual that is sometimes hard to understand. For how emotional or impulsive you can sometimes be, there is still some sort of logic behind it.

SurströmmingLover · Answer

It is pretty hard, because your mood can change faster than the speed of light. Also, you tend to question everything. In addition, reverse psychology is your favorite toy.

FilmGuy93 · Answer

I find it fairly easy to understand women. My bigger complaint is about how bad they are at communicating.

Anonymous · Answer

You don't try to understand. Just understand their tendencies and act accordingly. If she's too big of a problem. If she's to flakey you just kick her to the curb and move on to another woman. Because it won't get better.

Lionman95 · Answer

The problem is I don't get sublime messaging. I never get when a woman likes me. That's my biggest problem in interacting with women.  Anything I don't get told I don't understand.

donnny2367764 · Answer

Extremely... but the trick is to not make big deals out of little things... the all will take its course

spartan55 · Answer

My level of understanding has improved over the years, but I still get a wicked emotional curveball once in a while. Overall I'd say I have a satisfactory understanding of women's thought process.

jahaims · Answer

People act like different genders are different species. All you have to do is communicate to understand each other.

2021biguy · Answer

It's hard, most won't tell you how they are really feeling or what they really want. Emotions can overrule everything. Over the years it seems impossible, even if you try very hard.

Anonymous · Answer

I have a very hard time accepting that women make most of their decisions based on emotion. While I do understand how they are thinking I also have an extremely hard time dealing with it.

AviatorTom · Answer

It's impossible to understand women. I've given up trying and just accept what they do. There's less stress, and more enjoyment, that way.

StickStickity13 · Answer

They aren't hard, the men that think they're hard have no experience with them.

Jintendo18 · Answer

Very easy to understand when you don’t let your dick cloud your thinking.

chilldude33 · Answer

very easy. i looked at female meme pages and comments on GAG. once it starts getting repetitive, that means that now you know the common experiences and thoughts of women.

msc545 · Answer

Nobody understands women. Women don't even understand women.

Anonymous · Answer

Too easy. All you have to do is watch what they do and ignore what they say.

Anonymous · Answer

Women are not too difficult in general they’re just human beings like us but women.

magiusX26 · Answer

way more difficult than core curiculim math for a preschooler

dolemite89 · Answer

“only women understand other women, and they all hate each other” Al Bundy

Lynx122 · Answer

In the past extremely hard, now only hard ^^

Mediterraneansoul · Answer

They don't understand themselves lol

Anonymous · Answer

1in 4 women are on antidepressants

Anonymous · Answer

Read the book "The Rational Male" by Rollo tomassi

MrTaboo · Answer

You're all a different crazy.

Juxtapose · Answer

If you play

Anonymous · Answer

Nigh impossible.

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