What was your largest age gap when dating someone (not hooking up)? How old were both of you?

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[Anonymous]

I briefly dated a 32 year old when I was 20.
She was a friend of a friend and got interested in meeting me after hearing about me.

It didn't last long, that period was pretty much the peak of my sociability and I was just being a big flirt and messing with every woman around me.
It resulted in a lot of my circle getting infatuated with me, but I wasn't being very serious about any of it, which broke a few hearts.

This particular 32 year old got especially pissy about it, and things ended badly enough that it fractured our friend circles lol.

[MCheetah]

Oldest I dated was like seven or eight years older than me. I was 22, she was 29 at the time. But I use the term "dated" loosely, as she was a psycho British chick. Rich, but crazy. I now kinda miss her. She was so cool for a literal insane woman with DiD.

[Alyssa_11]

6 years. He was 28 and I was 22. The best gap. The only time I felt the man I was dating was on the same maturity level as me.

[DizzyDesii]

9 years and he was the only exception. I prefer same age or no more than 3 year gap

[SenileOldMan]

Only a bit under three years. I was 24 and she was 21. Normally I didn't date ones so much younger but she lived on her own and was working at a retail shop. I usually dated women sort of in the immediate surrounding, so classmates that were very close to my age in school and mostly women close to my age with very similar styles out of school. She was an exception being quite a bit younger than me but we were both living alone and working and so I think we were able to click more that way.

[SenileOldMan]

Usually, I tended to date women very close to my age. My wife is only a year younger than me, for example, and we started dating in our late 20s. It's not that I don't find older or younger women less attractive or anything like that, but I just tended to click more with women close to my age. I was also a city kid so I got immersed in the urban lifestyle. That might have something to do with it. I tended to date women that tended to have something resembling my own life style, and my own life experience, and they were usually pretty close to my age.

[Anonymous]

My husband and I have a pretty big age gap. I was 39 and he was 24 when we started dating

[JohnK123]

Dang r u two still together

[Opinion Owner]

@JohnK123 Yes. We've been together for about four years. We also have had 2 kids.

[JohnK123]

Cool

[Guido]

I was 19 and she was a 24 yr old divorced mom that used me like a fuck toy for several months. I didn't mind being used at all. She loved riding me and I loved being rode hard too.
Probably why cowgirl is my favorite position.

[mstbooblover]

12 years difference. When I met my future wife back then, I was 25 and she 37. We were married for 38 years till her death a few years ago.

[UdontNeedtoknow]

13 years and it was really awesome actually. She was 29 and I was 43. She fell in love with me at a time when I wasn't ready for love. In truth, i liked her but she was on a path that would work out for me.

[exitseven]

She was 5 years older than me. I was 22 and she was 27. When we met I said I was 24 and she said she was 25.

[Ironic_Method]

14 years. I was 26, she was 40. It was great.

Also 14 years... she was 18, I was 32. Also great.

[Petite_Princess]

I've been dating my former college professor for the last few weeks. He's 34 and I'm 19.

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are you having fun :)

[Petite_Princess]

Yes! Tho some of my friends are giving me crap for it saying he's a perv and too old but he treats me so nice

[dumbbuthot]

they're just jealous, I've had an age gap that was more than 30+ years

if you like each other thats all that matters

[Petite_Princess]

30 years! omg i wanna hear that story! i think they're jealous too

[crmoore]

Apologies for butting in, I'll be on my way if it isn't welcome, but if you two don't mind me asking: Do either of you have anything to say to those who might question whether you have anything in common with guys that age, and thus, whether the relationship is really merited?

To be clear, I'm not of that opinion, I'm simply curious what someone with these experiences might say in response.

[Petite_Princess]

@crmoore I'd say that equal age doesn't always mean equal interests

[crmoore]

I appreciate the input, thanks

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@crmoore i usually see it as a sign of jealousy honestly. There are lots of things a couple can share as interests. It can include hobbies of all kinds: reading, gaming, board games, partying, music, whatever.

[crmoore]

Wonderful. Well I'm glad to hear it. 😄

[Babygirl_S]

I've only had 1 boyfriend and he was 10 years older than me.

[Anonymous]

Briefly dated an 18 year old when I was 28, so 10 years. She was absolutely wild and so tight, loves being dominated.

[JohnQue74]

Ok, a year. (did sleep with someone 10 years younger)

[Anonymous]

My hook up became a relationship and was 28 years younger, still talk to them at times

[DJB72]

4 years. I was 27, she was 23. Amazing tits 😍

[DaveJord]

Honestly never more than a year or two.

[riidges]

Me (26) her (33) about 7 1/2 years.

[Citizenkirk]

She was 10 years older than me.

[Jerre]

32 years. I was 50, she was 18.

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did it last long?

[Jerre]

Still seeing her. She is a friends with benefits.

[dumbbuthot]

thats nice :D

[Jerre]

I. May be 50+, but am young at heart, take her out a lot, plus I have something she loves.

[dumbbuthot]

age shouldn't matter :)

[Jerre]

I get along very well with her crowd. Even started dating one of her friends.

[riidges]

Hey she was legal age. Just gotta be careful for those nosy people out there that don't want anyone else to be happy 😂

But hey, as long as you were happy and she was happy

[Tstrbrainer]

Now that's the kind of guy many boys would want to live up to

[dumbbuthot]

@riidges people are probably just jealous lol

[riidges]

Lol you probably aren't wrong. People just can't let others enjoy life for some reason 🤷

[moonpie89]

Oldest I think was 29 and I was 21 .

[BlackCatBone]

6 years
I was 26 and my boyfriend was 20.

[Anonymous]

I was 47 and she was 19.

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did the relationship last long?

[Opinion Owner]

Only about a month. I liked her, but we had so little in common that it wasn't going to work.

[dumbbuthot]

i can understand that :)

[Opinion Owner]

I am going to go out on a limb and say that you are looking for an older man?

[dumbbuthot]

not at the moment but I've been with lots of older guys in general :)

[Opinion Owner]

May I ask what was your largest age gap?

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you can pm me if you'd like :)

[driven159]

I was 30 years old and wore her out

[Twalli]

She's 5.5 years older than me

[Anonymous]

She was 20 and I was 32.

[Anonymous]

3 years younger guy