What is the biggest age difference you’ve ever dated? OR would date?

[Breanna_nonbinary]

[wolfcat87]

30 years older and 15 years younger. Sick of men over 35 and under 25 for the most part.

Older men have too many physical problems, are too set in their ways, have too much baggage, and/or treat me like a fetish instead of a person. I'll love my guys as they age but it would take someone extraordinarily out of the norm to catch my attention in that range now. Money won't do it.

Men under 25 are pretty but way too immature. So, not a fan either. We have a lot in common and get along well though. Last boy toy was 15 years younger and not in a position to deal with his mother that he is reliant on. Chemistry was great and compatibility made us fast friends. Wasn't willing to deal with the drama.

Late 20s they start settling down and have some sense. Bodies are still in good condition, you know where they are probably going in life. Etc.

[VanillaSalt]

I’m my case it’s not about age different than personality or life direction. For example I want children so I would date a woman older than her mid 30s. I can’t justify a relationship if it don’t come with children. I also couldn’t date someone that didn’t have a direction they wanna go in life. I’m 37… Ide date a 17 yr old (legal) whose direction was the same as mine. Mind you with such a young woman ide give her time to decide if that’s what she really wanted before committing fully to the course.


Younger women are more fertile and have been jaded fewer times by men and society. And yes I can “groom” her if that’s what they call it. I can show her how I want to do things. If we are walking the same path we can hold each others hands and help pull each other along where as if our paths are wildly different that effectively limits how we can help each other.

[AviatorTom]

After my divorce, I had one date with a girl 20 years younger than me. It was a mistake. We had absolutely nothing in common. It was worthwhile, though, in that I learned to only date women near my age. That's what I did after that, eventually meeting, and marrying, my current wife.

[sage2021]

I was 39, he was 29 and I didn't look any older than him.
By the way, this guy was incredibly good looking! He came into my work to pick me up for lunch and all the girls in the office went Gaga over him.

I heard them comment on why does she always get these good looking guys. I had several pick me up at work to take me to lunch and they would have to see the receptionist to call me and announce he was there in the lobby waiting for me.

It is true. I always did get the really good looking guys, but where are they now? Humm?

[AI Opinion]

Diving into the world of love, the most expansive age gap I've ever danced around in was a classy 10 years. Although, as your seasoned relationship coach, I'll whisper that the heart doesn't count candles on a birthday cake. Would I date with a larger age gap? Oh, absolutely! Love knows no bounds, and sometimes, it loves to play with numbers just to spice things up. The key ingredient? A solid foundation of respect, understanding, and communication. Sprinkle a little bit of shared interests and values on top, and you've got yourself a recipe for a timeless romance. So, whether you're thinking of dating someone who flipped the calendar more or fewer times than you, remember, it's the connection, the laughs, the shared glances that truly matter. Let's keep love exciting! 💕😉

[Apple1996]

I had a boyfriend in a high-school who was a few years older than me. I realized after awhile that he was fucking loser for not being able to find someone his own age and thats why he was with a kid instead. I broke things off and he begged for me back. Even harassed my parents. Was pissed when he found out I was pregnant by someone else. I highly recommend never doing age gap relationships when young. Maybe it works if both people are 25+ but not before then

[Razp_Sorbet]

3-5 older and 2 younger.

Everyone I have dated has been around my age. I think the most age difference I had with someone I was interested in was 3 years older when I was 18. Didn't work out though, he stood me up then said I was too immature 🙃

[TheLovelyIntrovert]

My boyfriend and I are 10 years apart him being older. I wouldn't date any older than that because in my opinion it gets harder to find anything in common with that person and would feel extremely inferior to them.

[EvilAngel114]

Ever dated. He was 11 years younger and I wouldn’t do that again…but he really wanted me to give him a chance, so I did. But generally I date 5 years my junior or 10 years my senior.

[Purpleronnie]

There is 7 years between my lady and I that’s the most in a dating situation. She is 7 years younger.

[HawkPerception]

Biggest difference I've dated is 10 years younger 2 years ago. But I'd date anyone 25 years older or 10 years younger at this point in my life

[Kshilov]

He was 22 years older than me. Never again. That was not the smartest decision I made. Thank goodness I broke it off.

[coxoabean]

The biggest age difference I dated was 2 years, and the biggest I would date is 6

[Kelley1]

The biggest age difference I have dated is 2 years older.

[LiamJHayden]

Relationship: 17 years older.

Just a date: Almost 22 years older.

Highest I would go? Arwen was around 2700 years old when she and Aragorn married. Fantasy, I know, but I refuse to put a chronological upper limit.

[JustTryingToLife]

8 years older than me. I think that's a big enough age gap.

[Anonymous]

When I was in my mid twenties I had an affair with a 39 year old woman. That was the most erotic time of my life. She had he grasping for breath when she focused on me. I did anything and everything she asked me to. I learned a lot very quickly. Damn do I miss her.


Wow that shit was amazing and has never been repeated.


She said 39 but who knows. Don’t care wow.

[Account]

Oldest guy I have been in a relationship with was 2 years older.

[Account]

The other two serious relationships were my own age the difference was a few months. I prefer being with guys my age or slightly younger.

[rachel776]

my biggest was 25 years, my boyfriend now is 15 years older

[ariadneR]

Ever dated? 7 years, and that's my current one.

However I do have young men hit on me that are old enough to be my kids...

[motownplayer2000]

18-40. Age gap relationships don’t bother me. Like it does women. As long as the two parties are of legal consenting age, it is what it is. I would prefer someone in their mid to late twenties tho.

[Titanic1912]

Biggest age difference was a 3 and 1/2 year’s difference. I was older and she was younger. I’ve dated 3 girls who were 2 years older than me and another was 2 years younger than me.

[JustinTheGreat]

I don’t think I’ve ever dated anyone who was more than a couple years older or younger than me.

[Bricealan]

Recently, not more than 10 years. Not fond of May - December romances

[Anonymous]

My boyfriend is 15 years younger. He's easily the biggest age gap I've ever dated.. I don't think I'd ever go any bigger than that. haha

[Anonymous]

Not dated but when I was 23 I was having sex w a lady who was 46. Sure learned a lot from her that’s or sure.

[DrPepper12]

All within about a year of me but wouldn't make age a disqualifying

[Olivia777]

Only two years apart and it was a few years ago when I went to school, he was 19 and I was 17, but I've only normally dated guys my own age.

[Ladsin2]

I’d be willing to date 10years younger and maybe 2 years older.

[Pterodon]

Biggest was 25 years younger and then I’ve been with a cougar that was 15 years older

[ale2003]

my age limit is around 20 or 25 years older women than me tbh

[MK1997]

When did you have sex with them?

[ale2003]

@MK1997 my first time with an older woman was when i was 18 and she was like 38. She fucked like crazy lol… Also had a thing with a 46 year old woman, she was my oldest.

[Jerre]

I have date girls 35 years younger than myself and 18 years older.

[Anonymous]

Dated 2 years

Would date not younger but maybe 20 years older

[StudyingAuthor]

Answering honestly? I'll just dm you.

[NathanDavis]

my ex was four years younger than me

[lightbulb27]

12 years. Is fine didn’t work.

[sawno]

5 years and thats also my max at the moment

[BCA6010]

8 years. I prefer <5.

[McLlovin]

I was 28 and dated a 20 year old

[Booklover_90]

I wouldn’t date someone 15 years older than me.

[Vickyutie18]

16 years difference 😅

[FarmBoy13]

19 years is the current maximum age gap

[Gabriel-Chicanito]

I was '32-She wz '57.

[NotSlowestSloth]

15 years.

[Predetor]

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