22 woman has the appearance of a 7 year old, would it be concerning if men want to date her?

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So I saw this on TikTok, the mom was talking about how she finds it concerning when men find her daughter attractive because of how young she looks and sounds. She has a point though. It’s an unfortunate situation because she’s an adult and she deserves love too but I would also be considered about mens intentions.
She probably would attract a lot of sick dudes who see it has a way of legally dating someone prepubescent

MCheetah · Accepted Answer

Pedophiles: "It's free real estate!"

But yeah, it must suck having Peter Pan syndrome. At least she's a girl, though. Being a guy like that would mean suicidal tendencies. Honestly, all I think she has to do is dress professionally and like, put her hair in a bun. Maybe wear glasses, too. The fact that she also dresses like a 13 year old is what sells her looking like one. If she dressed like an adult, I think it would vastly help her appearance, the same way it does to Little People or just really short girls, 5'1" and under.

However, I can imagine this happening.

Guy. "Hey. I loved your profile. I'm not creepy, I promise. I also had a sister, who had cancer. And really, I just like a girl with a sense of humor. Hopefully, maybe we can talk and get to know each other more and if something happens, it happens."

Shauna: "Cool. But... how tall are you?"

Guy: "I'm five foot -"

Shauna: "Get the f*ck out."

magiusX26 · Accepted Answer

concerned, no. i would be mindfil and cautious though. if it was my child, i would be cautious of who dates her could be one of those along the lines you mentioned yet mindful of how most will percieve that partner (assuming s/he was not one of those using not so good intentions) as one of those bad types anyways. if it was a woman i was to date, i would cautious and mindful still. cautious of how i act with her in any semi-public setting due to being mindful of how most will wind up percieving me/us.

theothersider · Accepted Answer

well shit... I gotta say that is a rough one. I mean damn she even sounds like a little girl. I don't know part of me would think that any man interested in her would like wise have to be interested in her for the reasons of how she looks. I mean there are men who are into petite women... but this scewwwws way past that into kind of creepy territory. I mean she is an adult with what seems like a level head on her shoulders. but I imagine her dad is going to be in full pitbull mode on any man that shows an interest in her... I know I would.

KrisPW · Accepted Answer

Good lord that would be difficult. For both her and anybody that would want to date her. She would need to know the person long enough that would know her medical condition and true age, as well as to know they aren't just a sick individual. While he would have to have no hang-ups with her underage appearance while also being strong enough for all the questions and accusations coming his way for being with her... Ughh! I can barely imagine.

Investigator · Answer

The way I see it, this is a no-win situation. If every person's assumption is that she is 7 and any man dating her is taking advantage of her, then the realistic answer is "no, she should not be dating." Is that unfair? Yes, but unfortunately, she was dealt this hand and miracles in medicine to make her "age up" notwithstanding, there's effectively no way to get around either her appearance or her mannerisms. Sexual offense laws obviously cannot account for such edge cases but if the responses in this thread are any indication, the outcome is obvious.

Unless a large enough pool of men can manage to uncouple what she looks and sounds like from her chronological age, there will be no partners in her future. There may be a time when she no longer looks so young, by which point she will look like an old child (which will be a rather bizarre sight to behold); however, there is a rather high likelihood that that point will occur after she is longer no capable of having children (if that is a goal) or being in a relationship (since no man wants to be seen r*ping a minor, even if only in appearance).

For all intents and purposes, she is a child.

Kaytiee · Answer

Yes, it is concerning, I feel bad for her. Because she will get a lot of men who are only interested because of how she looks underage, I once dated someone who was obsessed with age gaps, it was a huge fetish of his, and once during sex he said 'I would've raped you at 14 if we met earlier IRL'.

Honestly, there are a lot of warning signs, guys not HATING slight body hair, and wanting you to be baby smooth 24/7, guys liking high pitched voices, women who don't speak up and are 'submissive' in life, not just the bedroom, into flat chested very petite women, etc.

At the end of the day, if you're dating her because she looks and sounds like a child, you're sick. It just goes to show that if it was legal to date a child, so many would do so. I hope she finds a genuine man, and not someone who will fetishise her.

BeenThereLovedIt · Answer

I saw this on the news. I don't get it. Lots of girls over 18 look like they are 13, and so what? If it keeps a potential pedo in the closet and satisfies his urges or whatever, then great. Why does anyone really care? My BFF from childhood is like 4' tall and she's looked 13 her whole life, and she's dated dozens of guys and is now married. I don't think anyone looks at her husband with suspicion.

This is media-hype at it's finest. The parents should back off and let her live her life without their projected fears.

goaded · Answer

If she's having adult conversations and not talking about My Little Pony or something, it's OK. Size isn't the only difference between a 7 year old and a 22 year old. It's a hell of a lot better than having a sexual relationship with someone with the body of a 22 year old but a mental age of 7.

Wraith_Cemetery · Answer

It's a disservice to her intelligence level and her humanity to have such a massive concern with this. I don't see a 7 year old here. I can see an intelligent woman that just happens to have a high pitched voice and is really small in stature. 7 year old girls act and speak incredibly different than this girl does. It's quite easy to tell she isn't a child.

Anonymous · Answer

Yeah I'd date her. I've a thing for midgets and dwarfs.
It's kinda like are you a peado for having sex with an underage girl who has the body of a 18+ year old or are you a whale-o-phille for having sex with Rosie O 'Donnell.
I dated a 4ft 6 girl in college, I was 22 and she was 18. I got arrested for sex with a minor because the hotel staff thought she was 13. Its hilarious now but I was balls deep when the police came through the door. The stupid bitch had no I'd and I had to spend the night on a cell and she was kept in a children's juvenile home until her parents could be reached.

OpenClose · Answer

I mean going out on dates would probably be weird and I'd have to spend half my time in the public explaining the situation which could be frustrating. But still less frustrating than all that would be for her.

Beyond that, it wouldn't be her appearance, but her actual age that would ultimately determine the morality of the whole thing. So I'd give it a go. She'd better have her ID and probably even birth certificate for the first date, though.

Sonorous · Answer

It's not a matter of "if." There are men willing to date literal kids... So they'd be willing to date her!

But he would honestly have to be so mentally handicapped that couldn't describe what a kid was to save his life for people to be okay with it.

Or she could date a vegetable. I think people would accept that.

Bel88 · Answer

She's 22, not seven, so she can date whomever she wants, and if other people don't like that that's their problem. She can't help the way she is, it's not her fault. What else is she supposed to do? Remain single until she turns 50?

CasaNorba · Answer

WTF? damn she reminds me of those psychic kids in the anime-movie Akira that were being drugged by the government in order to prevent them from aging into adults

ronaldo75 · Answer

a lot of you here sound like she shouldn't be allowed to date because anyone who wants her is a closet pedo. Nice, real nice. Telling a 22 year old grown ass woman she shouldn't look for love. "You look like a child, any man who wants you is a sick fuck. You should be alone your entire life or only date a man with the same physical defect as you". Wow.

SuperSpaceMan007 · Answer

It's all depends on his and her results of probabilities. If you are good in probabilities then you are capable of providing predictive information about this type of relationship. So, then learn it to give predicaments or let's stay back and see where the nature running into. ❤

pizzalovershouse · Answer

Ok so does this mean she is a dwarf they dint bing it up in the video but if a girl looked that young an showed up to a date an said I really am 22 I be like I'm out of here I think she was 7 not 22 not that I wouldn't date a dwarf if she looked her age an was friendly but I've never dated a dwarf or any girl that's looked like a child I had a girlfriend that looked 16 when we were both 18 an I got the strangest stares that was bad enough

pixie215 · Answer

she's caught in a tough position, me being small they say i look 17 and im well over that, its creepy when thats the focus. but i think the right person will see past it to who she is, though it will really be an uphill battle

Anonymous · Answer

No.
Firstly, she has people that like her which means she can live a normal life, it's better than being straight ugly. Would the mum prefer if the girl was just ugly?
Secondly, other people's sexuality isn't her business. Her only concern should be what they do, and being interested in the girl who who is legal and consent and pursuing her honestly seems like the correct way to be.

Lisaf7ffhfh · Answer

Yeah, that's scary. Guys would probably only date her if they had pedophilia. If I were her parent I would be creeped out by any guy that tried to date her.

Anonymous · Answer

It's understandable to want to prove her age, but what sucks is the fact tattoos and smoking turn off a lot of men so she limited her dating pool more. I guess being seen as a bar hooker by creeps is better than being seen as a child to abuse by pedos

AvaOneLasTime · Answer

Not concerning, since we know she is 22.  But her situation is really awkward.

Subarugirl · Answer

Depends on the man, as long as the fact she looks like a child isn't the reason someone want's to be with her, shouldn't be an issue.

Better_off_here · Answer

i watched this show once, i personally would not i guess it seems strange for any man to wanna date her and what would happen when you maybe had sex with her, i would be a bit turned off by that myself.

OneManOnly01 · Answer

You can’t make a law against it but I find that gross cuz she looks like a kid.

Kiran_Yagami · Answer

Would we be concerned about either A) fucking a child or B) looking like we're fucking a child? I'm gonna go with YES, we would be VERY CONCERNED with both.

dumbassmcgee · Answer

Biden would be all up in that. He says, not my daughter, and legal? Hot damn.

Anonymous · Answer

For guys in their 20s it probably is fine but older guys are not gonna want to have to explain she is legal all the time lmao

RationalMale · Answer

Is that even real or a parody? The irony is, anyone she dates and has sex with is de facto someone who can get turned on for basically a child.

Fromdusktilldawn · Answer

she should work with Chris Hanson and play the decoy in To Catch A Predator

Anonymous · Answer

I don't see much wrong with it. Women her age literally roleplay in diapers and schoolgirl outifts to cater to their man's pedo fantasies.

blackwife · Answer

thats like saying men who date midget short woman are pedophiles, use logic, she's an adult

HeartFullOfGlue · Answer

Its a tough situation

OddBeMe · Answer

Chris Hansen has a job for her.

Dragonstarterplus · Answer

She's doomed

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