What are your opinions on the reason why black men prefer white women over black women?
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Look, I'll be very honest with you even though it might be not what you want to hear.
Because they know that white people are above them in society* so being able to fuck one of their women is like winning a trophy. Sex is not on equal terms, in sex women give control to men. So for a man to fuck any woman at all is to exert control over her (sorry feminists) and if it happens to be a girl from a race that you feel inferior towards then that gives you a big confidence and self-esteem boost. It also comes from their culture - in Africa it was a symbol status to have as many babies as possible with as many women as possible who were the sole providers while the man was like a kang with zero liability. This difference between races is also the reason why only the lowest of the low white women (or young, stupid girls who end up ruined by them) would actually go with a black guy. Most know that just these guys are elevating their social status, they'd be lowering it. Especially with the problems that black men commonly have - most importantly leaving their pregnant partners which unlike in black community is a huge stigma for a girl in white ones. As hard as it is for a single mother to find a partner, it's pretty much impossible if she's a single white woman with a black baby. It's just a mess, black men ruin their own women and they ruin "ours" too. Of course they are exceptions but if over 70% of black children are raised in single parent households then we can see that these are in fact, exceptions. And that is also the biggest reason why there's so much poverty in black communities. There usually is poverty with single parent household and if they fixed just that one thing about their culture then they'd be in a completely different place in society. That again goes back to the point that only the lowest of the low of white women will go with a black man or those very young ones because an intelligent woman knows to search for a partner who has a stable income and will be a good father. That, as a whole is not black men.
*I'm not saying that one race is inherently better or worse but you have to admit that as a whole white people are a lot more successful in life.
As a bm, who’s mother with 2 degrees one being a MBA that was offered a job as a deputy in the parliament of Canada. My dad a national felon got banned from Canada. Y’all pick the worst mates on purpose. I’ve seen many successful middle/upper black families ( 62% of black American families are middle class and up). The unsuccessful families usually have dead beat dad + welfare combo just like in all races😂. Your ignorance is very telling tho.
In my experience, many black men tend to prefer white women over black women because:
1. White women are more likely to be supportive and appreciate a man.
2. White women are different than what most black men are used to growing up.
3. White women are a sign of greater socioeconomic status, implying he's more successful in life than with a "hood rat" black chick.
4. White women tend to like and appreciate black men more than black women do.
5. White women are more likely to want to plan a family together and view long-term goals together.
6. Black women generally come off very negative and seem to nag too much. ("A pain in the ass.")
7. Black women have also been thought to be more possessive, jealous, paranoid, or likely to distrust her man.
8. Black women are thought by some to be less attractive looking (overweight and in their face).
9. Black women are thought to be far more likely to make bad life choices, such as being single mothers or uneducated.
10. Black women are thought to expect more from men and give back less.
Keep in mind, everyone's experiences are different and I don't fully agree with all of these. There are more positives to black women too, such as black women generally having thicker bodies, not expecting as high of an income as white women, and willing to settle for less successful men. Take that as you will.
I myself did almost marry a white woman before her passing. However, I never thought of her being "a white woman" and me being a "black male." Race was and still is completely irrelevant to me. I've been with and highly liked white, black, Asian, and Indian women before.
I don't care about race but the love of my life happened to be white.
Also, just to reiterate my earlier points: these are not what *I* specifically think. It's what others have told me over the years, which is why I said "they are thought to be" and so on. They're OPINIONS, not facts.
I think its primarily black women have turned off black men to dating them. As a white man who has dated black women, i have to say the issues i have with women in general are worse with black women. For example i dont date fat women, I've noticed more black women are fat than white. I also dont date liberal women and I've noticed more black women are liberal than white. Etc. Plus there is just less of them in general population wise. So the likelihood id find a black woman id date is very low, and id expect black men share a similar situation.
Because they all want to marry into the Kardashian Family who historically favor black men over white. Then there is also the fact that more black women are not as attractive.
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You think white women are more attractive on average than black women?
They see it as acceptance , and a status symbol , of course they are going to go outside of their own race , some women see it as a " statement " of non bias , certainly something you should be careful with...
I didn't ask anything. I thunk your confusing me with the original poster. Your analogy is completely flawed. You're missing the point. It's not that a book was written. It's that there's hard data to write the book about. It doesn't matter if you don't like the outcome, numbers don't lie. Not sure why you're so invested in this. Are you a black woman?
I'm saying show me hard data if you have it. I'm interested in different things. If there is data on the subject I would like to review it. In my experience the claim isn't anecdotally accurate.
That data is from a Facebook dating app. One set of data doesn't determine an outcome. You would need evidence that the sample of black males using the Facebook dating app represents the whole black male population.
And when you were given the information, you dismissed it. So fuck off, grow up, and do your own research and quit asking to be spoon fed and then dismissing the information. It's like talking to a brick wall.
No, I reviewed it an explained why it isn't valid. You are awfully aggressive towards someone who was just interested in a conversation with someone who knowledgeable on a subject.
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