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When I used to be a player/womanizer many many years ago, I used to meet a lot of women and some would be married. When they would tell me they're married I would ask them are they happy. It got to the point where I ended dating a married woman and eventually living with her when she separated from her husband. Nowadays I have sworn off dating married women because have been killed.
Well the thought used to cross my mind to fight a little and would think maybe I still have a chance... but naw. I just let it go and moved on... I did this on 2 occasions
Yep I've been there
Glad I just moved on... all for the better , at least for me!
Yeah, I don't waste my time. But what has happened a number of times is that she said she wanted me to meet her sister or friend (another reason why a guy should respect it when she says she isn't single).
You actually wanna date her fam tho when you liked her?
these were all women I had just met, so it wasn't complicated
if he's married/has a fiancee, yes. id give up
just dating a girl? id probably not want him, but it'd just be called desire. because like i want him, but i actually dont want him.
How do you want him but not actually want him lol? Is it like how we like celebs but wouldn't actually date them because of all the crap theyre already invested inv
well technically yeah like. its called desire. like i only would like to have that person, but i dont want him really. its like how you see so many different kinds of pastries in a bakery, and you like so many of em but you only choose a few that you really truly want
Depends. Am I getting extra something? Then yes please? I see relationship as investment. The only dealbreaker would be children, marriage or possessiveness, knowing this person isn't exactly loyal kind.
Wowz
Guys usually go to great effort to make sure a women is single and interested before he approaches to reduce the number of rejections he has to endure.
Lmao not the ones here
One guy asking 999 women out while 99 guys don't ask at all is the normal these days.
Normally Yes I would walk away. I could stay and pursue her if I get a hint from her. May be she want to get out of a abusive relationship or already almost done with him.
If a woman says she's not single, I leave her alone. I used to have a couple of married women hit on me at work. I didn't feel like being their second banana
😂😂
Give up is not the right word I think. More like respecting their decision and getting to an understanding that we do not have any place here.
Respecting their decision? Okay yea they might be with someone but Their decision could be to have a main and a sidepiece. I wouldn't respect that
Yes definitely! Like you said now.
Yes, definitely. Anything else is just rude. Besides, if you went after a taken person and they jumped ship to you, they'll do the same TO you with someone else. Is that the kind of person you really want?
Exactly
I don't go after taken men. You're right. It's really not worth it, and it's morally wrong to do that.
I said it wasn't worth it because he pretended he’d leave her so that i’d act on my feelings but thankfully I realized he was never gonna leave her and wanted us both
No point in getting invested in something you can't have. However, anyone that has read my opinions on here will know that I am not against an open relationship so if that is an avenue that isn't blocked, go for it. Just remember that no means no.
Yeap. I don't condone cheating so unless I know 100% that everyone is ok with it, I cut contact.
Yea I don't know where they get off thinking everyone is bout that life anyways 🤣
Exactly. So unless I'm talking to you're actual spouse and they're 100% ok with it, I won't even bother. 99% of couples aren't good with it so usually I assume it's a no and I don't engage.
Lmao now a days its looking like a good 40-50% are okay with open relationships tbh
They say they are but they get too jealous and controlling. They just want to bump genitals with someone they don't have to go to bed with every night and not feel guilty.
Omg you’re preaching on all these posts today 😂👏
I try to please. Mama's in an off mood today lol
I was yesterday so i understand haha
Lol I saw
Mf ruined my bday. I didn't like that 🤣
Well fuck that Schweinebauer. Happy belated birthday and I hope TODAY is good for you hon
Thank you. And what is a schweinbauer 😂😂😂
Anytime 😊 and it's german for pig farmer. Basically a low class, dirty moron.
😂😂😂 i saw schwein and knew it had to be similar to swine but that last part through me for a loop haha
Lol usually does. Similar to schweinhund, a pig dog. Basically a crass, pompous moron.
Yes but the true question is do they give up on me?😏🤣
A lot dont lol. No good bastards
Absolute trash. 🚮
If the person is married it is game over. If she is just in a relationship the ball is still in play.
Wow lmao
Yes if I find out that she is taken or in a relationship I don't try to flirt or hook up with her. I don't cheat or tempt people to cheat on there partner.
Good good
I make my moves when I'm ready, not when it's my turn. If she's willing to step out on her man, I'll take her. And when I'm done with her, I'll let him know. Serves her right for being a cheating hoe.
But it would make you the cheating hoe’s accomplice hoe 🤣
I'm good with it. She's gonna get it from somewhere.
Yes. There is no point in getting in the middle of something. Some people may find that cute/fun/exciting but to me it's unnecessary drama.
True
I would never pursue someone in a relationship. I respect relationships and If they let me steal them away I already know they do the same to me.
True true
yep. its a matrer of respect plus am not competing for anyone. either you like ne or you dont. try making it a competition and you can walk on out.
Yea fck competition. This ain't a sport 🤣
as i pointed out in another question about competition soon after this one. i am here to be your partner not your competition nor a contestant. once it becomes a cometition, i believe it has become unhealthy, and its my cue to go or for her to walk on out and keep on walking.
Im guilty of having put a lot of guys in a love triangle situation in the past. They were aware of eachother and even battled it out. But im older now and know its best to be decisive and exit out the options rather than introducing them to one another
had never seen the video to that sobg. ty dizzy