Guy I have been dating for a month wants me come over?

[Anonymous]

I went on three dates with a guy which felts more like friendly dates than romantic ones. It was more like getting to know each other but he never put a label on things. Last time we FaceTimed he asked if my parents were away and wanted to come over. I said they would be leaving the country so that would be a future possibility. We never kissed or anything so I’m confused to why he wants to come over. Is he just going out with me so that we can eventually hook up?

[PrettyPriya]

Did he say what the plans were if you do go to his place?

[Asker]

The thing is he never invited me over. He tried to invite himself over two times. I think it is awkward cuz he also lives with his parents

[PrettyPriya]

If he is inviting you over, I'd ask what he plans on doing for the evening. If he can't come up with a good plan, you have your answer.

If he does say "Oh, I'd like to have dinner and watch a movie" you can then reply how you wish or something like "Great, sounds good. After the movie I will have to go home because I work in the morning" or whatever.

Just get the idea that you are going over there to hook up out of his head.

[Asker]

Yeah. Why do you think he’s not inviting me over?

[Asker]

He offered to come but he didn’t invite me u to o his place

[PrettyPriya]

Maybe because of his parents? Hard to say.

[Asker]

I guess so yeah. Also I lied to my mom about him saying he’s just friend of a friend. When I told this to him he was like “you shouldn’t lie”. Not sure why he cares that I lie to my family? Lol

[Dragonstarterplus]

Not enough info so nobody here knows

[ashish804]

he really wanna bang u