Guys, would you have a relationship with a much younger girl?

[Anonymous]

Something like 38M - 18F (18 is above the age of consent and of majority in my country)

What could a much younger girl do to attract you? How should she behave? What traits should she have? (Please no obscene or ironic answers)

[Anonymous]

Yes of course. You know when I was you get unused to think when I was in my teens that someone in their 30’s was old. But when you reach that age or beyond you realize it means nothing as far as feeling old. I actually do more now that I’m older, more than most people. As long as we’re into one another I’m good w that. I wouldn’t want her to expect that I’m going to make her 100% happy just as I should t expect the same. That happiness can only come from her as far as fulfilling her life as far as her needs, wants accomplishments as it would w me. As far as attracting me, just being herself. Not trying too hard to impress me. Someone who can just get up and go, like a pair of jeans, shirt, shoes and a hat. But can also be feminine when she needs to be as far as dressing up. As for behaving, I don’t mind if she acts a little goofy as I’m goofy myself. At the same time I do t want someone who acts out especially in public for attention. Someone who isn’t addicted to her phone or social media. As for traits, she could be a brunette or blond, red head, doesn’t matter.

[ChrisMaster69]

I think that the question is slightly wrong or rather the progression for a relationship is in wrong order.

it would not be that she was much younger.

it would be that you met someone that was compatible with something you do, similar interest, similar sense of humour, ability to communicate well, various stuff like that,

The age side of things would be a by product.

example a guy and girl meet in a club,

he thinks she’s 25 say,

she thinks he’s 35.

they find out he’s 38 and she’s 18.

This finding out may be after a couple of dates or getting to know each other.

for me it’s wrong to do it because of the age.

it’s likely just rarer to have things in common at times.

There are potentially some other reasons from the girls point of view, however keeping to just the above.

[Asker]

This sure is a right way of seeing it, thanks for answering

[ChrisMaster69]

No problem and thank you

[HighValue]

Yes as long as there were compatible morals, compatible long term life goals, she had an acceptable past, didn't do any drugs or drink heavy (if she drank alcohol at all she needs to quit for me to be interested in her), and we had some things in common we enjoyed doing. I'd be hoping she liked board games like Catan, Stratego, etc. and fantasy or sci-fi genre movies, TV, etc. and was interested in physical stuff too like riding bikes and stuff.
I'd only want her if she wanted long term and exclusive and wanted to eventually create and raise a family too.

[Asker]

Thank you!

[JSmuve]

Well this question is going to ruffle the feathers of all the little gaglettes that think younger women "in their prime" don't want "old, ugly" guys.

I could probably have a relationship with a girl about that age as long as she's mature enough to be in a relationship and we vibe well.

To attract me, she'd have to be physically attractive and look approachable. She'd also be good-natured, feminine, and take an active interest in me.

[Asker]

Thank you!
So do you think it is possible for me to attract the man I like?

[JSmuve]

It might be possible. It might not. That's the nature of attraction.

[Berethor]

Guys tend to prefer younger girls by default, so it more depends on what the girl wants.

https://tvtropes.org/pmwiki/pmwiki.php/Main/AgeGapRomance

[Asker]

thanks :)

[Berethor]

Glad to help. :)

[normalice]

As long as there is mutual physical attraction, sexual compatibility, and no glaring personality conflicts, sure. But with an age gap like that personality conflicts are almost a guarantee. A girl that age is just starting to look for her place in this world whereas I have to start thinking about vacating mine. Such a duality of interests is going to result in conflicts.

[Diodoro]

Probably not. 22 is about the youngest I'll go and I'm 32. But realistically I don't meet girls younger than 24-26 who are relationship material.

So if 8-9 years is big then I guess yes. If not then no

[Adam1978]

Yes but she needs to make the move, I don't run after so young girls. I don't want to be the creepy old guy.

[Asker]

That makes sense, thanks for answering

[Morning_Cereal]

Well I'm 31 so not quite 38. But at least for me if she looks like a mature lady and not a teen girl then that could trick my mind into thinking she is the one even though she is underage.

[Asker]

I see, thanks!

[MrtoddsWildRide]

I did. She had a really nice attitude, was mature for her age and looked really good. It helped that we shared the same kinks too. (No ageplay was not one of them)

[MJtheCoach]

Not for long term. When I was 38 I smashed a 18 year old girl. One of the best experience I had.
Fit 18 year old! Wow!


But for long term I don’t want a gap that big.
25+ for long term is good.

[Andres77]

That's just pathetic.
If a man can't find a peer as a partner he has no business looking for girls as young as his own children.

[Recurrence]

I wouldn’t. I’m not attracted to really young people, I prefer around my age or older

[Asker]

I see, thanks for answering

[Hanrej]

Not now obviously but I could consider it in a few years. Even then though it would require lots of communication about expectations etc. In my oppinion such age-difference wear on the ones involved.

[exitseven]

If she was my daughter's age it would be too creepy.

[Dchrls78104]

If she brings something to the table---compatibility---it would be no issue for me. But my dating age range is really 20 to 45 years old.

[Sam_The_Savage]

I'm fuckboy so no question of relationship..
I prefer mature girl over young girl

[NYlatefun]

I have had a few of those, all of course with 18+ aged girls. The biggest difference was 21 years.

[Asker]

That's cool, thanks

[NYlatefun]

What attracts you about him, being so much older? For me I love the energy and obviously their youth.

[Asker]

First of all he is really handsome and attractive, and he is also nice, caring, “cute”, funny and I could go on all day long haha

[2021biguy]

Sure if she's cute, caring, happy and faithful, those are important.

[Asker]

Ok, thanks :)

[2021biguy]

You're welcome good luck :)

[InferiorElegy]

I shouldn't be so picky because I've never dated and I look deformed in the face

[nawtee_me]

Yes, even at my age I would have a relationship with girls of legal age.

[driven159]

age does not matter too many other things that are more important, but most be an adult

[Hispanic-Cool-Guy]

20 year difference is too much for me. I wouldn't.

[Humbletallguy6ft6]

If she's hot.

[JoyGirl]

Some guys would.

[jahaims]

Nope