I am 5'2. Is it over for me?

[homegardenerisback]

Getting it off my chest, my biggest insecurity. I am 5'2. Due to this, I cannot think of a dating life to begin with but I gave up on that years back. On top of that, my career is down the drain too because of this and I have ended up applying to be part of a janitorial service agency. Let's see how that works out.

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@CourtneyJane
@-Pex1994-

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Do dating prospects improve if you are janitor of the month?

[WhatTheHeckkkk]

Why would it be over for you?
If you constantly focus on height being an issue, then yeah maybe it is over for you. You’re in control of how you live your life, and that means you are in control of making it go down the drain or making it a great life.

[homegardenerisback]

I don't have any career opportunities either apart from being a janitor because of this

[WhatTheHeckkkk]

Lol…No one judges someone’s height when it comes to a career. Skills matter more…

[homegardenerisback]

Yeah but there is a huge demand for 5'2 Indian janitors. Life is fucked for short Indians. Only janitors or IT support.

[WhatTheHeckkkk]

Lol what the hell.

[-Pex1994-]

He can work in a circus or something.

[MCheetah]

Believe me; I know exactly how you feel. I'm short too, though not your same height, and I loathe beyond what words can describe. You may not ever win society's respect or admiration (that too is something I had to give up chasing), but you can still find happiness on your OWN terms!

You'll have to give up being "good enough" for others and only focus on being good enough for yourself. You'll have to live selfishly, because for others (mainly women, but guys can be mean too), you'll never be acceptable. You'll have to become a one-man island and from there, you can start to build your own cabin of paradise. It won't be easy; it'll probably take your whole life to get there. But until science invents a guaranteed and safe way to let people permanently change their height or other body parts, what else can you do?

[lrina]

no? i can't tell whether or not this is a serious question.

[SaoirseS]

Nope. Only if you want it to be.

[homegardenerisback]

Well, my goal now is to be janitor of the month if I get in

[SaoirseS]

Go for it! And good luck 😀

[The1Girl]

Are you trolling? I can't tell

[homegardenerisback]

No, not at all.

[The1Girl]

It's just that your comments about micropenis and janitor of the month make it sound like you're trolling

[homegardenerisback]

Why is that?

[The1Girl]

Just sounded like an odd way to put things.
But have you considered moving away from India for better prospects? Or (assuming you haven't) studying so you can get a better job? It doesn't sound like India has a lot to offer if all you can get is Janitor or IT support work...

[-Pex1994-]

You can do rajpal yadav maxing man

[UniquelyBasic]

If you decide its over for yourself then it is.

[Nikki1989]

Nope. I am 5'2 too.

[homegardenerisback]

I have a penis though, a micropenis but still