Would other guys like my girlfriend?

[Nenny5671]

Hello people. I have had a girlfriend for 2 years now, but lately I've been feeling uncertain? (I'm not sure what the right word is).

Basically, I have a problem where I really, really hate it when my girlfriend gets attention from other guys. I'm not toxic or controlling about it, but I think it's becoming a big psychological issue to me personally. She hangs out with a few guy friends regularly, and she claims that they are "just friends." Also, when she hangs out, there are always other women present.

Now, just out of curiosity, what are the chances that any of the guys she hangs out with actually like her? Assume they are your typical guys you find in college or wherever. I kinda just want a "gut feel" kind of response. I trust that she will not cheat but I really need an honest answer because I need to figure out how to deal with this problem.

And I know, it's all subjective, but if my question is too vague, then just say something like "It's likely" or something.

Physically speaking, my girlfriend is probably a 4.5-5/10 in terms of physical attractiveness (I don't mean to be rude when I say this). She has a pretty big forehead, wears glasses, has acne, really shy, short hair, etc. You probably wouldn't notice her in public. (Physical description if that affects anything and again I don't mean to be rude)

Anyways what do you think? Please be honest thank you!

[WhatTheHeckkkk]

Without a picture, I’m sure many people wouldn’t be able to give you an accurate answer… But then again, I highly suggest you do not post a photo of your girlfriend without her consent.


There’s always a possibility someone could like her in that friend group, but if they do, they probably will not pursue if they know she has a boyfriend and know that she will reject them because she has a boyfriend.


If you have an issue with her hanging out with that friend group, you should talk to her about it. However, I think it’s something you need to work on, with a therapist.


Having friends of the opposite sex, or even being acquaintances, is a common occurrence in the adult world.. Someone is bound to have an attraction to her… And its out of your control. So, I think it’s something you need to work on.

[Nenny5671]

Looks wise, I guess you could compare her to Heather Matarazzo but thanks for the input.

[SnakeBoop]

some could like her.
doesn't mean anything is going to happen.
You really need to see some therapist or something for yourself.

[Nenny5671]

I've actually been considering a therapist since this problem of mine doesn't seem very common overall. Thanks for the input.

[Honesttguy]

Jezz sounds like i would want to fuk her, but many guys have low standards so they would hit anything that they can so keep that in mind.

[pepperhicks]

Where are you when she is hanging out with the guys and other women? If it is just friends can’t you be at the party?

[AngelMegumin]

You are getting obsessed. This is a rocky road, and your partner should support and encourage you to believe in her. You will feel better once you trust her.

[Nenny5671]

Working on it!

[NathanDavis]

" I really need an honest answer because I need to figure out how to deal with this problem. "

seek professional therapy...

[Nenny5671]

Got it and thank you.

[EnglishEuropean]

She sounds like a dog. Why are you even dating her?

[Nenny5671]

Oh she's the sweetest girl I've ever met. I'm not a fan of girls above a 6 or 7 because they all catch too much attention from other guys.

[EnglishEuropean]

Well you sound insanely jealous. But relationships don't come with a lifetime guarantee. Just don't give her a reason to look elsewhere.

[Jaykrisss]

Have you talked about this to her?
If yes what was her response? Positive or negative?

[Nenny5671]

I talked to her regarding this problem a few hours ago. She told me that she didn't think any of them liked her but its not certain. ig pretty pointless asking lol

[OddBeMe]

I’m sure some do “like” her. Why does that bother you? Are you that fragile in your relationship?

[Fuentes]

Damn stop being a simp and dump her

[Iron_Man]

Yes they want her

[JesseJayNeak]

I’d be concerned

[Nenny5671]

Could you expound a tad? Thanks

[JesseJayNeak]

I’ve been cheated on before and never picked up the signals

[JesseJayNeak]

Anyway, be careful when she talks to guys. Follow her on a distance