Which is more important to you in a relationship:money, sex or personality?

[Anonymous]

Which is more important to you in a relationship:money, sex or personality?

[Little_Bumblebee]

Personality. Why be with the person if I don't want to be with the person?
If the personality isn't there, I don't see a reason to be in the relationship, to begin with.

[insteadfew]

Personality matters even if sex sucks and he is sexually repulsive physically?

[Little_Bumblebee]

@insteadfew I have to be attracted to him as well as I want him to be attracted to me.
And sex is important, especially if we're not compatible at all.

The personality is just more important.
I would never date someone I don't like as a person just to get sex - I've technically done that before, and it was so not worth it and a lot of unhealthy things occurred.

And what is sexually repulsive in your head?

Also yeah, money is important too, but not in the way it seems a lot of men talk about on here. It's not like I need him to be rich or anything. But it's about how they use their money if they have debt and such. Do they know how to budget etc.

But personality is still the most important, because if that's not there, then there wouldn't be a relationship (for me) to begin with.

[insteadfew]

Sexually repulsive physically can be anything, it varies from person to person what they consider physically sexually repulsive about the opposite gender.
It could be beard , or body hair on a guy , or skinny body , or dad bod... or whatever else...

[Little_Bumblebee]

@insteadfew Hmm well, if I'm repulsed by them, that's a problem. I do have to be attracted to them at some point. But it's not like they have to look like a movie star or anything at all. I've been with guys who look very different from each other, both with their hair, bodytype and such.

[luvstoned4him]

personality because without a good one we won't even make it to the sex part

[2021biguy]

Personality is the most important, but there has to be some physical attraction too.

[whereismyjohnny]

Personality. I don't give a shit about money.

[insteadfew]

Personality matters even if sex sucks and he is sexually repulsive physically?

[Anonymous]

Money shsjajJ