Relationship wise which is more important to you: the money or the sex? Why/why not?

[Anonymous]

[bennies_819]

Neither is important to me what is important is that the person that I am dating stays true to who he is and his personality is what I would like in my forever partner and I am very picky about who I date and is he compatible with me if he is not compatible with me money cannot harvest me otherwise cannot buy me cuz I'm not an object I have more self worth than that and sexual contact can only go so far but I wouldn't even have any type of sexual contact with that person if I don't like the person that I'm dating and I wouldn't even do sexual anything until we are married so none of that whatever happened.

[shaysh87]

Financial problems are one of the number 1 reasons for divorce. So money is the right answer.

[Asker]

I like this answer. An orgasm feels great but it's only temporary. Sometimes you're not in the mood for sex. You don't need sex to be intimate but simple things like kissing hugging, going out to dinner, etc are also intimacy. You can also masturbate (lol) We need money to pay bills, buy food, etc. We need it to get things done.

[shaysh87]

@abitcurious2022

Its been proven that well educated couples who both have decent paying jobs tend to divorce less. Couples with 1 income stream or both work low wage jobs tend to have significantly higher divorce rates

[DoctorSex]

Sex.

If the reptilian brain is motivated by food, water and sex, then by getting sex out the way, you're free to focus purely on money (food/water).

Kind regards,

DoctorSex

[mobiusforniner]

You dont need money to live happily but you sure as hell need money to live comfortably... so money

[Pinay_ako]

You can always have sex on a nice house of your own… not on the streets when you’re homeless. So $

[letuswaltzforthedead]

The money is 100% more important. I dont mind working to provide for my family and earning the money. I just can't date someone who is a big impulsive spender or just really bad with money. Working with someone who is bad with money and won't change, that's harder to deal with than faking an orgasm.

[ElementoP]

Why fake an orgasm though? Wouldn't it be better to just be honest and help him get better at it?
Of course some men are selfish in bed, but I would say most guys would like to know if they're something wrong. It wouldn't hurt my feelings

[ElementoP]

Whoops you're 17. Nevermind, don't answer that. I'm not talking about sex with kids.

Settle down Chris Hansen, it was an accident!

[letuswaltzforthedead]

@ElementoP i was trying to name a worst case scenario, you don't want to date someone who is absolutely horrible with money but you also dont want to date someone you're sexually incompatible in every way. Anyways, sorry for the Chris Hansen moment 😅

[ElementoP]

Lol, my fault not yours. That make sense though

[Adam1978]

I don't get it, I got money, so relationship brings sex, not money. My own money is more important than having sex, the other person money I don't care about, it's theirs.

[CA4444]

Money doesn’t matter, what matters is the attitude, if the man isn’t even trying to provide for himself or still pursuing childish dreams that’s a problem

[Sirenboobzilla]

Intimacy. I already make enough money for my boyfriend to be an at home hubby (he's not at the moment)

[Orange85]

Sex. I’m not in a relationship for money? I got a job for that

[Anthony20108]

the company tbh i just like having companionship xD

[Subarugirl]

Its easier to fake an orgasm then deal with being homeless...

[Wubs3000]

Why do people fake one? then your man won't work harder to make you get one

[Subarugirl]

@Wubs3000 to protect his fragile ego

[SolitarySolace]

Neither. But if I had to choose, I’d say Money. I’m not interested in sex at all.

[Tomsta]

The money

Without money one couldn't have a life that could lead to sex,

[Keepitreal007]

Sex. It lasts longer and is more meaningful.

[Hardworkingguy]

The money comes and goes but good sex is more difficult to find in a long term relationship

[Nikki1989]

Everybody needs money.

[CloudMassacre]

Their personality is most important

[Gloree]

Not money or sex. They are part of everything.

[ChooChooHaha]

Neither.