Why is this guy behaving like a creep?

[pokemonnn66]

This school classmate I liked 1 year back glares at me with sharp gaze whenever I am alone. Whenever I am around people he won't look at me but tries to be around me as much as possible. Appears in front of my eyes. He always takes time to watch my instagram stories. Like I upload quotes he watches 1 after 5 mins another after 2 mins another. He behaves normal with my friends like smiling at them and talking. He has dated few of my acquaintances. I know this guy from childhood we used to tease each other a lot. His best friend would tease him with my name. He was very sweet and kind to me. But now he behaves like a pyschopath. Only with me. I invited him to my restaurant he just said thank you so much 😉. I try to text him he replies after hours. Whenever I am alone he looks at me like he hates me. I feel so bad. When I say hi he says hi back. But he never initiates a convo. Why does he dislike me so much. He stares at me from distance with I dont like you because you hurt me look. I removed him from my social media. He sent me req again but I removed him again.
Its not like he is a shy guy. Infact he is a player. He loves to flirt. I've always ignored him. He does something to get my attention. He knows I like him.

[mobjay82]

I’m confused you say your creeped out by him
But at the end of this you say “ he knows I like him”. there's an issue here I think him behaving creepy mighh is what you like? What do you think you did to make stare at you like he hates you

[Waldoe]

Stop ignoring him... Stop playing games... I understand why he looks at you that way, you are a TEASE...

[JuanVeIasco]

Men & especially ugly men are considered inherently 'creepier' than women.

[Vikkrram]

Definitely got a crush on you...

[pokemonnn66]

Really? I dont think so.. I feel he just wants me to like him without reciprocating it.

[Vikkrram]

See let me explain you these are the subtle signs of liking. He is behaving like this coz he don't want to break the ice first coz he don't know ur feelings. And anyone is afraid of rejections.

So that's why till he knows that yoy like him it will go on or maybe even after.

[Vikkrram]

And i think that you also like him...

[pokemonnn66]

Um yes I've liked him for 9 years. He knows it. He has seen me getting jealous. He would sit in the next row and stare at me till I look at him. I would always avoid him. Now he stares at me like I've done him wrong and he's planning a revenge. Scary tho

[Vikkrram]

See you answered your own question. These are Psychological games that one should be enlightened by time to time.

I would say that try talking to him orherwise things would get worst.

[pokemonnn66]

What if I dont want to sound needy and dont want to initiate convo first

[pokemonnn66]

He is a playboy for sure. If he is getting girls from dating apps etc why is he bothering me? ( my main question)

[Vikkrram]

Ok maam let me answer your first and then second one

[Vikkrram]

First if you don't do anything

You have feelings for him and that's for sure i know that , so you would get trapped in ur own feelings resulting in mental stress.

There would be a time where u would be really depressed thinking only about him (who knows maybe that phase is going on)

And second everyone has a heart and everyone have feelings so , that's why he feels for you and you feels for him. That's what we called love i guess.

[pokemonnn66]

Ohkk thank you Vikram!

[pokemonnn66]

I appreciate your response

[pokemonnn66]

From this Indian :)

[Vikkrram]

Hey thanks Maam I hope i have made ur doubts a bit clear.
😊

[pokemonnn66]

Yes!

[jammcm]

I think he has a crush on you but does not know how to deal with it.

[Avicenna]

he's just a bad Person

[Anonymous]

He's got a crush on you, but he's insecure.

[pokemonnn66]

Sure? Why insecure

[Opinion Owner]

No idea really.

[In_Trance]

Just doesn't seem like a good match to me