Gym crush laughed at me with his friend?

[Anonymous]

Hi guys I really don’t know what to think I’m feeling really shitty and humiliated.. my gym crush caught me looking at him twice today and when I left he was working out with his friend. I went to get a shake and saw from a far his friend sticking his head out to look at me then laughs with my crush… wtf? (Side note: his friends would always check me out in the gym but he’s the guy I’m actually into) never worked up the courage to talk to him though.. now I guess I won’t ever 😂😭

Also my friend is friends with a girl that’s close to him and I’m afraid she might have told him I liked him or whatever 😣

don’t know what to think

[eugstka]

Hey girl! I will just say, on the girl's side of things, when me and my friends are out, my friends are often looking at my crush to see if they're looking at me... when they are, my friend tells me, and I can't help but giggle with them in excitement!

I'm not sure if guys do the same thing, but maybe his friend was checking to see if you were looking, and then they laughed because "dude, she is totally checking you out!" which is exciting for them too!

And as for the girl pal, if she told him, all the better in my opinion! Sometimes, I think guys are completely unaware of when females like them (we're just so darn good at hiding it), that it takes someone to say, "HEY! She thinks your cute," for them to really see you as a potentially datable option. It's kinda scary, but it definitely speeds up the process haha!
Good luck! And don't feel discouraged just yet!

[Asker]

Thank you for this! It made me feel better hahaha but I don’t know if I should just ignore now just in case cause I wouldn’t wanna be labeled as a stalker 😩

[Anonymous]

Ha hah.

Feels shitty doesn’t it?

Now you know how I feel when young women stare and laugh at me in the gym.

[Asker]

I’m not the kind of girl that would stare and laugh at guys at the gym.. I’m sorry that happened to you people are shitty

[TheMajesticKing777]

Try and pretend they don't exist

[Asker]

That’s what I was thinking 🤔 wouldn’t wanna get labeled as stalker

[TheMajesticKing777]

I say it's the best choice at this point until you have an opportunity to talk to him if you want

[Asker]

Yeah.. I think I’m just not gonna give him any more attention. If he’s interested he’ll approach. I wouldn’t wanna look desperate

[TheMajesticKing777]

Sounds like a smart move to me

[Ghen28]

So it's been a year later. What happened? Did that person ever approach you or did it fizzle into nothing?