Is courting still a thing in the US or do I have to go overseas to find a mate?

[cth2188]

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+1 y

When I say go over seas I mean find an intentional mate who isn’t westernized with feminism , hate , or toxicity as I don’t date men

[dorksided1]

Courting is how I was raised and it seems to be frowned upon these days. Like if you don't have sex on the first date somehow you are weird meanwhile most people treat sex as nothing more then a handshake. In the Us it is very rare, I would rather just stay single then compromise that. I would say possibly overseas

[cth2188]

Thanks I agree I wouldn’t not compromise in this country esp with dating

[Berethor]

With no man in the picture, who it the one that should do the courting?

[cth2188]

Woman

[Berethor]

I mean who is the one.

[Berethor]

They both women, so which one? :)

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[cth2188]

Whoever is leading me

[cth2188]

The dominant one

[cth2188]

First I have to find a compatible mate