How Long Does It Take For You To Figure Out If You Should Date Someone (From A Complete Stranger)?

[Anonymous]

For better context, in your position, from meeting a complete stranger to dating them; how long does it take for you to get to know them to get the dating stage?

[Siren777]

Not really that long... I tend not to like to lead people on. So I am honest with them if I feel that this wouldn't work. I may have many reasons, I may only have a few or I go with my intuition. You know, you can tell with the way they treat you and others or whether they respect you. There are many indicators... chemistry, good conversationalist, humor, values and whether they're suited/compatible...

[peace1591]

I dated two guys and both of them were strangers until three months before our relationship started. Although I didn't had very strong feelings for them and eventually my feelings increased and I became more serious and obsessed over them. I took almost 6-8 months after our relationship started to totally believe them and for my feelings to develop completely.

[Sugar100]

I don't know I’ve been dating for 2 years and never met his family this isn’t normal 😞 2 years and his mom don’t know I exist? Holidays I feel single as I have to spend it alone while everyone brings guy next to them for all parties holidays.

[melanieeeB]

Girl that's not dating, that's being his side chick or something. Sorry to say sp

[Sugar100]

@melanieeeB then what’s dating living together? Is that dating?

[Sugar100]

He works full time daily so how is meeting me on his only day off a side chick?

[Sugar100]

Doesn’t make sense he’s dating me weekly and he only sees girlfriend on chritmas & Easter? That’s not a side chick.

[melanieeeB]

No you don't have to be living together but like what I meant is by 2 years, you should have already met his family. If he doesn't want to meet his mom, how important can this be to him? I see 🚩🚩🚩

[Sugar100]

@melanieeeB he talks of his mom all the time but don’t tell me to meet her

[Sugar100]

No girl dates guy forver til you are old 50 and never meet mom

[melanieeeB]

And why haven't you met her yet? Lol

[Elony]

I believe he has slept with other women without any proof , secretly. you might be the last number , he is playing, manipulative with smart ways ,

[Sugar100]

@Elony how he’s playing smart ways?

[Elony]

No one can check our whatsapp chatting apps directly , because we use passwords, or delete them, can just ask our other lovers to let us know what time they should call , of course not when we are home, and we can meet them secretly with many strategies , be careful ! especially when we dont want to check follow where he goes, we seems to be too naive innocent until we realize his actions become suspicious

[Sugar100]

@Elony I think it’s barley been 1 year and half we are dating. Last year and this year.

[DizzyDesii]

I’ll know Anywhere from 2 weeks to a month. But i wouldn't agree to the date until after at least a month of knowing them

[DizzyDesii]

Technically i’ll know in one convo if i want to keep talking. If i lose excitement in talking to them in less than a week, then they’re out that same week

[melanieeeB]

I need one conversation to know if I'm interested in the first place and after that max. 3 dates and I just know

[melanieeeB]

but actually only two people made it to the 3rd date until now, soo yeah

[SphynxUK]

I know from the first conversation whether I want to date them or not.

[Tiptoetamm]

It ranges from person to person but on average month couple of months when it feels right

[Amy10223]

A few hours of getting to know them.

[Anonymous]

Whenever it feels right.

[Asker]

On average, how long does that take

[gabby100]

A couple of dates can do it..

[flirtatiousgirl]

A month enough for me

[Anonymous]

At least 12 years.. so I found out 😬