Women, what are your experiences after dating a gym douche?

[supcurA]

is it true most gym guys are douche are there are only some douches. also did u find any gentleman or interesting doods in the gym. how did ur gym dates go if they ever happened?

[Anonymous]

Not sure this qualifies, but I dated the gym rat. Totally body obsessive. He never made any comments about me or forced me into the gym or said anything negative about me, which was nice, but he did make it clear that gym time was his time....and he had a lot of that, twice a day. Like he would not talk to me, look at me, acknowledge me until his sessions were over and god forbid you try to schedule anything when "I KNEW!!!!" it was his workout time. I can't blame him though...you know, believe people when they tell you who and what they are, but that relationship wasn't for me. I don't mind someone who takes care of their body but when you can't possibly ever deviate from the schedule for anything...how do you live like that because life often comes up and you need to be able to adapt to change.

[valentina4eva]

i don’t think it’s true to say all gym guys are douches😲 there are lots of friendly guys at the gym too u just have to avoid the weirdos😂😅 the gym bro’s are the guys i have a weakness for thooo🙈🙈

[Guy__]

So you like masculine men but not when gym's more important than you? So then gym bro isn't what you're after, but just active healthy muscular men. Which doesn't necessarily require a gym. Or do you really mean the shiny plastic clothes and water bottles?

[Bricealan]

I worked with a girl, that lifted and then was in contests. She had a girlfriend that said she was just too obsessed with it and could not tolerate her fixation with it. My own interaction with her in the workplace was at times combative, in that she could be more aggressive about 'work related' things than was necessary, in my opinion.

I ran and competed for about 5 years, and it destroyed my social life, in that is all I could concentrate on, outside of my career

[Anonymous]

is one of these guys at my gym , broke up with his girlfriend maybe and now he is hitting on the girl i knew there. i'm not even sure he broke up with her , when ever i get a chance to talk to her will make sure she knows what is really going on there and finally gets rid of him

he doesn't even really like her she was played for a fool , i feel bad saying something but someone has to

[Dinklex3]

I've never met a gym douche.
All the men I've met who are dedicated to keeping in shape have been super sweet.

[supcurA]

at least a place where all doods aren't douche lol

[Dinklex3]

Plenty of places where men aren't douches 😛

[Apulu_Imback]

Not really. I have a cousin brother and gym is like a must have for him but he is actually very caring and protective. My piano teacher too. He is very polite.

[Kayla45]

Yeah. 😂 Guys flexing their muscles at me while I'm on the treadmill working on my cardio. 😂 They think their Alpha Males or something, oh well let's not hurt their pride and ego now. 🤭

[Emilyis]

I only dated two other boys besides my husband and I would never date a JOCK!

[supcurA]

why even bother to ans

[Emilyis]

read the answers from all of the other women Douchebag.

[Secret6620]

He was constantly cheating on me and lying about everything. Complete douchebag

[supcurA]

damn welp bad expereinces shape u to not to trust. well at least u moved on.

[Secret6620]

Definitely

[TacosRAwesome]

Closest I came to was my second ex. He was obsessed with healthy eating and I guess was doing some kind of paleo diet of sorts. Was kinda a douche but I did look fit with his support / guidance.

[barkhaa]

I once had a ons with my gym trainer. But we never dated.

[supcurA]

dude ur super cute ❤🤒 i could be ur gym trainer

[barkhaa]

😂😅

[Themostabsurd]

As a gym douche myself, the most common complaints i've gotten are that I spend too much time working out, or that she suspects me of cheating.

[captain_voidwalker]

Bet dollars to donuts you ladies will go back and date another one. You never learn

[supcurA]

🙄gym doods have broken hearts . broken heart is the only reason i started to work out.

[Anonymous]

He told me many times that i was small because i don’t lift 🏋🏻‍♀️

[supcurA]

😂 thats just his way of pushing u

[Opinion Owner]

I don’t feel it that way because i don’t need any pushing from anyone.. 🤣
He’s more like, body shaming. Mostly aiming at guys who aren’t as big as him 😂

[supcurA]

😂 feel most of the gym doods feel insecure about them

[Anonymous]

Yeah, don't do it. They are the worst.

[flirtatiousgirl]

I never had