Guys, how do you feel when a girl goes up to you at the gym, even if you already have a girlfriend?

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There’s a really cute guy at the gym. He comes daily but only by himself. I think he has a girlfriend but I’m not sure.
We have made eye contact many times over the past 2 months and I've even noticed him looking over at me while I’m working out (I do the same to him lol)
I wanted to compliment him and say something like “I like your glasses, they look nice on you.” Then the balls in his court after that..

Whether you have a girlfriend or not, how would you feel about that? Creeped out by that comment?

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

Sounds cheesy. Leave him alone. Men go to workout, not to meet chicks. May be flattering but I’m not there to meet women. Besides nowadays w the way a lot of women blast men on YouTube just for breathing, I think most men try to avoid women.

exitseven · Accepted Answer

I go to the gym to workout and not pick up women. i am friendly enough but I even before I was married i would never be interested in anyone at the gym. If it went sideways I might have to find another place to workout.

Sunnybeach123 · Answer

I would be flattered that she gives me her attention. I'd try to strike up a conversation or something.

Anonymous · Answer

It would give a boost of self confidence if I found her attractive.

Pterodon · Answer

Flattered

Guys, how do you feel when a girl goes up to you at the gym, even if you already have a girlfriend?

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