all boobs are beautiful.. and all guys have different prefernces when it comes to size.. but what i want to ask is that do push up bras bother you? i saw these and it got me thinking what really goes in a guy's mind..
so.. tell honestly.. do you feel deceived because of push up or padded bras? what do you prefer? and girls.. do you wear one? if so why?
Hey Guys.. do you feel deceived because of push up bras?
I do not wear push up bras nor will I ever. I have enough love for my body that I respect its sizes in all aspects. Maybe I feel this way because my chest is already my ideal size but I don't believe in false advertisement. Even when this advertisement is simply to make the wearer more happy. Many women who wear push up bras feel their breasts are not good enough as is. That will do plenty of damage to their self esteem. I don't think what guys feel about these bras matter here; it's all about women learning to love themselves as they are.
I have a push up bra, but only wear it so i don't nipple up when i am out.
I think it is so unfair to guys to meet a girl with nice boobs, only to find out the box is empty! Major deal breaker!
If a guy stuffs a roll of socks down his pants, then we are gonna have sex and i find the sock, it kills the mood! He he wants me to like him for who he is, don't be fake. Same applies to girls!
Honestly, if a girl needs bigger boobs that bad, go get permanent implants!
In that case, all guys deceive us because they have their pants on when we first meet them and we can't see how big their dicks really are lol
Also a lot of push up bra's have padding on the bottom and not the front, so all it does is push your breast up, it doesn't necessarily increase breast size. I have a D cup but I wear them with a wire as well because I feel more supported with the way they are made and they don't make my breast look bigger than they are.
That comparison doesn't make sense because genitals aren't really shown in general. We don't get to see a girls vulva so that's a correct comparison Breasts on the other hand especially with push up one's are designed to show off your 'Assets' or there is none.
LOL!! I don't wear push-up bras or padded. I have enough of my own I am a triple D. I think guys should feel disappointed if a women is given them the false idea that they are bigger but they are not. 😂
1. I don't ever feel deceived it since I notice beyond the obvious contours :) 2. I don't like bras much, I like it natural 3. Size for me is immaterial as long as I like what I see 4. But again I have nothing against push ups or padded ones, to each her own :) 5. My preferences eitherway are A, B or C cups :D
If guys stuffed their underwear the way girls stuff their bras, girls would freak out and call the guy insecure, creepy, weird, and most of all, a LIAR. Well, that's how we feel about padded/push-up bras. I don't ask for big boobs, but I also don't like false advertising.
thanks for being honest.. that is what i am asking for.. what you truly feel... and you have the valid point.. yes girls would be mad if a guy did that...
@MrOracle That's completely different. Most women would be mad because it is a physical pleasure let down, if a man packs to make his junk look bigger. plus it's not normal unlike padded/pushup bras. The pictures of Paris Hilton are exaggerated. She's had her breasts done. A pushup bra has little difference in how big their breast are. It just makes them look unnaturally higher. Reason for doing it is because it looks better in the clothes we wear. It also shapes them to look more rounded. Like fake tits are. If you were to look in the bra section every cute/ sexy bra is either padded and some are both padded and pushup. If it's just a silk or cotton bra they normally look like something my mother or even grandmother would wear. This is not false advertising. It is culture today. Just like cone breasts were hot around the 30's-50's and Madonna in the 80's. Tits are not that perky and pointed. At least no tits I've seen.
It's exactly the same, @Bliss-taylor , it's just that women doing a bunch of fake stuff has become socially acceptable, while men doing it has not. But fake is fake.
I have no problem at all with small boobs, but I don't like fake anything (yes, I've come to accept that I'm not going to avoid makeup, but at least I'm aware of what that does).
And now you're obviously aware of what bras do. I guarantee you have enjoyed the view of a model, actress, or singer. They are all wearing make up. Pushup/padded bras. A lot of the time air brushed. And knowing all that you'd still be fine with the way they look in real life because it doesn't change so drastically that you don't still find them attractive. Most of the time it's not that big of a difference. I accept the way culture is. Culture will always be there. Look at cultures through out history it's always changing. You over think on this when you enjoy the view of the benefits.
It doesn't matter how much you tell me what I like and appreciate - it doesn't make it true. No doubt, some guys love the effect of a push-up bra, but many, like me, call it what it is: a lie. And, no, I don't like or appreciate it.
The fact that you deny the hypocrisy of your views just shows how in denial you really are.
i don't have a huge problem with it if I'm honest, but using a push up bra etc. is exactly the same as stuffing your underwear with something. You are making something look like what it doesn't. I can assure you that the physical pleasure let down goes both ways, everything goes through the mind. Only difference between these two is that one is socially acceptable and the other one isn't.
This is gross. Girls aren't "advertising" when they wear bras, dumb ass. They wear whatever the fuck they want because it makes them feel confident. If they like push up bras, then deal with it. Boobs aren't for your entertainment. If you're going to ditch a girl because she takes her bra off and you realize they are smaller, you're just a dick.
I don't feel deceived, because honestly, when expressing a preference for boob size, I'm looking for WAY more boob than a wonder bra could ever begin to simulate.
(Context: When I met my wife, she wore a size 44J. Wonderful yes, Wonder Bra, no need.)
It is evil and deceitful. I don't stuff a cucumber down my pants to make my dick look bigger then why should a girl use padding to make her breasts look bigger.
Be comfortable with your size since there are always guys that like smaller breasts. I personally prefer Cs or bigger so I would be very upset if a girl tricked me.
Yes I would feel deceived. As it would severely break my heart to know that the boobies I so longed to see are disguised to look big. For a guy like me, boobies mean a lot to me, Its like I talk with them, I dream about them, Sometimes I feel like my girlfriend is the third person in the relationship between me and the boobies. I wanna get old with you dear boobies, I know those push up bras make u look bigger.. but my love, you will always be bigger than anything for me...
Um... my feelings of them are like my feelings over makeup - by all means use it but don't be surprised when I look the other way when you take it off.
i don´t mind small breasts but i like cleavage. so if she delivers cleavage but has not big breasts when she takes her bra off, i do feel a little decieved but it´s not like a huge turn of or anything.
I love a great pair of breasts being displayed in a push up to the best of their abilities! But I must say, it's even better when the bra comes off and the naked reality is even hotter! I guess I've never really encountered a case when the real thing was actually several cup sizes smaller than I was expecting or their shape wasn't nearly as good.
Doesn't bother me because the size of a woman's boobs doesn't bother me, unless they are larger than a 36D, in which case they are a turn off. I don't care if she is 32A or 36C, if she has a cute face, isn't grossly overweight, and likes to laugh, I'm attracted.
Honestly all of my bras are pushups, just subtle ones though. I have one that adds 2 cups sizes supposedly from VS. It does make my B cups look huge, but honestly no guy has ever complained about it. I mean if you really like the girl, you like her for more than her seemingly large breasts.
"but honestly no guy has ever complained about it." Offcouse they wouldn't, 1. Because they don't know what trick you're pulling off. 2. And if you tell/show them, then they won't complain because they want to sleep with you. win-win.
But like he mentioned, they're still going to sleep with the girl regardless. You could say the same thing about a girl wearing a full face of makeup, and then you see that she is ugly when she takes it off. That's just the society we live in.
Yes, it's the society, and it's not only just women, men do that all the time too, just in different forms. But I do hold some serious anger against those people who stuff 50 kilos of cornflour on their face and tell others that looks don't matter.
I wear a lot of makeup, not 50 kilos of it but enough of it. I will always say looks DO matter to an extent, but a person's pretty face isn't going to make you feel any better about them cheating you or beating you. Personality does matter more. Looks are necessary for physical/sexual attraction. America has just become a plastic country no doubt, so if you're gonna date someone you better damn well value them for more than their looks since they probably don't always look that way.
That's why I don't particularly care for the way someone looks in public. It's all adjusted in some way, shape or form. The real you is the one that steps out of the shower, and I won't see that until we are at least closer, so no point in judging a person based on a falsity.
I wear padded bras for comfort whenever I actually wear a bra it has absolutely nothing to do with how anyone else sees them. No bra is going to magically make my boobs look 3 times bigger. Push up bras are also comfortable and if I happens to wear a low cut shirt the cleavage will look better but when you wear the right bra for your size it makes your boobs look good no matter what. I don't really care what guys think.
if you are expecting from a girl and got attracted to her boobs then a little disappointment, and if you really like a girl/lover her.. then that won't be a problem, i would make her so comfortable that she need have to wear one...
don't give a fuck, people comparing dick sizes, boobs, ass etc are complete losers if u ask me. Its not that impt. Be fit, you are bound to be attractive to someone. And there are a lot more things to think about that physical appearances.
Yes, maybe a little deceived. We see something and then it's another... it's normal. But in the end it really doesn't matter to me. Im not going to be pissed off with a girl because of that, and i kinda understand the girls opinion about using it.
Yes, like make up. I too think that it is more deceiving. Anyway a girl should not forget that his natural charm have a great importance. I feel a little sad because a lot of women and girls gives up believing in their natural charm and starts altering everyhing. The problem is... girls begin to seem very much alike each other, and individuality is lost.
I have a push up bra, but not because to make my breasts look bigger or something. I have it because my prom dress was starpless, so I needed a starpless bra too, and that push up bra was the only starpless bra in my size. @.@
Honestly speaking, i wouldn't want to go into the intricate details on what we discuss. But nevertheless its normally a "LMAO"conversation while taunting our obese male friends who are a match for those padded up ladies ;)
No, all women/ girls should be free to wear the type of bra they want and not have to worry what their boyfriend/ husband think , I don't see it being a deal breaker at all ,
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