Im confused why my boyfriend drove off so fast was I being an annoying girlfriend? should I be worried about something?

[xJayleenx]

I told him that I didn’t like that comment that he made that there are many hot girls on twitch and he told me several times that he did not say that when I know that he did and I just left his car without kissing him or anything and I told him thank you for the groceries that he got me and left. He said okay bye and he drove off so fast after I said that and I don’t know he’s just acting different today he always waits for me to walk home safe and then leaves but today he just drove off really fast. What we had wasn’t really an argument it was just a yes you did no you didn’t kind of thing. I don’t think that we’ve ever argued before. I think he’s losing feelings for me or just irritated by me. I was also talking about how his favorite show just sexualized women and that it should be equal and how guys at work check me out everyday but yeah lol that’s not important. I don't know why he seemed so pissed today we had sex in the afternoon and I cooked for him all before I had to go to work.

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And I also had asked him “why do so many guys cheat on their pregnant wives?” And he told me “I wonder why” I always ask random questions or what comes to my head. Is he showing any red flags by the way? Or any sign of losing feelings he also didn’t respond back to my text because he said he was playing video games

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And I also kind of told him that his online friends kind of reminded me of the guys that were mean to me in highschool

[TallAnon]

Not exactly the most fun interactions to have. I read like 5 times when things were probably making him think "rather anything else". How he drove off probably wasn't conscious, but if you just had some awkward interactions, wanting to be somewhere else is pretty normal.
Wanting to play videos games without interruptions is pretty normal, that's when we just give a short answer to get you off our back. That's our hint to talk to someone else for a bit.

[xJayleenx]

What do you mean by talk to someone else?

[TallAnon]

That you should chat with a friend or something

[Andres77]

Sounds like it's time for the silent treatment again. See how long it takes for him to wake up and stop being petty.
Did he check his phone again after sex?

[xJayleenx]

He texted me saying that he was just a little irriated because he wanted a hug amd a kiss but I just left and not to worry

[AviatorTom]

Welcome to your first argument. All couples have arguments... mostly over things that, in hindsight, are not that important. Just get together with him and continue the relationship. It's usually a good idea for both of you to apologize for teh argument, and it's fun making up... the sex is often better than normal.

[xJayleenx]

Lol but I don’t think this was an argument right? He just said that he didn’t say that and I said yes you did twice and then i just said thank you for the groceries and left

[xJayleenx]

Then later we texted each other normally

[ohshee]

Yes and do what if he did say it.
He was being honest with you he was communicating with you he was trusting you respecting you that you would understand what he was saying to you who is he with it that moment he's with you I felt confident enough in you and in himself as a friend you could say that without judgment and you threw a fit because he didn't lie to you but you made him feel now he has to lie to you that's pretty bad it's wrong just because he said that doesn't mean anything he was just being honest with you

[Guy__]

What was it about guys checking you out at work? I'm not saying it's bad but what exactly did you say about that? Did you by chance sound like you're interested in other guys?

[xJayleenx]

No I told him that I was not comfortable at work anymore because of that

[Guy__]

I tend to think video gaming isn't healthy and stealing a part of him that he should be dedicating to you.

[xJayleenx]

Video games aren’t a big deal I’d play with him if I could.

[Guy__]

Looks like they're making him too busy to be with you.

[Guy__]

You seem like a perfect girl. I don't know.

[Guy__]

Nothing annoying about you. If he's as you said "pissed" means he's stressed. Whatever else elevates his cortisol. Needs good sleep, good food, etc.

[StrawberryShake]

He said I wonder why about the pregnant wives things? Leave him. He sounds like such an asshole, and he's just waiting for an opportunity to cheat on you. He shouldn't be talking about attractive twitch streamers either...

[xJayleenx]

If I felt like he was that person I wouldn’t be with him

[StrawberryShake]

Okay so why are you complaining about him then? Everything you've said makes it glaringly obvious that he's an asshole. I think you're in denial.

[Still-alive]

he does sound probably a little irritated yeah. give him like a day to cool off i guess.

[xJayleenx]

He texted me back pretty normally just now no emotion

[xJayleenx]

Like a nonchalant text

[Still-alive]

ok maybe he's fine then i suppose. sounds like you might be overthinking this a bit then.

[xJayleenx]

I mean he drove off so fast lol he has never done that before and I mean his text just seems dry af. I don't know was it a red flag that he said that there are a bunch of hot girls in twitch?

[Still-alive]

i'd just continue like normal honestly. unless this is really bothering you i guess you can try to talk it out with him.. otherwise just be cool id say

[xJayleenx]

I texted him asking if he’s mad at me and why he drove away so fast hopefully that wasn’t annoying

[xJayleenx]

What do you think about the pregnant wives thing? I had commented to him “why do so many guys cheat on their pregnant wives?” And he said I wonder why. Was his response weird?

[Still-alive]

no i don't think it was weird.. i guess he's expressing the same bewilderment as you are there.

[xJayleenx]

How about the hot girls on twitch? Should i be worried about that I’ve never heard him call anyone hot before except for me ofc lol

[Still-alive]

you're fine trust me lol. worrying about a lot of this will only drive you mad. unless he really seriously argues with you or expresses anger at you i really wouldn't give it much though. Just trust that he loves you and is with you for a reason.

[JoyGirl]

Let him cool down a bit, and then call him to talk about it.

[JoyGirl]

@ update Are they mean to you, tho?

[xJayleenx]

Lol no I just heard them talking once and they reminded me of them

[JoyGirl]

Ooh, ok. 🥴

[888theGreat]

No one likes being called a liar but he also knows all females get hysterical and moody. I am sure he is used to it.

[xJayleenx]

Both genders get moody the only thing is that females don’t punch walls or react with anger as much 😂. I wasn’t really moody I just told him that I didn’t like the comment that he made

[888theGreat]

and you called him a liar

[xJayleenx]

He does lie though but I didn’t say it directly “you’re a liar!” But yes he has lied to me but I mean everyone has lied to me at some point

[Sevenpointfive]

there are not a bunch of hot girls on twitch. people don't rush home to watch other people play games. could it be something else?

[dolemite89]

“how guys are work check me out everyday but yeah lol that’s not important” and u wonder why he might be a bit mad with u… r u mental? 🤣🤣

[dolemite89]

*at work

[xJayleenx]

He showed no reaction to that he just told me “well what do you want me to do I can’t confront everyone checking you out and that’s just how it is” I don’t think he was irritated about that it was more like the hot girl fiasco that he said he didn’t say when he did but I didn’t keep pushing that much just said thank you and left

[dolemite89]

why would u even mention that to him? it sounds like u were shit testing him to see how he react and he passed with flying colors by not giving a fuck 😂

[xJayleenx]

No I just kind of talk about anything to him without thinking

[xJayleenx]

I also used to tell my cousins when that happend lol but now i have no cousins to talk to

[dolemite89]

why do u always chase everyone away? 😳😂

[xJayleenx]

Man I don't know I don’t really talk to anyone a lot in person besides him. What do you mean by chase away?

[dolemite89]

i’m joking u dork 😂 if u were single sometimes i think i’d flirt with u but ur so hopeless u just really need a friend to give u guidance 😝

[xJayleenx]

I do I tried making a friend but everyone’s either dry, anti social, flaky, or mentally unstable

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

Give him some time to he comes to his senses, sorry this happened with you two

[Deku2009]

A boyfriend/girlfriend that doesn’t trust tge other is a red flag. He might of taken it tgat you are losing interest in him.

[OddBeMe]

He sounds like an ass. So better off without him.

[xJayleenx]

No he’s not an ass

[OddBeMe]

And that’s why women will always be hurt yer never leave the “bad boys”.

You really can’t see how he’s stringing you along and making you more dependent on him?

[xJayleenx]

He’s not even close to being a bad boy he’s a nerd lol very nerdy guy and he’s basically a tall teddy bear. He’s always nice to me always telling me how pretty I am, how much he loves me, and he takes me to work and takes me home almost everyday, he’s helped me with my driving, and he’s an honors student. He’s not a bad guy or a douche bag just having him get mad at me like that yesterday and just leaving surprised me.

[xJayleenx]

That was his first time

[OddBeMe]

You’re call. And obvi I’m a random poster. But my quick view is he’s playing you into being meek. Lots of abused women I work with have gone through this.

[xJayleenx]

What does meek mean?

[xJayleenx]

He’s the only person that tells me that he’s proud of me he’s always been kind and understanding but yesterday he just drove off

[xJayleenx]

I've never been abused in a relationship before. But sometimes i feel scared senseless that I’ll get cheated on because everyone else has gotten cheated on even pregnant women

[xJayleenx]

I’m so scared but I try not to be I try to trust him. But I sometimes have my doubts

[OddBeMe]

You can’t try to trust. You either do or don’t.
Meek means submissive. Being dependent on him. I do feel he’s trying to keep you reaching for him..

Here’s what you should do: take back the initiative. Make him seek you out and be meek. Say your unhappy with him, and need a break or something. You won’t date anyone. Just don’t speak to him after saying you need a break. Make him spam you with tons of lovey dovey texts.