I've never been on a date before. People say that I'm very pretty but none of the guys at my school ever try to ask me out.
Pros:
Physically fit Very self-disciplined and confident, responsible, etc Would never cheat Really good at swimming, yoga, dance fun/outgoing a mix of introvert and extrovert
Cons:
Very very little dating/relationship experience Naturally a loner and shy Really bad at starting conversations 0 sense of humor Cry a lot
At your age I would wait to get into dating until you get out of high school. If they aren’t throwing themselves at you that’s their loss; get out of school and figure out what you want to do next before you worry about who you’re doing it with. If that’s a professional career you will want to focus your energy and attention there and graduate on time (trust me on that one, it’s not guaranteed. Focus is key and wild parties/sexy time can be a lot of fun in the moment but cost you big time in the long run. Colleges have financial incentives not to let you graduate on time, or keep you part time as long as possible).
If that’s wifey and raising kids full time then dating becomes more important, but you should still take some time to live on your own first, figure out all the details of running a household and #adulting, as you will be depended on to handle those things. The sooner you make those decisions the better, as dating only gets more difficult as youth passes.
Have you ever looked into why you cry a lot or don’t have a sense of humor? There could be childhood reasons, which might also explain relational difficulties. Sorting that out will help you in a lot more areas of life than just romantic relationships.
No, because you're a minor. And it's alarming that 38 men said Yes to this. Either they can't read your age, or they're just creeps.
Anyway, assuming you were at least 21 years old (and even that's kinda "too young" for me), I would not date you. Although that isn't to say you're a bad person. But we just would not be compatible. For these reasons below:
Very confident (I hate ego in people) Claiming to be "fun/outgoing" (women who say this NEVER are) a mix of introvert and extrovert (I don't believe in such a thing) Really bad at starting conversations (I prefer some who can hold conversations) Zero sense of humor (That's a big red flag for me, especially for someone who claims to be an "extrovert") Cries a lot (red flag)
So no, if you were an adult woman, I would still not date you, because we are not compatible.
Also, I don't know how tall you are. You look both tall (lanky 5'10" with long arms) and short (5'6" based on anatomy) in the picture. I'm confused by that.
First off, you're 16. Dating at that age is grossly overrated and pretty much pointless. Find something else to take pride in.
No sense of humor? Really? That is easily the worst thing on here. When people are dating, 99% of them want to have fun and enjoy themselves. Humor is pretty much critical to any relationship, because even if you aren't making your own jokes, guys often do. Not having a sense of humor makes you come across as extremely uptight and is generally a very unattractive personality trait.
I would date you first of all you have a beautiful heart your kind you smart your caring your a deep thinker.. you quiet and shy in your own way and there's something beautiful about that and I think when you become one with somebody it is a very very deep one it is probably a very beautiful spiritual one I think in hanging around you or being around you more and more you would open up more and more and the real you would come out and I believe that real you would be very very beautiful person that's what your eyes tell me
Dude just ask them. But don't go asking some dude with a bunch of character flaws. Just ask them. Save yourself years of tears and ask them. And stop asking random dudes on the net if they would date you. We don't even know you and you are so much better than this. You got it.
I'm too old for you, but if I were younger, I'd date you. We'd find something fun to do together.
You know, you don't have to wait for a guy to ask you out. If there's a guy you like, ask him to do something fun together... maybe a bike ride or a hike in the Alps.
You'll definitely find the right guy one day. You are physically attractive and obviously, I would date you if the law didn't dictate 16 as underage lol.
Yes, if I were the in the same school. I think it's good for you as this way you would save yourself for the special person that would come into your life. Most of the boys in your age are usually just searching for physical relationships and aren't mature enough to think what lies ahead.
You are pretty enough to date. Of course I don't believe you would never cheat. I also don't believe that no guys at your school ever tried to ask you out. I can believe, that none of the guys that meet your standards have asked you out. If you want to date, you must have realistic standards. You are pretty enough for most guys but that doesn't imply that the star QB is going to be interested because, although you are pretty, you cannot compete with the head cheerleader.
Yea maybe if you were a few years older. Younger girls seem very immature and impulsive to me. What I dont get: you say you are shy but also very outgoing? Zero sense of humour would bother me a bit but I'd be ok. Cry a lot, if that means crying at tge slightest little moment or be offended by the slightest thing would bother me though
No. Too skinny and lanky looking. But each to their own.
You should maybe get some friends to bounce with. Loners rarely get asked out much as if you cannot make friends, then people assume you're insufferable.
You're 16, too young You're in Switzerland so you're too far away I need someone who can joke with me and I can joke with For crying it would depend on what makes you cry
In another life time (so we got a date April 26, 2222). Unless the reincarnation thing goes wrong.
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Anonymous
(18-24)
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i don’t know if these is meant as a trip but why would you ask this to a website that’s 98% adults over 18? though of course there are still the creeps that can’t read or don’t care and you’re playing right into it..
The 0 sense of humor is concerning... and I have a hard time believing that. Let me ask you this if a fella your age asked you to a comedy club for a date would you go? And secondly if he asked you to a family cookout of his would you go to that?
Under 18: no way. In my country these are often boisterous, annoying, hormonal, and disrespectful creatures. Add to this the legal trouble. It's not worth it. Focus on being a kid, child, and leave adult things to adults.
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Anonymous
(45 Plus)
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Do some approaching yourself. Guys can have all the same thoughts and feelings women do about approaching, and like women, some just won't do it. May and like often does have nothing to do with you as a person or your attractiveness.
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Anonymous
(30-35)
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The shorts aren't doing anything for you, but you have a nice face and figure. Wait until you are out of high school to date. The guys tend to be more mature with age.
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Anonymous
(45 Plus)
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If I was in your age range and you lived near me, I would be interested in a first date.
Yes I would if I was a bit younger or you were a bit older. I'll be 25 in about a month. Atm my age range is about 6 years younger to about 5 years older but as far as I know no female has ever been interested in me
I don’t date American white girls i would do you though but that has nothing to do with you it’s cause I’m a guy ( amorous) also I don’t care for your style
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