Does liking a wealthy man makes a girl a gold digger?

Question

the girl doesn't just like him cause he's wealthy. but a life with him seems good.

bamesjond0069 · Accepted Answer

No. Im wealthy so i have experiences with this stuff. I view a gold digger as one with an entitled attitude to MY money.

On one side i look down on and devalue a woman who has a history of dating broke guys. Ie if she has to think whether she wants me or a gas station attendant, clearly she's not into me.

On the other hand if she demands "i need $x amount allowance. This restaurant isn't nice enough. I only need the gold service but if you loved me you would upgrade to diamond package" etc. This is a gold digger and total trash.

My girlfriend for example she might pick out shoes at a store and show me. Sometimes i buy her stuff sometimes not. If i say hmm nice but dont offer to pay she either buys it herself or puts them back. She never asks or expects anything from me because its my money not hers. She also will try and help me save money. I tell her ill buy her a dress she runs over to the clearance rack first to see if she can get a deal first. This is the attitude i look for as the ideal girl for my financial position.

Dchrls78104 · Accepted Answer

Question for you: would you love him the same if he were a poor man or lost all his money in an investment gone bad? Would you continue to respect him if you suddenly found yourself earning more money than he? Because golddigging starts with greed, and greed starts in the heart. You could never really love this man if his money were ever in the back of your mind; soon, you wouldn't even tolerate him as a person and, once he gets wise to what you really are, the dislike would be mutual. Money had nothing to do with real love, mutual trust and respect, or compatibility. So, here's the truth: even if you married into this money, once you did not work hard for it on your own merits (independent of the marriage), it will never be yours.

slatyb · Answer

It's all fine as long as people are honest about what they are offering. To me, a "gold digger" is a woman who pretends affection to get gifts from a wealthy man. A woman who says "I'll have sex with you if you'll support me" is just being honest. He can take it or leave it.

ohshee · Answer

If you honestly love the guy don't care what other people think it's not their business and even if you were gold digger that's up on him if you can't see through that then I would say he is stupid and to be honest with you guys who have money they're not stupid they know what's going on I don't care how good of an actress the girl is they know what's going on and if they accept it that's on them

Anonymous · Answer

It's normal to think about that (as would guys if a rich woman), but the question is (that another guy asked already) would you still love and want to be with him if he wasn't? "Gold diggers" wouldn't. They'd be gone. But, you as a woman also shouldn't "rely" on his money either, or have any "expectations" that way. Try to be financially independent and so you don't have to rely on his money.

Lliam · Answer

If they really like each other and she's not after him for his money, then she's not a gold digger. Two people don't have to have comparable wealth or be from the same social class to fall in love. It could be a storybook romance.

DaySpring · Answer

NO! All living things move toward that which give them more life. A gold digger is someone who disregards all that a person is and uses them like an object.

Confidentandchill · Answer

No, I’m successful and plenty of females like that about me.. they aren’t gold diggers

Bklynbadboy12 · Answer

Nope not at all let's face it who would want to date someone thats broke

megabamse · Answer

To like A wealthy man don't make you a gold digger. To like ONLY wealthy men does.

scott04sa22 · Answer

If you like jeff bezos, bill gate and Elon musk. pm them? 🤷🏻‍♂️ Im not sure if bill gate is seeing his mistress.

Anonymous · Answer

I don’t like you for your mansion and your sports cars and your yacht, but life with you seems good...😂

Anonymous · Answer

Lol... that awkward moment when you're trying to convince yourself it's not really about the money. 🤣🤣🤣

LilyByte · Answer

Depends on why the like them if its just because of their money then id say they are a gold digger

OddBeMe · Answer

Labels, labels are no fun. I guess it depends on what she likes most about the wealthy guy.

Fromdusktilldawn · Answer

If you take advantage of him you are a gold digger

Anonymous · Answer

Well if he lost it all you wouldn’t like him. So yes it does

kinggeorge007 · Answer

Straight answer is No, but it usually is Yes

Luckycharms12 · Answer

Why did you have bring his money in to it

Wise4myage · Answer

Anything is possible.

driven159 · Answer

Only if she likes him because of his money

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