Guys, What is the most painful thing a woman has done to you?

[Anonymous]

[ohshee]

I already went through it once and made it it was bad thank God for my kids there are the reason I made because she love my kids to know very thing she was going to do to me an i would always tell myself the moment it starts but you took because every name that she has called me everything that she has done to me she wants me to snap so she can say see I told you I told you
And there is only one thing I can think of who cares I had to be there to teach my kids how to handle situations when they got older in life I would do whatever I had to do to try to show them this isn't the way life is and I did that by keeping my mouth shut and I always said when they ask me dad is this true is this true is this true at least I'm not going to answer that you should already know if it's true but I'm not going to be that person to tell you when you get old enough I will tell you but if you want to know something you have to go to your aunt's your uncle's your grandparents on her side when you're ready and ask them what the truth is and I'm pretty sure but I'm not 100% sure but I'm pretty sure that they will tell you the truth why don't you just tell me I will tell you when you're old enough and I will tell you the truth when it's time but I want you to find out from them their truth that way we can see how much it matches up I would love to tell you what she did to me but I don't want to relive it

[Slim57]

Lied, cheated, and lead me to believe she felt the same as me as I did about her, and ghosted too

[MCheetah]

Emotionally, she pretended to be heterosexual/straight/attracted to men, when in reality, she was queer, meaning she was attracted to women. For weeks, I thought this tall beautiful blonde was into me and liked me as I am. But no, she was queer this whole time and not once told me. It's not until she mentioned her ex by female pronouns did I find out the truth. I felt humiliated and heartbroken. Why TF did she think I'd be interested in a queer woman? Why would she waste my time if she was on the spectrum?

Ellen was gorgeous too with big boobs, blonde hair, and green eyes. I should've known it was too good to be true, but this was the first woman I "dated" (not that it counts anymore), so I guess I was lovestruck. This was over ten years ago, and I'm still salty about it. Because of this, and other instances of queer woman abusing and mistreating men, as they seem to do, I swore I would never waste my time with a queer woman again.

"Bisexuals" disgust me. Lesbians who want to f*ck over men and exploit them, when there's plenty of genuine lesbians out there they could be legitimately dating. Problem is, other women can't be used as simps and physical protection.

[glennos89]

My ex destroyed my soul with her nasty words in front of mother. She accussed me of being a cheater, a woman abuser, a junky while all these things were the exact opposite of how I behaved. The really destroyed a little piece of my soul with her nasty words and the fact that she was saying all these things in front of her mother made me so angry that I never wanted to see her again.

The weirdest thing of all was when she realised what she had done and understood that she had crossed a line for me she turned arround completely and started begging me not to throw her out of my house. This was so incredibly weird for me that I still don't understand how anybody can go from a vicious nasty mindset to a crying desperate mindset in less then 5 minutes time. She completely changed when she realised I was really done with her.

Still hurts me to this day because I threated her always with the highest respect and I never ever threated her bad in any kind of way. She really burned my soul with her vicious words in front of her mother. Never forget it that's certain

[SamIam96]

Wow! Have you ever seen her since?

[HighlyVolatile]

I had an ex long ago who played an April Fool's prank on me saying she was pregnant. I've always been bad at keeping track of the date so I didn't realize it was April 1st. She was bipolar and sometimes said crazy things out of the blue. I think she expected me to be upset or angry.

I instead had thoughts flooding into my head: confusion at first since we always used protection. But then I had thoughts of marrying her and raising our child together and growing old together so I asked her to marry me on the spot in a restaurant on one knee.

Then she told me it was April Fool's and then I realized how idiotic I was. Then tears started pouring down my eyes since I had this big dream all of a sudden and then it came crumbling down. After that, her sister (she was with us) scolded her so hard for making a bad joke and she ran off crying as she often did.

That's actually how I fell in love with her. That April Fool's joke implanted the dream in my mind of marriage and raising children together. We got all the way to being engaged to be married together until she called off the wedding one week before our wedding. I ended up throwing the wedding ring into a river.

[Slartybartfast]

I don't talk about that one.

But before that I'd say the first time I ever tried to ask a women out. I was at my local hangout across the street from my apartment. I was drinking a coke and playing on the old arcade game they had. Galliga. Mostly bored waiting for my friend to get off work.
I was 21 but looked 15 so women my age usually ignore me. She kept looking at me and I walked over and we started to talk , I asked her if I could buy her a drink.
To make a long story short she was just messing with me , she laughed at me and said sone rude things really loud. I went back to playing galliga.. a few minutes later some poor chump walked up to me and said that she told him I was harrasiing her. I said ,"I'm not even looking at her and want nothing to do with her"
I wound up having to defend myself and honestly had zero anger at the guy , I felt bad as I think I broke his jaw and he lost a lot of teeth. Just cause she was bored and wanted to amuse herself, I remember her laughing at the guy.

After that I stopped hanging out there, but I learned a valuable life lesson about how women manipulate men for fun and cause a lot of damage.

[oliversamuel]

Cheated, haha. Anyway, the most painful thing a girl has done to me was probably in sixth grade. I was "dating" a girl named Lily; one of the most popular girls in the grade. At first, we hadn't kissed at all, we were just "dating" because we had found out that we both liked each other. After a while, we started to kiss and did it multiple times a day in public in order to show people that we really were "dating" (we would even make out during class 😳). I myself have never been a huge fan of kissing, but I felt so honored to be dating this popular girl that I did it anyway. The "relationship" went on for about a three months, and I really started to love her. I would get erections every time we kissed, and sometimes even if I saw her walking around the school. One day, just as kids were starting to come into the school in the morning, I noticed Lily standing next to a SEVENTH GRADE boy. They were holding hands, and people were crowding around them chanting for them to kiss. Of course they did, and then the boy announced that they were dating. My heart was crushed. Later, when I saw her in class, I was furious. I summoned up the courage to ask her why she did it; she said that I was getting boring. Mean thing to do to such a young boy. I was upset for months.

[TexasRed95]

Use me to take care of her for my entire adult life up until this point. And when she got to where she was set up without me kicked me to the curb with no time or assistance. The woman is my mother. My father left us when I was 19 and until this last December I was paying for the house, her car, insurance, phone, groceries, literally every expense was paid for by me while she just sat back and enjoyed a stress free life. She went to school and got a job then sold the house giving me just 30 days to find a place. I had no warning that she was even selling the house. Doesn't talk to me unless she needs something and has never done anything to help me.

[JHNS98]

Physically I don't know, although I can share a story about an emotionally painful period between me and a friend of mine. Although she isn't really to blame for any of that.
I had a crush on her, and she was in a relationship already, so I knew it was pointless and it sort of broke me for a six-month period during my sophmore/her junior year of high school. It partially remains with me even to this day, I even had a sex dream about her at one point.

[libsaretards]

Left me over lies her stepdad planted in her head and never even gave me a reason why she left. I had to find out through others. I was never given a chance to clear the air and tell her what her stepdad was doing was manipulating her against me. This was after I was always honest with her, after I always protected her, after I was the one to help her find her confidence and after I was always faithful to her. I was honest to a fault but it took one lie from her stepdad about me after a fight in school where she witnessed the fact I did not start it and witnessed that I only fought until there was a way for me and her to escape.

[Anonymous]

Emotionally… probably being cheated on for months before I found out. Close second would be almost every time I have asked out a girl - and they choose to go for a personal attack -certainly isn’t fun.


Physically: I was full on punched by a “friend” in high school at random. She was probably coming off a drug episode, and “just thought it would be funny” to punch me when my back was turned. We weren’t friends after that. She was too messed up.


Had another “friend” punch me years later - I told her after saying “What the hell is wrong with you?”(after I calmed down a little…) “You get one. That’s all. If you try anything like that again… I’ll treat it (and fight back) like you’re another dude.”

[Anonymous]

Had a girlfriend who left me a “Dear John” letter and moved everything out one day while I was in class at university. There was no warning or discussion about anything. She had snooped through my things and read a diary I keep, literally unzipping my bag and going through my things one day. Of course people write about relationships in their diary, and she didn’t like what I had written apparently. We had been together for about 5 years when she just left.

She also owed me over a thousand dollars and never paid me back.

[-Asca-]

Ghosted me out of the blue without any explanation after we‘ve been best friends for months and she basically taught me that I can be myself and people will still like me until she destroyed my entire confidence again that she helped me build. Thought this was proof that I’m not worthy of being accepted the way I am. I felt this pain physically for months.

[the_man57]

We were talking to each other a lot, like whenever I picked my phone up I had a snap or text from her. Then slowly she just stopped. Soon she started only talking to me or sending me a snap once every few hours even though I could see she was online. I tried to talk to her about when I noticed we didn't talk as much and she just said she was busier and couldn't talk as much. Turns out she had a boyfriend the whole time and I was a side piece

[jamesgoldman]

Urm... moving to Poland if we are talking romantically involved

Other than the my mother's friends who agreed to buy an iPad I was selling the never finished paying for it they also stole a bracelet from me (my 18th birthday present I'd had for a week) and returned it 8 months later when the police made it too hot to sell... make note of my mother's friends, I wouldn't piss on them if they were on fire

[ImNoOne111]

A girl friendzoned me when I was crazy about her. It was terrible, constant fight between trying to passively change her mind and moving on. I needed to either have her or not see her at all. So the friendzoning thing was more like a punishment. But I dont blame her, many girls still dont know what happens when you friendzone someone who actually has deep feelings for you

[Anonymous]

A friend who I was crushing on, who I had confessed to, she asked to be in a relationship with me. Then while I was feeling the best I had ever felt, she ended it with a single text and vanished. Never saw her again. Really fucked me up, took like 18
months to get over her, I always struggled with food but this caused me to develop a full blown food addiction. Haven’t got over that.

[ShadezMcgee]

Broke up with me over text with no warning or explanation other than she wasn't feeling happy anymore and had felt that way for a while.

Wish she would have talked to me about it instead of doing that to see if we could have worked things out.

[Anonymous]

My “girlfriend” lied to me and told me her soon to be ex-husband was abusive and they were separated. Found out that he was actually active duty military and deployed and she was just cheating on him with me.
Sad part is I knew something was wrong but didn’t listen to my instincts. Took me awhile to forgive myself regardless.

[FilmGuy93]

I once had an ex-girlfriend accuse me of trying to exploit her mental health and force myself on her. I worked in assisted-living for five years as a caregiver.

That is without a doubt, the most vile thing anyone has ever said about me.

[genericname85]

reject me xD i know she has every right to do that and it's not her fault she doesn't like me. but it is the most painfull thing.

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

She broke my heart when she broke up with me but God knew it was for the best.

[Juxtapose]

Told me I only got close to her just so I could hurt her when the entire time I felt like I was doing the best I have ever done in any romantic relationship.. I was putting her so far above myself and doing everything I could to make her happy..

[Kaamraj]

Ignored and dismissed me sexually, which is completely her right, but it undermined my own sexual mean value (SMV) in my eyes and self confidence.

[Bluemax]

My sister didn't help out when I was caring for my mother who had dementia.

[t-8900]

Cheated on me with an ex who was a deadbeat drug dealer. But I got the last laugh and she's stuck with 2 baby daddies and no commitments.

[AviatorTom]

One of the women I dated after my divorce got a little carried away when we were having sex and bit my nipple... damn that hurt.

[Anonymous]

Ghosting me few days after saying in person she enjoys spending time with me.

[SolitarySolace]

Falsely accuse me of stalking and of being a potential school shooter when I didn’t and still don’t own any guns. And before that I was cheated on by all 3 of my exes.

[Imsmurter1]

Mostly just rejection from advances but I blame myself

[Anonymous]

Physically or emotionally?

My ex sliced my face up for breaking up..

And I walked in on a different ex riding dome random guy.. Cheating on me.

[Anonymous]

To the poster i dont know if you're going to believe this but whatever, ill say it...

She kicked me in the balls. I don't care what anyone says, catch a boot to the balls by a pissed off girl is one of the worst pains a dude can deal with.