If you find someone physically attractive, kind, relatable, not cocky and not a pushover, is that enough for you to commit to someone?

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If not, what else do you need?

WonderBell99 · Accepted Answer

Not necessarily, no. There are plenty of people out there who are all that, but I want someone who would be compatible with me.

I want someone with the same values and goals as me. I don't want someone who sleeps around or plays mind games with me. I want someone who is sweet, caring, chatty and goofy. I want someone who wants kids in the future. Someone who is family oriented. I'd prefer someone who isn't religious, and does not talk much about politics.

I want someone I could have an animated conversation with. I'm adventurous. I like to go trekking and I adore travelling and learning about different cultures.

Not to mention, passion and chemistry also play a huge role. A relationship without comfort and chemistry is just plain boring. I don't want that for me.

whereismyjohnny · Accepted Answer

Yeah, that's good enough I guess.

MCheetah · Accepted Answer

That sounds quite good, but it's not enough. I also need to know that they're straight (not gay), monogamous, biologically female (not trans/male), single, have no history of abuse or cheating, no children, not a compulsive liar or manipulator (she could be lying about all of these things), and not woke or a feminist. It'd also be nice to know they're not overly into politics or religious fanaticism, either.

Jamie05rhs · Accepted Answer

I'm pretty sure I've already agreed to the concept of committing to them. We would just have to get through the formalities. The formalities are the hard part, because it's awkward. You don't want to screw up and say something wrong and then lose the person. I think a lot of times people hesitate not because they don't like you but because they REALLY like you!

HighlyVolatile · Answer

I don't know. It's more a compatibility thing to me and about how we get along, how much fun we have together, how much interest we have talking to each other, how passionate we are about each other, etc.

TheBigGuy9 · Answer

To start, sure. Everyone shows who they are within a month. Trust is key. Loyalty, honesty. Communication is vital. You both have to make sure you’re on the same level of understanding at all times. How they treat others. How are they in bed?

slatyb · Answer

Not enough. We have to enjoy being together, which mostly means having some things in common and having easy and enjoyable conversation.

exitseven · Answer

Sounds good but it is not good enough. There has to be a real attraction , not just physical but also an emotional connection.

TheNewGeneration · Answer

If she had all of those traits AND she was my age AND she was smart AND she was willing to have at least four kids, then I would definitely commit immediately.

Cowboy6666 · Answer

hmm sure if she is flirty, talkative, passionate about me and open minded I might date or marry her too :)

CuriousMufuxka · Answer

If I found a woman like that, I would seriously consider dating again.

UniquelyBasic · Answer

I need for them to like me back

Anonymous · Answer

Nope... if she has a high body count none of those things matter...

chulo1992 · Answer

I don't know about the committing thing. That word is like prison/ lockdown to me

JesseJayNeak · Answer

In this day and age? Almost sounds like a dream

noohair · Answer

Chemistry.

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