Has anyone changed their mind about love if they gave up?

[cth2188]

I’m pretty made up, but did anyone change their mind?

[ChrisWhiskeys2]

I've been in love at least 3 times in my life.
The thing about it is that you also need to have the right attitude in order to give and receive love. You need to be able to find things to love about others even if they aren't perfect. Sometimes there's beauty in their imperfections.
We also need to ask ourselves if we're loveable?
Sometimes people have such bad attitudes on dating apps that it's glaringly obvious why they have never, and probably will never find love.

[cth2188]

I’ve been single 8 years and don’t online date

[cth2188]

People play too many mind games it’s not about attitudes

[cth2188]

It’s the stray comes with dating no one has time for

[ChrisWhiskeys2]

I prefer to start out as friends with women, take it slow. Dating is too forced and awkward in my opinion anyway.
I like to build a connection as friends and let us get closer naturally if it's meant to be. If there's mutual attraction, and good flirtatious chemistry things usually progress quickly anyway.
It also helps that I've always been Girl crazy since I was young. If you put 10 women in front of me that I think are cute, I could probably love like 6 of them if they wanted.

[cth2188]

People don’t want strictly platonic friends unless sex is involved it’s how dating is - how society is.. I stay to myself nowadays less stress , less bs, just went through a toxic situation with a so called friend she was trying to set me up by another friend ( jealousy) .. she wanted sex and couldn’t be just a friend

[cth2188]

Stress that comes with dating I don’t have time for it.. the whole ordeal was unnecessary stress and drama that put me in emotional distress

[cth2188]

So when it comes to date it’s about in my book / I enjoy my peace of mind and sanity

[ChrisWhiskeys2]

Well, you gotta do whatever's best for yourself, there's no problem being single if you're happy.
I'm always optimistic about love because there's billions of people on the planet. I feel like that's pretty good odds that I can always meet somebody who will make me happy.

[cth2188]

It’s a no.. I’ve learned to how to be happy single.. the risk ain’t worth the pain anymore

[Lliam]

If a person's mind is made up, it means they are pretty much closed off. They no longer believe in possibilities. It almost implies bitterness or a desire to reject.

But a person can be scrupulous and still be friendly and open to possibilities.
In order to be loved, a person has to be willing to let love in. They have to want to be loved and capable of loving.

[cth2188]

Liam you know it’s a risk. still hopeful to find an unvaccinated partner smh one day it’s an obstacle

[Lliam]

I hear you.

[MatteBlaxk]

I gave up too. Lol. Maybe one day someone might come along and change our minds. God know when, but it's possible.

[cth2188]

Facts I give up it’s too many stress