What is the number one reason a guy wants a woman?

[736_switch_blade]

[ElvenMr]

For me it's love and everything good you can imagine that comes with it. But it's not really just one thing.
Mental and physical things as well.

If i'm really attracted to her, that's because of multiple reasons, not just how she looks, but hows her personality, what she likes, her voice, etc...
Like good talks, compatibility, humour, cuddling, sex, companionship, being there for each other...

[Hellraiser1984]

Depends on the guy. I want someone who actually loves me and not just trying to destroy me for fun. Having someone there to be with and have fun with. Sex is there but it's not in my top 5 priorities. If she's ok with getting massages and kisses on the forehead woo hoo!

[Screenwriter]

Same reason a woman wants a guy: companionship, adventure some sex, a family. The regular stuff.

[Anonymous]

They only truly want a woman when they are infatuated.

[Dontaaaa]

My reason:

To escape loneliness.

The only time I ever thought about out of my way to find a companion has been out of not wanting to feel lonely anymore.

Living alone and working for months on end is what it seems to take for me.

[736_switch_blade]

You prefer being alone?

[Dontaaaa]

Usually yes, but I feel like I've been at my limit as of late.

I both live alone and work alone, I think I've been too alone for my own good. I only have friends come every blue moon, we're all too busy to meet up as often like we would like to.

[Dontaaaa]

Heck, I don't even think my problem is loneliness, I just feel like being as alone as I am is doing things to my mental psyche that I don't like.

[736_switch_blade]

Yeah I totally get that. But if you get the chance try to spend time with those who want to be with you.

[TheLoneTerran]

A life partner? I'd like an SO that's like a best friend. Rock solid trust in one another, equally comfortable in conversation, companionable silence doing our own thing, and able to have hobbies and time apart. Someone to look forward to seeing every day, someone to share ideas, dreams, and a future while also being deeply intimate with one another.

[NathanDavis]

for me... it's sharing

I like to share the time, the feelings, the joy, passion, happiness, excitement, goals, interests, hobbies, laughs, good times, great times, bad times, desires, and everything else... life in general, the more the merrier

[Reaper1985]

typically I want a female partner for companionship. because it can often lead to having someone to spend time with, having someone to have sexual encounters with, having someone to greet me when I return home, having someone to greet when they return home, having someone to help with cooking and cleaning, etc.

[The_Shadow_Dweller]

Not only sex, definitely.

A companion, a partner, someone to talk with, discuss things with, fight with, be comfortable with, express everything to. There are many reasons.

Experienced guys may be able to tell more.

[Berethor]

Usually sex is the number one reason for a guy.

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[MCheetah]

Love/companionship.

Believe or not, sex isn't as important to a man as women think. (Still important, but it's ranked like third or fourth, overall.)

[SolitarySolace]

No idea.
Men could just get a dog for companionship.
Men could just masterbate alone or in the shower and be completely content.
There is really no real need to be in a relationship.

[736_switch_blade]

You know I feel like end up like you. And that’s really scary

[SolitarySolace]

How is that scary?

[736_switch_blade]

Because I’m 23 and haven’t had a relationship

[KrakenAttackin]

@736_switch_blade. As a female you could snap your fingers and have a relationship.

[SolitarySolace]

You’re not missing anything. I’ve had three and each one cheated on me. Then when I tried to see where things would go with a girl I met in college she falsely accused me and shoved an ex parte PPO up my ass. That’s when I completely gave up in relationships. It’s been almost 8 years sense my last legit relationship and about 5 sense the false accusation where I gave up completely

[SolitarySolace]

That’s very true @KrakenAttackin

[Paige90]

You are 23 and never had a relationship? Have you had sex yet or given a blowjob?

[MCheetah]

@736_switch_blade
KrakenAttackin is right. Honestly, it's kind of offensive for single men to hear about single women complaining about being single when they have endless options. It's especially annoying when it's a heterosexual woman under 30 who's not unattractive looking.

99% of all women are single solely by choice and entitlement. Because a guy who's a 6.5 out of 10 is undateable and she's entitled to a 9 or above. Then women ONLY date these 9s, who have lots of options themselves and tend to not be loyal, appreciative of their partners, looking to settle down, etc, and then get mad at men for women's own sh*tty choices in dating. Women don't THINK they're this entitled, but the second you start asking questions on why they're single, all the excuses come bursting out.

It's like having a group of starving emaciated men in one room, and having a group of overweight women in another room complaining about how a Big Mac or a Whopper is "too gross" for them, and that they only deserve to eat wagyu steak with truffle butter because they have a vagina.

[MCheetah]

@SolitarySolace
I sympathize with you, but I do agree with others on this site: You DO have sh*tty choices in women, friend. I'm not going to tell you what to do with your life, but I would suggest if you haven't gone full Red Pill yet (not that I'm saying that'd 'bad'), to start looking for women who aren't sh*tty. Aren't the usual physical type your abusive exes were. For all we know, maybe you were also only going after the Stacy's, the attractive-but-abusive women who treat men like toys. While I do 100% believe there are less good women out there than men, I still think 25 and three bad partners is too early to call it quits. Now if you're 30-something and every woman you've met has been a cunt, then by all means, go MGTOW without regrets.

[736_switch_blade]

@Paige90 girl I have had sex and all of that. guys don’t take me seriously

[NamerOfStars]

Which guy? Some want sex most, some companionship, some kids, some long nails for back scratching purposes, some for something ial status, some for money, the list goes on and on...

[HiddenIPLuv]

u want the politically correct answer or the honest answer?
well im not lookinh for love so i only want a girl for sex, not that i even try to get that

[soe11]

Many reasons...
• company spend time together
• get produced next generation
• sex• compliment each other• sharing each other wealth and health.

[fatmucho]

Personally for me, it's the mostly personalilty, but looks do help.

[VanillaSalt]

children. Sex. All the same. want the sex that gives children.

[EyeKnowMeNahYou]

Someone that says physical opposite to share is affections with and grow and build something exclusive and sacred and valuable for

[Static_In_The_Attic]

So our stomachs are always full & our balls are always empty.

[Anonymous]

Usually because of her looks. Everything else falls into place after as far as personality. Because initially that’s what draws a man in to begin w to want to approach her.

[crossdressingrihno]

Love and sex

Some value sex more and some value love more and some value both equally

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

I want a woman to love and be special in my life forever.

[TrillXHippy]

Number one reason for me is that I would like a woman that can be goofy with me, be serious with me, hold it down for me and things of that nature

[007kingifrit]

the first thing we need is to be physical with her. we can appreciate many things beyond that but they all stop working without sex.

[Juxtapose]

I want lifelong intimacy, emotional and physical. Men are human and want love too!

[Ragingwhisper]

Wants as in marry? Lonely
Sex? Horny
Friend? Lonely
Roomate? Broke

For me it's the brains.
If she is intelligent I want it all.

[Anonymous]

Depends on the guy. Like with women, it's not the same with all or all the time.

[Anonymous]

Wow! You ask that like all guys are alike.🤣
Sorry but the answer to that is going to be as varied as the guy she's seeking.

[TallAnon]

"A woman", companionship. "That hot woman over there", sex.

[SignedAutographs]

Depends, but isn't the point of life, to keep life going?

[Luckycharms12]

Into one another and like to get to know each other as people and sexually

[BLP11520]

Companionship, female friendship is very important. Sex is not number one.

[Anonymous]

its stuff you are not willing to do

and no its not sex

you girls throw out sex like sun shine

[Slim57]

There's no number one reason for men or women to want anyone because everyone is different

[Anonymous]

I’d like to say companionship but it’s probably sex

[Paige90]

Probably sex or to give him a handjob or blowjob.

[Apple1996]

For love and snuggles

[Charliefretz329]

Yes definitely

[Chiarac2003]

Our nails!…. We can scratch the itch well.

[insteadfew]

O seriously 😳 so women can scartch and satisfy ball itch too? 🤣

[Chiarac2003]

@insteadfew yes an dangerous situation…huh?

[insteadfew]

Why would it be a dangerous situation 😂😂😂

[scooogy]

[fonduegirl]

Cooking, fucking and kids <3

[Billlewis]

To keep me in line and dominate that ass.

[Anonymous]

Is it even a question...
For sex and for her smooth curvy body

[Anonymous]

Can only speak for myself, the biggest reason is companionship

[mark000h]

Sex, then companionship.

[Slartybartfast]

To find his car keys.

[sheikalana]

He's attracted to her.

[Blackcupcake]

depends on the guy, it could be many things

[FunkyMonkee]

Love, companionship, sex, babies.

[888theGreat]

house work and then sex

[736_switch_blade]

You’re married?

[888theGreat]

nope , that is what guys want and kid would be 3rd

[Xrrdftgyhuji]

It varies from men to men

[xJayleenx]

He finds her beautiful

[Iron_Man]

Beauty personality helping him out in life

[anylolone]

There isn't a number one reason.

[OddBeMe]

1) sex attraction
2) partnership

[Hispanic-Cool-Guy]

Sex, well at least for me. 😂

[ChrisMaster69]

Laundry n ironing

[RosaJessicaa]

Looks and to sleep with her

[Snsl153]

For sex?

[Anonymous]

Sex
Friendship
Start a family

[DonkeyDan]

To polish my knob 🤣

[Jxhn22]

Her caring and support.

[Anonymous]

Pussy.
It’s all we actually need you for.

[gabby100]

SEX.

[chulo1992]

Companionship & Sex

[crossdressingrihno]

Agreed

[DWornock]

Sex.