It's about meshing I guess. Do you guys always want to do similar things. Do you guys talk about similar topics. It's great that you have a lot going for you and are confident, that's awesome. But you having it all going for you doesn't mean anything if the guys you meet have nothing in common. A good example of this I think is a nurse I know that works in the NicU. Essentially she works with babies born early. It's all she talks about. She is super attractive, makes a good amount of money for her specialized work, has her own car, and on paper she seems great. Unfortunately I don't want to talk about babies and I don't want to talk about the NicU all the time. Occasionally its fine, I understand her work is a big part of her life, but because its all she talks about she's been single for the past 5 years. She just can't hold a proper conversation with most people because most people don't relate to the conversation. This may not be your problem but it could. When you next have a date try asking the guy about their work and other things. Try making them the one that talks the most. Listening can be super boring but finding out what they like and trying to talk a lot about that can really help improve conversation and make someone like you. You don't have to like everything they like, but for a relationship to work there needs to be some common ground.
Let me ask you a few questions that might seem dickish. I'm not intending this to be an insult to you in any way whatsoever, I am genuinely asking this because I want you to do well, and I need to get you thinking to help make that happen. Here are the questions (and I need you to answer them honestly). I want to read your responses.
1. Name me your three main hobbies.
2. If you had a man text you the way you texted the last guy you dated, would you be interested in still seeing him? Forget about your intention behind the text for minute, because he doesn't know that. He's getting that message without any context, the same way you do when he texts you. I want you to read your correspondence to him that same way.
3. Who do you hangout with, where do you try to meet men?
4. What do you feel you can bring to a man's life (again, just the first thing that comes to your mind)?
5. What do you feel differentiates you from the women who are successfully dating the kinds of men you want to date?
6. Tell me about your ideal relationship?
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I never wanted to date a woman but it just happens somehow. Usually, it seems like a date and then we are living together in a few days. Every one of them picked me up so I just figured that is how it is supposed to happen. I never initiated a date. If you want a date, pick him up.
Physical attraction is just the prerequisite. Everyone wants to be physically and sexually attracted to the person they're potentially sleeping with.
After that the important stuff comes into play. For me, chemistry consists of similarities. Similar views, interests, goals, sense of humor, way of communicating, etc.
Imagine if your partner didn't have those similarities I stated above with you. It would be a pretty shit relationship, right?
Men just want to be respected at the end of the day. Thats why my past relationships didn't work because i know what respect looks like, she can't expect me to risk my life for her if she doesn't respect me. Id rather be alone and happy af
For me, it’s having someone that’s confident, independent, able to speak her own mind.
have an intelligent conversation about almost anything, including utter bollox lol.
Spoiler, you having a career, education and a car is fine for you. But it doesn't make us harder. A lot of women fail to understand that.
I want to date a woman because I'm lonely. But I would date a specific woman because I think she would be an ideal cure for my loneliness.
u It does tend to be looks at first and personality once he gets to know u for making a man approach u its about showing that your intrested in them
Depending on circumstances, I would say companionship, breaking away from single life couples are more acceptable in social society. But of course, let's not forget everyone also needs a little Sex in their lives.
If you are a modern day feminist then that is your problem. If you are not a modern day feminist then I really do not know.
You have to be legitimately interesting. If you have all of what you say you have and still haven't found someone, you're probably just boring as fuck. No one likes a basic person.
u To date or to get married? For dating all you have to do is just be nice and friendly and be attractive looking that’s about it
At first physical attraction. The second date should have some intelligent conversations. The third date should have passion.
I want a girl that's talkative, outgoing and fun to hangout with. That's the main quality that I look for.
Depends on the man's standards.
Some people just fall for a woman overtime, by observing how they act and socialize. And some only for beauty.
For me, it's how much she is attracted to me and her personality, but there has to be physical attraction at first when we first met. Kind and nurturing is a big plus :)
Uhhhhh that is a very good question, sounds like you should be taken by now but are not for whatever reason. I'd have to know you to tell you why
Jus a care and some thing if you need friends with benefits jus approach it open... if he rejected jus limit his frndship
seems more desperate than serious
I'd like a traditional girl
Biological clock
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