Lets do a reverse here, instead of an older guy going for a younger girl what about an older girl going for a younger guy?

Question

Older guys and men have been doing it for decades... whats wrong with a woman doing it?

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

Nothing, but often not the case because many women want guys their own age, or just slightly older (year or two). So much so it's even a deal breaker for many. So nothing wrong with it, just not many women actually want that either.

Many examples of things like this. Another, women going topless. Like above, it's a double issue, because even if they changed the laws, and women could legally go topless, not many women would actually do it, so it would become pointless. I've seen this were I live. It became legal, and in the first year, there was one or two women that actually did it, but I haven't seen one since and it was many years ago it went into effect.

Intothevoid666 · Accepted Answer

People can do whatever makes them happy as long as they follow the law I’m glad we agree. I hope we can all stop hating on me who do it now that we agree. but Personally I would absolutely never go for a girl older than me probably even just for sex and I think the majority of guys are kinda the same although most would probably fuck an older woman. I think it’s hardwired in male biology to be attracted to younger women but some men I’m sure are into older women. I’m sure tho those guys are going to be attractive to women but I don't know.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

I'm happily married to a much younger man (15 years younger). However, when we started our relationship he was the one pursuing me, not the other way around (In fact, I was kind of hesitant at first because I was worried about the fact he was so much younger). I've talked to a lot of other women with younger guys and they've mostly all agreed the younger guy was the pursuer, not them.
So this idea of the 'cougar' on the prowl in the pursuit younger men is largely a myth. It's usually younger men who pursue us, not the other way around (although that sometimes does happen, but not usually)

TrueConfection · Accepted Answer

My mother is 4 years older than my father. My friend is also 4 years older than her husband and my other friend is 10 years older than her husband.

bamesjond0069 · Answer

Its just laughable because everyone knows a normal stable woman generally likes certain things about men... of which young men have none of those things. So it does make her look stupid really.

Its like if a girl of 5'5" tall dated a by all accounts average guy except he was 4'10" tall... i mean she's got some kind of issues going on. Either she's got serious issues and thats all she can get or she beats him up at home, clearly she doesn't get that feeling girls love when a man picks them up and tosses them on the bed... so its honestly just kinda like a joke. Everyone knows a normal female doesn't want a man much shorter than her... comically shorter... and not because she's like the tallest woman in the world but because he's a midget. Great true love but her girlfriends going to laugh about it and say things like "he's so cute and im happy for y'all but i just couldnt no way"

Its basically just like that.

mayur1598 · Answer

Its totally fine... And if you are talking about having children then medical science is so advance now a days 60 year old woman can also be pregnant...
I think you are into someone who is younger than you... If he likes you then its ok to get together...
I like older woman too... But not that much older like 2-3 years old then me is ok...
So its all good if you both are OK with it...

EyeKnowMeNahYou · Answer

That's always a popular narrative, men have done it for decades but so have women. There's the definition of discreetness that plays loud here. I also think women shun the practice more than more men disagree with older women younger men

Fireguy17 · Answer

not a thing, cougars/milfs are fun to date. they are more settled, have a job/career know where they are going, and they know stuff. I never had an issue when I dated older women.

TheLoneTerran · Answer

I wasn't aware it was wrong. As long as both are consenting adults and no one is in a position of power over the other, then go nuts.

Anonymous · Answer

There's nothing wrong with us doing it and it actually happens, just not that often. Us ladies tend to prefer older men, and men seem to like younger women.

SnakeBoop · Answer

again depends on the age. no person goes for a barely legal person with true and honest intentions.

Anonymous · Answer

Nothing wrong with it, but it goes against basic male biology. Men are attracted to women of child bearing age, so older women aren't good for that.

zagor · Answer

They do. One of my sisters has been married twice, both times to younger men. I recently visited a former co-worker who has retired - her husband has to be about 20 years younger.

Avicenna · Answer

Nothing wrong with that, they're consenting adults.

jamesgoldman · Answer

Been there done it and no regrets only odd thing that used to happen was the assumption that we were siblings

varan69 · Answer

There's nothing wrong and us guys love older women they are the best. Im not saying younger ones are not but we do like the older ones they are great too

one1wild00 · Answer

Older gal going for a younger guy is called a Cougar and it has been happening just as long.

TacosRAwesome · Answer

Whatever as long as they're on the same page and there is respect.

Andres77 · Answer

Nothing. And as a former 20-sonething plaything I quite enjoyed being used for my body.

Jamie05rhs · Answer

There's absolutely nothing at all wrong with a woman doing it.

EdwinLivingston_ · Answer

There's nothing wrong with that and i know few of them

Anonymous · Answer

Nothing just that in general women are more mature than men so they're surely gonna get crazy fastly

Samhanks · Answer

Nothing wrong, its the attraction of two individuals towards each other, irrespective of the age !

Anonymous · Answer

If she can nail down a younger guy more power to her.

Slim57 · Answer

Yeah my ex and last woman I was with, I was 24 my ex was 28, then I was 28 and the woman was 42

WhitneySnow · Answer

Nothing wrong with that

Anonymous · Answer

It's been happening for decades, also.

RandomGuy1030 · Answer

They dont typically want younger

clemdenim · Answer

noy a thing wrong with it

Anonymous · Answer

Not as many people are in to that; but you do you.

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