So I'm 31 years old who wants to get married but not have kids. How much do I need to worry about my age?
And please no sexist comments. Thank you.
It's never too late.
I met my (future) wife when I was 40. She's 2.5 years younger. (I don't remember the exact date when we first met.)
We had both had relationships, traveled, had careers, and lived full lives before we met. I treasure my life's experiences. I couldn't have had that much fun if I had been tied down.
I'm like you. I never wanted to raise a family. l didn't want the responsibility. I had been in quite a few very good relationships, but didn't start thinking about finding a life partner and settling down until I was in my mid-30s.
We got married two years later. She wanted to have a baby and I said "Sure". I was attracted to the idea of passing on my genes and family name. But I had severe misgivings about becoming a father that would be more like a grandfather.
After two early-term miscarriages, she didn't want to take any more chances on pregnancy.
One day, years later, she told me that she was glad that we didn't have any kids to worry about or bother us.
We've been happily married now for 26 years. We had a lot of fun and have built a wonderful life together. And we think we are better off never having children.
Your ag and not wanting kids won't prevent you from finding a partner, especially if you're OK with him already being a father. You're still young.
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I'm 42 and already have a son so your age is perfect.
I usually look for women 30 to 45 years old. Occasionally I'll meet one in her early 20's who is super smart and I can't resist but feel attracted to that, but usually I want women in my age group so I feel more comfortable with my own age in the relationship.
Your age doesn't matter.
Your looks matter, but taste in looks varies from person to person.
Your views, interests, and hobbies matter.
Your health habits matter (ie i won't date alcohol drinkers, smokers, potheads, or other drug users)
I almost always date older. Your posted age is actually on the younger side of my usual.
If I were to consider marriage, that age and not wanting kids would not matter as I'm sterile.
Hitting the wall and not wanting kids? how feminist, good luck with finding a man.
As long as she's a consenting adult over 25, I could care less about a woman's age. For me, it's ALL about a compatible complementary personality.
Older so you'd be fine
I don't want kids either with the overpopulation, the liberal molesters or just perpetuating my vile DNA
For 22 years old guy u No need to worry. Would y marry for a 22 years old guy? Just for an idea, I am not making any real offer.
Since you don't want kids, being 31 is not that big of a deal.
some like older, some like younger
I'm into younger and READY TO MAKE KIDS
Since you don't want kids your age is unimportant.
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