Do guys prefer younger or older women?

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Anonymous · Accepted Answer

For the past decade, the mainstream media has been pushing older women defined here 30 and up as “the new sexy,” to the point where it’s become cultural white noise. Not a week goes by without a listicle or stinkpiece extolling the virtues of older women, whether they’re trying to shame thirty- and forty-something men into dating women “their own age” or selling younger men on “cougars,” those mythological maneaters that don’t exist outside of MILF porn. And each article cites the same reasons why these women are hot:

“They’re confident.”

“They pay their own way.”

“They know what they want.”

By sheer accident, I’ve spent a good portion of the past few years involved with women in their late thirties/early forties. If you’re in your twenties, getting entangled with a woman more than a decade older than you is a disastrous move. While they can be fun in the sack, trying to forge a deeper relationship with one will end in misery for you.

While it’s tempting to point out the obvious (“LOL old women have wrinkles and their boobies sag!”), the girls I talk about in this article were in shape and cute for their age; their problems go far beyond gravity and aging. Here’s why getting involved with women 35 and up is a bad idea…

1. They’re mentally ill

Despite the twin specters of cultural Marxism and technology-induced social retardation ruining Western society, most girls still manage to pair up by their early thirties. Given how severely the modern sexual marketplace favors women, any girl who isn’t married or in a long-term relationship (7+ years) by the time she’s 40 is damaged goods. Her mental issues are so deep and intractable that even with an international epidemic of male thirst, she can’t get any man to take a sip. Given that women are generally more enthusiastic about marriage and relationships than men, a girl who can’t achieve either is irreversibly broken. For example, a long time ago, I was involved with a girl in her late thirties I’ll refer to as J. A fan of my work, she invited me to meet her and her boyfriend one day when I was passing through their area. After taking me out drinking, she forced herself on me while “the love of [her] life” was sleeping ten feet away, then when I confronted her about it months later, she confessed to having a “crush” on me and claimed she had blacked out that night. After J.’s boyfriend dumped her for a woman in her twenties, she began smearing him online as a “pedophile,” leaving out the fact that she’d repeatedly cheated on him with a man in his twenties (me). In addition to her infidelity, J. was a severe alcoholic: near the end of our relationship, she was relapsing at the rate of once a month. Whenever she was starved for attention, she would go on multi-day benders in which she refused to shave, shower or eat, demanding I drop everything and come over to make sure she was alright. During one episode, she begged me to come over with “a 24-pack of beer” and “some thick fuckin’ condoms,” berating me at the door for not bringing another girl so we could have a threesome. Another time, she got so drunk that she forgot she was on her period and ended up menstruating all over her bedsheets.

2. They’re incredibly insecure

Let’s just explode this lie right here, right now. The you-go-grrl fantasy of “cougars” who chase younger men and don’t care what anyone thinks of them is just that: a fantasy. Most single women over 30 are miserable wretches who want nothing more than a husband and kids, constantly screwing up due to their mental disorders and poor life choices. Their loneliness and personality defects make them ludicrously easy to manipulate, to the point where men in third-world countries can make a living fleecing them. Moreover, while feminists may deny that women become less attractive as they age, deep down, every girl knows the truth. As a man in your twenties, you have more (and better) options than any woman over 30, and she knows this. Contrary to Benjamin Franklin’s claim that old women are “grateful” for attention from young men, any older woman you bang will eventually grow to resent you for dating down. It’s the same reason why fat girls are meaner than skinny girls; they know they’re ugly and assume that men who pursue them are doing so out of pity. For example, a while back, I met a single mother reader of mine in Pittsburgh I’ll refer to as W. She was nearing 40 and had a pretty face and decent body, though she could stand to lose 20 pounds. While she was incredibly grabby at the bar—constantly touching me on the arm and rubbing my shoulders—when she took me back to her place, she screamed when I tried to turn the lights on in her bedroom. Turns out she needed the darkness to hide her stretch marks, which were so bad they made her stomach look like it had been carved up with a panga. In another incident, J. went ballistic on me when I tried to wheedle a nude selfie out of her, claiming she was “revolting” naked because of her flat chest and “horrifying” face, accusing me of trying to entrap her in a legal scheme. Another time, she invited me over to her place to do cocaine, and an hour after I got there, she was simultaneously begging me to have sex with her (a running theme in our relationship) while claiming I needed to stay away from her because she was too old, ugly and crazy for me, exclaiming, “You can do so much better than me.”

3. They are immature

I forgot who it was that said “women don’t grow up, they just grow old,” but it’s the absolute truth. As young men, we’re inclined to think that our elders are wiser than us, having learned from the trials and tribulations life has put them through. The truth is that few women mentally mature past high school. If you become involved with an older women, she’ll act just as childishly as girls your age, only she’s not as good-looking as girls your age… making her behavior inexcusable. While female immaturity is in part enabled by white knights and thirsty simps, a significant part of it is physiological. In his essay “On Women,” a friend pointed out that women reach the peak of their maturity at age 18. My other friend has pointed out that girls don’t reach full maturity until they give birth; women who don’t have children will remain children themselves no matter how old they get. It’s no surprise that men who have the option to date younger girls almost always do so: they’re just as mature as women their own age, but they’re hotter naked. A couple of months back, I scored an OkCupid date with a 37-year old girl I’ll call T. She was part Argentine, stood about six feet tall, worked as a librarian and exuded a sexual desperation endemic to single women of a certain age. After we got liquored up at a bar near my apartment, I brought her back to my place to seal the deal. As we were making out on my bed, she suddenly pushed me off her.

“What is that?” she cried.

“What’s what?” I had no clue what she was talking about.

T. jumped off the bed and stormed over to my coffee table, snatching up the “Trump: Make America Great Again” sign I’d stashed on top of a pile with all the other tchotchkes I’d scored while on the campaign trail.

“Did you actually vote for Donald Trump?” she interrogated me, a vein rising in her forehead.

“Yeah,” I said nonchalantly.

“Omigod, omigod, what is wrong with you?” she hollered. “He’s a fucking racist!”

“He is not a racist,” I argued, too drunk to come up with better retorts.

The argument degenerated from there, as T. hyperventilated about my hidden bigotry and I tried to reassure her that no, I don’t moonlight as a KKK Grand Wizard. At one point, she actually screamed, “OH MY GOD, I ALMOST FUCKED A WHITE SUPREMACIST!” After about ten minutes of pointless back and forth, she put her coat back on and stormed out. I suppose I should be glad that she didn’t Google my name.

J. is another fine example of female immaturity: she’s incapable of accepting any responsibility for her actions. When I confronted her for seducing me and cheating on her boyfriend, she tried to excuse her unfaithfulness by claiming that he refused to have sex with her. She also had the audacity to claim that I “ruined [her] life” by confronting her, saying that she was “traumatiz[ed]” by me being angry at her using me for her own gratification.

While women over 30 do have some things to recommend them—namely, they tend to be easy to lay, and are eager to please you in the hopes that you’ll stick around—committing to one is a bad idea. While it’s possible for people to change, by the time someone hits their thirties, their personality is pretty much set in stone. Any woman who is perpetually single past a certain age is bad news for any man who tries to court her.

Fireguy17 · Accepted Answer

I've dated younger and older.
If they were too young then we really didn't have much in common.
With older women you tend to have more in common, they are more secure both financially and emotionally.
They have a career, either a house/condo/nice apartment and seem to like doing different things, and most do not seem to be glued to their phones.
and if it gets to that point, they know stuff, and what they like.

20yearsolder · Answer

Guys like the Gambit, from younger all the way to older. There is no specific age range. It's different for every guy. Some prefer older women, some prefer younger women. It's just personal preference

Jacobbbb · Answer

Never really mattered to me. If a girl is on the same wavelength as me and I have a good time with her then I wouldn't care, but I wouldn't go for a girl too much younger

IAteTwoFullHams · Answer

The average guy prefers a woman who's a little younger than him, like a year or two younger if he's 25 and maybe ten years younger if he's 45. There are boundless numbers of exceptions.

mstbooblover · Answer

That may depend on the guy's age. I'm 68, and odds are high a girl aged 50 to be young... I'm still open to start a relation with a lady a bit older than me.

Berethor · Answer

Men tend to value woman's looks and fertility above all, also young is likely to have less baggage.

Vasarion · Answer

Hard to imagine you don't know already but men definitely prefer younger women. Women who are young are hotter, have lower body counts, are more submissive, and form stronger bonds with men

DaddyDiablo · Answer

Honestly I'm at a good age where we know when young is you g n when older women just already kinda know whats good and are more mature enough to really know whats what...

TheMajesticKing777 · Answer

I like older normally but it can go both ways for me

ArtemisSilver · Answer

I prefer younger women who I can shape into people of quality, over women who already have been set in their often messed up ways.

Hairylegs222 · Answer

Around my age younger or older is fine. Too young, much more likely she's too immature for me. Too old, not my thing.

U4ea0 · Answer

Younger women. Very rare that a 20 year old male would marry a 40 year old female.

BarryLiverstone · Answer

Less about older or younger. More about the range if that makes sense

MiseriaCantareAFI · Answer

My mom married a younger man, but that's just my mom. I prefer older women myself, but that's just me

TitsMcGee16 · Answer

It depends. Older men tend to prefer younger women. And some young men prefer older for experience. But the study that i have seen says that most men prefer women in their early twenties.

Valso · Answer

Younger, older (though not above 50) - whatever's available and willing for sex. 😁

Anonymous · Answer

I'm less concerned with her age than where she's at in life. I still shoot for plus or minus ten years of my age though.

Zolly99999 · Answer

Age doesn't matter to me if I like her. Obviously I would never go too young.

nawtee_me · Answer

I have always liked younger... Would you like to go out?

LimitedBenefits101 · Answer

Right now girls my age but once I turn 30 it's all gon be about younger girls, 20-25

Bklynbadboy12 · Answer

Older cause they know what they want and most of them are past the games and bullshit

Anonymous · Answer

Most like younger but I prefer older like say Kylie Minogue who is 30 years older than me

Anonymous · Answer

99% of men are ehebophiles  this is biological

Avicenna · Answer

Younger women, of course

FilmGuy93 · Answer

Younger; more energy.

Waldoe · Answer

"Good women with a kind heart" Not Golddiggers

driven159 · Answer

I prefer good woman no matter of age

Hispanic-Cool-Guy · Answer

Around my age is my preference.

MrTaboo · Answer

Younger. Just what I like

KrakenAttackin · Answer

Younger, of course.

Anonymous · Answer

Younger

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