How to go about asking for her # or social media info?

[Anonymous]

i don't have her # so that would be my main goal , have seen her instagram before , never seen her tik tok though for some reason couldn't find it

but main goal would be to get her # obviously , we have talked in person a few times so it doesn't seem like it be odd if i asked at this point , she might even be wondering why i haven't asked yet

only really see her at 1 spot though , she works at this pub/restaurant , see her there a lot when she is working but also talked to her when she was off work and we've done drinks together before , we seem to get along fairly well

[K-Girl2]

Simply just ask the worst thing she could say is no. It seems like you guys like each other so I say go for it. Just be casual and confident.

[Asker]

feel it be less likely she'd say no to me simply having her # as we know each other , although that doesn't mean she'd reply or text me. i couldn't really see any reason why she'd have an issue with me knowing what it was at this point

part of the issue is i see her at that restaurant a lot and feel it be awkward asking when she's working and we don't always get much alone or even semi alone time there

[K-Girl2]

If that's the case give her your number on the receipt or a napkin or something. That way she has your number and write a cute message it as a cute question to heighten the probability of her actually texting you. That is always an option as well.

[Asker]

i'd be ok with leaving a cute message on a receipt but an actual # seems off as we've known each other for a while now , its odd i don't have her # or even an email by now

and obviously depend on how the inperson convo went if i felt it was going well enough to ask

[Anonymous]

That's really good to hear. I totally think you should go for it, ask for her number

[Asker]

i know it doesn't seem like it be a big deal to ask , not entirely sure what she'd be expecting me to do , just not sure how else to get to know her better

[Opinion Owner]

No you're totally right. Gotta get the ball rolling somehow

[Asker]

thats kind of what i'm thinking too even if i don't end up speaking to her much through it , it at least sends a message that i'm trying to actually get to know her better

[Opinion Owner]

Not really... unless you say it. Remember keep your expectations low

[Opinion Owner]

And talking on the phone like calling her and getting to know her is better than texting trust me

[Asker]

i have limited expectations for simply asking for a # , its also possible she see's me as a friend and still gives it , a lot of girls would give it to anyone they knew fairly well and we seem to know each other

[Opinion Owner]

That's correct I'm glad you know that :)

[Asker]

weird i just found her tik tok last night but there is nothing there which makes no sense as she's been a member for a while and mentioned that one of her video's went viral. appears she started a new account maybe so nothing there?

haven't seen her in person yet