What is the point of thriving anymore?

[Almost_Incel]

• I am short at 5'6"

• I am heavyset

• I am average looking at best
• I never had a real girlfriend
• I am unemployed
• On disability
• Have severe mental health issues
• All my former friends are married and/or have kids
• None of my crushes growing up ever liked me back
• Have very little friends
• Have a criminal record for stalking and harassment
• Reputation ruined
• Kicked out of most everything
• Alienated by most of my extended family
• The once perfect girl I wanted to marry just recently married some other guy

[lightbulb27]

The power of your mind to change, repair the damage, find hope, a new life. You will generally change very 10 years, make it good changes.

some stuff is screwed up in tha tlist, obviously you want connection, love, something... and you lack control. You need to work on yourself. that's more normal than you think.

Lots of people have rebuilt and created better lives. it's a choice, it's hard work. you decide.

[Rob1n]

Seems like it is a good time to turn things around. You can at least change some of the things listed here. Like meet new people so you can extend your friend group.

[Anonymous]

Lose weight, up your game, and go for girls that are 5' 4"or less.

She's 4 feet tall. You wouldn't want Santa to put that under your tree?

[jshm2]

You're not thriving though, and never have.

Address your mental health issues first, and then anything else.

[MCheetah]

"Only when a man has nothing to lose, can he really start living." - Some dude

[Anonymous]

How long ago did the stalking and harassment incident happen?

[LazerBean]

Life is what you make of it.