Girls, I'm 24 and inexperienced with men. There's this guy at work who we liked each other and we're dating now? What do you think about this?

[Anonymous]

I didn't have a boyfriend until now, because I was busy qualifying myself, I'm finishing up my masters. He's 29, tall, strong, good looking, and has dated a few women. We were talking for two months before we started dating officially, and we've been on 10 official dates. The last time we met, we were watching a movie, and we were making out, and then he lifted my shirt and started kissing my belly and it surprised me, I made an excuse to go to the bathroom. I'm afraid of being used for sex, how do I talk about this to him?

[Changiis07]

It's simple tell him what you are looking for. Are you guys officially boyfriend and girlfriend? Girl be careful he probably knows you are a virgin. I wish I would have waited until marriage to have sex as it would have prevented me from all the wrong guys. If you two are not officially boyfriend and girlfriend then it's best to stop all the kissing until it is made official. That's why it is best not to rush into anything and make sure he wants to get to know you for you and not for your body trust me. I made this mistake and don't ever be afraid to ask him what he is looking for that way you will know right away what his intentions are. Is he looking for a long term, is he looking for marriage, kids, what are in his future goals. Does he say he do what he says he is going to do? Does he make an effort. Thing is when you give up sex so easily to men they stop putting the effort because they already got what they wanted. So it's best to look for a quality guy