Don't you agree that if a GOOD LOOKING guy struggles to get laid or a girlfriend (or both), he is doing something wrong?

[Steven8000]

GOOD LOOKING guys have it easy in the laid and romantic department. If they are having trouble then they are doing something wrong.

[F4lconteer]

I disagree. From my experience women under 30 maybe even 35 aren’t that interested in good looking guy. I think they like the thought of it but don’t actually want to do it. I get lots of attention from older women but rarely any from the ones my age. If anything they do nothing but insult me then try to play it off as a joke. They never say hi, ask questions, or be friendly. If I’m new to a group or job they’ll talk shit and drag my name through the mud before even learning what my name is. I’ve read books and watched 100s of videos on how to improve myself but that hasn’t helped cause they don’t respond when I speak to them and if they do the give one word answers and look at everything but me when speaking. Even the ones that do know me don’t speak to me unless i initiate 110% of the time they’d walk past me if I didn’t say hi. I don’t even remember The last time a girl asked me about something I’m interested in but best believe they’ll talk shit about me mercilessly so much so that guys don’t even want to be my friend.

I’ve been told I’m good looking almost everyday by older women and they wonder why I’m always single but in my experience I don’t think many women like the fact that I actually exist and they actually enjoy putting me down because it makes them feel better about themselves

[2log10x]

I don't struggle to get laid but I struggle to get a girlfriend. As soon as I start to fall for someone and I think it's going great they break up with me. Usually highly educted women. What is the point of being slightly good looking and 6'4 if as a person you're not loveable. Yes I can message previous hook ups and some will be down for hooking up again. And I can get dates without much effort and my conversion from dates to getting laid is very high. But time and time again women use me for sex and pretend they're interested in me as a person but they're not. This isn't an issue for just women, some men face this. So yes, I guess I'm doing something wrong to keep a girlfriend. But don't assume just because guys can get laid easily that their life is easy. What I would give to sleep with someone who truly cares about me and loves me...

[Anonymous]

I think a lot of depends on where that guy is living. Some areas people are married off by they time the are 30 or sometimes even by their early 20s. How big the dating pool is in the area has a lot ot do with it.

[Anonymous]

He’s probably a douche or just not a fun person to be around with or that he doesn’t go out much

[F4lconteer]

What if women treat him like he doesn’t exist? Or what if women treat him like shit? I’m a pretty good looking guy and 9/10 women my age shit on me before even learning my name. People older than me always have nice things to say about me and are always trying to help me out in life but women just seem to instantly hate me and enjoy trying to make me feel like shit or making me the butt of they’re horrible/disrespectful jokes.
Anyways I eventually realized that I was the common factor and just gave up on dating years ago and stopped trying to speak to them. Since then no one has shown interest let alone speak to me since so I guess I made the right decision

[Opinion Owner]

@F4lconteer do you know why they treat you like shit? People usually don’t just randomly treat people like shit for no reason unless they’re already shitty people to begin with - I’m sorry that that’s been your experience tho, no one deserves to be treated like shit

Some people are also just plainly unlucky in dating. I know a couple of friends who are extremely attractive and outgoing, they have loads of friends but never could they manage to snag a girlfriend

[F4lconteer]

Yeah the reason is usually because I’m quiet and don’t really initiate conversations unless I’m comfortable with someone. Unfortunately people perceive it as me being stuck up or they say I think that I’m better than them. Also the way I carry myself. Apparently there’s something about how I talk and walk that people don’t like and try to humiliate me for that. I don’t get why something like that bothers others but it does. What’s odd though is people get mad that I don’t like them after treating me this way. Self respect and respect in general are important to me so if you shit on me then I won’t be bothered with you but I do try to forgive it’s not easy but I try.

When people get jealous or are jealous of you they begin to do crazy shit with no regard for you or your feeling. All they want is to feel better about themselves even if at the expense of others. I’ve even had coworkers straight up tell me we’re not gonna make things easy for you but these same people don’t treat others like that. Unfortunately people can be mean and shitty because you have something that they won’t

[HighValue]

Maybe he lives in a liberal area and he doesn't want the kind of women that are often around. (promiscuous, drug users, etc.)

[FunkyMonkee]

No, I'd say it's the fault of the girls. They can't spot the good ones when they're standing right in front of them!!

[F4lconteer]

there's some truth to this. The finest guy in the world could be in front of them and they would never even say hello. In fact they’ll talk mad shit about him and try to humiliate him before taking the time to find out what his name is.

[FunkyMonkee]

@F4lconteer VERY true!! And then, they'll happily jump on the dick of the first flaming asshole that comes along with so much as a question about the kind of guy he is!! And, when she finds out what an abusive asshole he is, guess who's the FIRST person she runs crying to for help and advice? The nice guy she blew off in the first place!! Then, instead of actually giving the nice guy a chance, she runs right to the next asshole waiting in line for his turn to beat the shit out of her!

[OddBeMe]

Some people (like me) are not good at dating. Thats why i played rhe odds and befriended as many girls as possible. Then I started actually liking women…

[jahaims]

That or he has high standards