Why do some guys say that girls don’t care about looks when a lot of us do?

Anonymous
I’ve literally heard from some guys that saying “women don’t care about physical attraction/looks nearly as much as men.” But I’ve found that not to be true as a woman. I care about both looks and personality equally, and so do most of my friends. In fact, I care about physical attraction the same amount as most of my guy friends or the guys I know. I have to find the guy attractive looks-wise to even want to get to know his personality in a romantic way. If I’m not physically attracted to a guy, it’s just not happening in the first place.

Why do some people (and some male dating coaches) say that women don’t care about looks at all, and only care about “confidence” when that’s not true?
Why do some guys say that girls don’t care about looks when a lot of us do?
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