Is a guy surprised when you catch feelings?

[Anonymous]

So my crush full on did make out with me pretty intense the first night I met him. I asked him for a kiss but he went sort of in hard to kiss me. Now I did catch feelings but I feel like he didn't want me to. but how can a girl not when its a guy she likes! So why is he surprised or pulling away now that I like him? He is the one who kissed me so good?

[Ευδεμονια]

I sincerely am a bit confused, since you said he kissed you but you suspect he didn’t want you to catch feelings for him. So why did he kissed you if he didn’t want that?
I think you should talk to him directly and let him explain his intentions with you.

[serious]

Yes if they did not want the woman to like them and they think of her only as a friend then yes a guy will get surprised.

[Asker]

ok but he kissed me like woah... is the point. that he did that? ok.

[serious]

Well, did he give you a french kiss (lip-lock)? or normal kiss on the cheeks?

If it is french kiss he gave you then I don't know what to say

[Asker]

Very serious intense French kiss

[serious]

Well if he only thought of you as a friend then giving you a french kiss is very strange. Not appropriate also.

[Guy13]

Maybe he’s just a little confused right now. Give him some time?