What are signs a guy is playing with your feelings?

[Anonymous]

[Alyssa11]

Honestly the number one sign is your gut feeling. When you’re around him, when you’re talking to him etc how do you feel? If you feel uneasy and uncomfortable chances are he’s playing with your feelings. A guy who’s serious about you will be careful to make sure he’s not.

it should be fairly straightforward to be honest with you. Guys don’t usually beat around the bush - what you see is how he feels. Maybe some obvious signs include:
1. All talk no action - if he says a lot of perfect sweet things but doesn’t have the actions to compliment it he’s full of shit.
2. there’s another girl involved - having another person in your RS dynamic is NEVER normal. Never brush this one off regardless of how harmless or insignificant it may seem.
3. he’s inconsistent - that’s because you're not a priority and he’s giving his time to someone else. Don’t believe that I’m too busy crap - what guy in the world is too busy for feminine energy? Ofc people get busy but within reason.
4. you’re a secret and he doesn’t show you off.
5. He doesn’t put a title on it - OK if a guy doesn’t officially make you his girlfriend/wife whatever and shows no intention of doing so he’s not serious. This one is sooooo easy and brushed over all the time. It baffles me.
6. he doesn’t pay attention to your feelings and accommodate your needs.
7. he doesn’t introduce himself to your family/introduce you to his family.

Ok so I think you get what I’m saying here. Essentially if anything seems wrong he’s playing. It’s really easy to spot. And always trust your gut.

[Butterflyy88]

I think it can be quite obvious, you can tell by the vibe usually.
could just be me though.

[Am_and_Pm]

, Well, thee most obviously one is the guy gives you more of his time than with other people. That's stage one. After you and him are talking and being playful, that's when we feel (and I quote) "WE GOT THE POWER."

From there, every guy has built their own manner on tying to get what they want. (That last part sounds bad but I mean it in a good way. For the few guys who do work hard to get the girl)

Thats as far as I can help.

If the guy isn't trying to make your day or trying to talk every now or so and make romantic or intimate gestures. Than, (and I quote) He's Just Not That into You.

Just know, the guy SHOULDN'T be doing all the work. He should be meeting you half way. Else, your the cruel b. i. t. c. h.
😋

[Asker]

Thanks for taking the time to answer.

[Am_and_Pm]

Oh please, l like talking about how both sexes r big giant dummies in the here and now. It actually rather fun. 😋

[Laozi]

1. He doesn't give shit about your problems. But he wants you to listen to his problems.
2. The real man treat you like a queen. If that's not happening then he's definitely playing with you.
3. He'll remember/ignore you according to his convenience.
4. He only wants to be physical. But when it comes to emotions the he'll retreat.
5. Real man always shows respect to his woman. If that's not happening then he's definitely playing with you.
And there are many other little things that differentiate a player and a real man. The simple way to find them is to not giving him the thing he wants most and he'll show you his true color.

[GingerGuy]

I don't think anyone (male or female) intentionally plays with someone's feelings. It's almost always a lack of communication, and/or selfishness that is the cause. But the big thing with anyone, if they don't take an interest in you as a person, or your life, that's a big "red flag" if there was one.

[Puppystarfish23]

Talks the talk but doesn't actually show any sign of bothering to commit. Also playing down your relationship in front of others and ignoring you time to time

[LazarusTheRisen]

If he only offers you compliments or shows any interest in you when he is attempting to get something in return.

[Ally247]

They usually are, they're men after all

[Asker]

Lol...

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[piyush-with-love]

No sure sure sign. But He definitely won't care for you, that is behind your back

[loveslongnails]

If you're posting this question looking for "signs", you obviously think that he is. Go with your gut.

[ronaldsnugs]

Boring text, not paying attention

[scooogy]

maybe if he kept bills from bet&hurt 🤔

[ssssaaaacccc]

He doesn't give you time

[tae_ie]

I fucked up.

[Dave31989]

he sounds "too sly/smooth"

[Jeremym3]

He’s dating you

[Anonymous]

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