Generally speaking there are two primary types of guys. The insecure, doubtful type, and the confident, somewhat arrogant type. Ideally, there is a third, the confident, sincere type, but they are generally speaking a rare breed.
Anyway, the guy you describe sounds like the more confident type. But I can't really determine whether he's sincere, or arrogant. Before you try to start anything with him, I would try to determine that. For your sake.
Because honestly, he could be playing you, and it could be working. You may want to figure him out a little first. If he's a player, you rejected him with good sense the first time around. But players are arrogant. They won't allow themselves to be put in that position for long. So they'll "get over you." At the same time, many of them know that if they start ignoring you, it will tempt you to feel like you're missing out on something, or feel a little wounded yourself.
This can spur you into returning or second guessing your rejection. I would be careful to figure out why you suddenly started caring for him. Was it because your assumptions about him were proven wrong? And you started to see him differently? Or is it more of an unexplained compelling attraction that has now come alive?
If it's the latter, then you're more likely falling prey to the formula.
To answer your question. No matter how you spin it, he is hiding his attraction and feelings.
The question is, what level of attraction does he have for you? Something meaningful, or purely sexual?
Now, if he's a petty person, he would reject you to reclaim his sense of security, even if he still is attracted. Which he is, because he was. And unless he's found new reason to question your attractiveness to him, that attraction doesn't just go away, it gets suppressed or forgotten, but it remains.
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Ugh... you sure have a big ego thinking that guy is 'fighting feelings' over you. Guys don't do that crap... he doesn't like you anymore because you never showed him you were interested and he grew tired of the childish games. Fighting feelings and all that crap is what girls do.
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He can't hide his looks at you. Eyes can speak u know
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