Define "The way he looks at you"

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My aunt and I were talking about this guy. Now, this guy has made it obvious that he likes me (Meaning he told me (among other things)) And I had told my aunt that. Her reply was "I know, everyone can tell by the way he looks at you." What does this mean? When I said that he had made it obvious, I did not mean that bit, because I've never noticed the way he looks at me being any different than the way he looks at anyone else. Can someone define that "look"?

Oh yeah, I almost forgot to say: I've never been with anyone. Ever. I just don't feel those emotions. That's why when someone likes me I get so fascinated at how one can feel such strong emotions.. I'm just really curious and ignorant, and for that, I apologize.

NightNinja · Accepted Answer

"The look" is definitely one of those things that you'll start to notice more once you know what to watch for. When a guy looks at a girl he's attracted to, it will be different from a typical glance for a few reasons. It will be longer and move attentive, as if he's staring. He may check you out and scan you from head to toe. His eyes will light up as if he's just heard something that would make him really happy. His look will be to lock eyes with you, and when he does it should feel like he sees through you, into your soul. Much deeper than a regular glance to a normal person.

JustTheTrue · Accepted Answer

He likes you, that’s obvious if he looks at you a lot. I do it all the time and mostly when I’m really interested in that girl. If I’m really not that interested I will still look at you but not as much. That guy either fell in love or find you really attractive that want to start something with you either a relationship or something else. But if you family saw all of that he might want a relationship the most

justagirl42 · Accepted Answer

it's a look of adoration.  That adoringly sweet look guys get on their faces when they are with someone they love or have strong feelings for and it's very sweet when a guy gets that look.  Everyone in the room notices it because that's not a normal way for men to look unless they're smitten lol

cathifer · Accepted Answer

he will look you in the eyes, usually people get subconscious messages, he'll look at you like he adores you and like you're the only girl in the world. its kind of like a spark, a spark of interest. think. do you look at guys you're interested in a different way then those you're not?

pink-custard · Accepted Answer

my mum says this about my man, he looks at me in a loving/besotted way... <3

cohenrique · Answer

I can define the look as this:

A focused, intense, but gentle gaze, nearly 100% set on your eyes, secondarily your face.

If it's not nearly 100% the face, it has more of a sexual energy behind it. Studies have shown a sexual gaze is closer to 60% face, 40% elsewhere. Where a romantic gaze is closer to 90% face, 10% elsewhere. (https://www. ncbi. nlm. nih. gov/pmc/articles/PMC4273641/)

The more intense the feeling, the stronger the gaze. Something about it says they want your attention. They want to be seen. If you too look at them directly, especially if you mirror this look, they will react.

They might smile, they might shy away. They might show no emotion as they shy away. That all depends on the person. But the undivided attention, focus set on eyes, with a focused, yet gentle demeanor is how I would describe it.

Anonymous · Answer

the same way you might look at him, if you were IN LOVE/LUST, with him

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