Is he being hiding something feeling wise like is this a coincidence?

[Anonymous]

2 days ago on my insta I posted a new top I got it’s a Heart ( 70s band ) top on that post I also put the song Crazy On You my male friend a close friend and crush who’s been ghosting me since February due to alcholism, has a lot going on ( who’s a close friend I’ve known on and off since 2016 and we mutually like each other ) follows me on his art page.

on his meme page though he just posted a insta story with a Heart song These Dreams

so in my head I think that’s a weird couincidence and I know from others he is mysterious when it comes to crushes with him.

so girls has this happened to you and guys is this a hidden sign there’s something there?
I don't know.

[Oliverlogan263]

Hmm that is a really strange coincidence! Posting the same band/song like that within days of each other is definitely fishy.

I think there's a good chance he could still have feelings for you even if he's been acting distant. Guys tend to get weird and pull away when they like a girl. Maybe posting that song was his subtle way of thinking of you?

I'd say this is definitely a sign he still cares on some level. He's probably still going through stuff with his alcoholism too though, so don't wanna get too invested yet.

My advice would be to casually like one of his meme page posts or stories soon. See if that sparks any sort of interaction from him. If he reaches back out, consider taking things slow but seeing where it leads.

There could totally be something there still, sis! But don't get your hopes up too high yet either. Just play it cool and see what vibe you get back from him. Keep me posted on if he hits you up after you engage on his page! Fingers crossed girl.

[strateguy632]

it means you inspired him but nothing more. this isn't a hidden sign there’s something there.

[Asker]

Inspired him? I’m confused?
It seemed like a coincidence

[Anonymous]

He may have posted it to get your attention, but it’s up to you whether or not he gets it. Don’t get me wrong I’ve been in long term situationships as well, years long, so I understand your position. The thing is that at some point you’re going to get sick of being stagnant and dealing with the same stuff repeatedly. If your friend is a ghoster and alcoholic, what possible potential is there to have a healthy relationship? Where his issues aren’t always in the way and it’s like battling his addictions together? No thanks.

[Zoeysiren]

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