Not talking after fight?

[Anonymous]

My boyfriend and I haven’t talked in a week.

I was mean and distant because I was going through a lot with my pregnancy hormones. And I was just pushing him away. The last straw was I seen he was following new girls on Instagram and didn’t want to to talk. But now he hasn’t talked to me in a week. I haven’t tried to call but neither has he , should I call or wait?

Part of me just wants to see how long he will go without talking to me , the other part feels bad cuz I was mean. And I feel like he doesn’t care if he can go this long without talking to me.

[EarthRealm]

You need to take Responsibility
And Not blame your actions and words on your hormones.
You Have free will you choose what words come out of your mouth.
Every action you do is Because you decide that’s what you wanna do.
Today I told a friend that I don’t care what he Thinks and hung up on him. I did so because he was lying to me all throughout the conversation but then he Admitted that he was lying in conversation.
I didn’t ask him If he was lying I didn’t tell him to tell the truth.
In conversation he couldn’t Lie anymore and decided to tell me what he really thinks.
Start taking responsibility
For your own words and actions.

[EarthRealm]

Your not the Victim here neither is he. He Took what you said and knew he wasn’t going to talk to the girl that plays victim every-time Ya have an argument.

Dudes consult other dudes about what they should do.
So keep that in mind
He probably asked his friend what he should do.

[dynamicyandere]

I think he may be waiting for an apology. Or, just giving you some space, waiting for things to settle down. I think it would be good to reach out and apologize if you sincerely feel sorry for being mean. Hopefully you two can work things out.

[Ahmed-Fahmy]

not talking after a fight is expected but for a WEEK? that's the problem
regardless of who was mean to who , I think a whole week without talking to one another in an intimate relationship is sign we can't ignore , so instead of wanting to see how long he will go without talking to you I think moving on would be better , find someone who would try to work things out after an argument coz that what someone who cares will do

[Sparkie460]

If he's normally a caring guy he's trying to give you space and time to calm down. If you were mean to him you should call him. Tell him your sorry for being mean

[spartan55]

Have you apologized?