Is it rude to follow girls on social media and message them if their username is mentioned on a dating app? Why do you think girls do that?

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I wouldn't think they'd assume it was rude. But it depends on the content of the message you sent.

[Asker]

i always say hi first 😊

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Thanks for the MHO

[Asker]

Saying hi is good correct?

You’re welcome

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Yes, but it's best to following up with a question to drawn her into a convo. If you ask an open ended question, she'll be more likely to message you back

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Not everyone responds to just a hi.

[Asker]

i was going to say “hi, i am the guy from England you met last year. How is everything going? Do you still use the app?”

And I will be patient and wait

I definitely feel a conversation with her again would be good

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That's great to say to her. Good luck :)

[Asker]

Thanks beautiful
Hopefully she does reply back if she uses the app

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She probably will. If not, her loss

[Asker]

i realised my earlier comment was about the girl i knew year on another app message

For the dating question here yeah, i am trying to meet new girls and find my person in dating world if this makes sense

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Makes total sense

[Asker]

How is everything for you? In a relationship? Married?

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Long story 😂😂

[Asker]

Would you like to tell me?
I was only asking as you been good to me

Would you like a update? 😊

[Asker]

Is saying “Hi, i am the guy from England you met Before and spoken to.
i am genuinely uncertain if you use the app anymore.
Whenever i try to use the app and download it, it keeps crashing on my iPhone
i do have some good news i will try to get the new iPhone 14 later this year if i can hopefully
So, could you message me on social media *** username on snapchat and Instagram if you still want to talk.
So, yea that is the best way to contact me, app on my iPhone simply genuinely doesn’t work anymore
Hope you are able to contact me and we can have a catch up.”

Do you think that is super respectable and not too much to say?

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No that's OK to say. Seems sincere to me :)

[Asker]

Hopefully she does see this and does contact me
It is up to fate and up to her now low key

Thanks for reply

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Ypu are very welcome. Let me know what happens :)

[Asker]

You did say that and I will be relaxed about this
I don’t want to worry about this you know?

Mean time I have to try to meet new girls in my dating life a little as this is important

Want to tell me the long story about you as you mentioned or no?

I know it’s important to be around good people and healthy people

[Asker]

I don’t like arguing 😊

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It's too long for this thread 😂

[Asker]

Guessing the impression you don’t want to tell me
That is ok

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It's not that 😂would take up too much space. Not enough 😂

[Asker]

You can take your time and tell me if you want or anything like that

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Thank you

[Asker]

I look forward in reading that you’re welcome 😊

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Do you not want to tell me? Haha.

[Asker]

Well I need a girl beat friend type 😅