Guys, why do you check on girls social media?

[Anonymous]

Why do you check in on a girl’s social media even when you don’t follow her? Why do you want to know what she has been up to lately? Why not just text her? If you like her enough to be checkin in on her why not text her? Especially months since you’ve gone out with her?

[QuadDamage]

I only do it if I'm interested, but to be fair I personally am feed up with social media apps. And the kind of mentality that goes around there for most part.

I rarely use them anymore, only messenger if I have to. It helps keeping contact with old friends, cousins, keepers etc. My daily mojos of girls and guys uses Signal like me.

The field you're talking about is for women. They love doing this 😜

[Asker]

If you do this and are interested…why do you do this rather than text her?

[QuadDamage]

Why doesn't she text me? If I've realised there's something between us she deffo knows.

I'm the kind of person who does not notice obvious flirting or when someone is into me. I always fk that part up. So my friends have to help me when they spot it 😂

It's strange aswell I don't notice this. Because I'm very absorbent of small details 😂 It might be due to introvertion, I heavily miss-reads the situation and thinks: Damn this is a decent human being.

Bit funny you mentioned why don't you text, made me giggle it's happened a lot.

[In_Trance]

Probably for the same reason women do it to guys