How am I racist if I don’t find Asian men attractive?

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I’m a female and I consider Asian men the least attractive. So basically I don’t find them attractive. There was only one time ever that I found one attractive Asian man, still knowing that culturally they lack masculinity, it’s a turn off even if they are attractive. So I’m neo nazi racist for this opinion?

nitsuj86 · Accepted Answer

Not finding Asians attractive is fine, making negative assumptions about them based on nothing other than your own ignorance, and what you see on American TV is why you sound racist. You were fine until you said this.

"There was only one time ever that I found one attractive Asian man, still knowing that culturally they lack masculinity, it’s a turn off even if they are attractive." I'm not even Asian and I strongly disagree.

You sound ignorant. And like you have never been to an actual Asian country. I mean Japanese samurai used to gut themselves on command, kamikaze fighter pilots gave their lives to destroy their enemies, and most Asian men today work and provide for their entire families, some even giving their lives in the process, all of the above sounds pretty fucking masculine to me. But I guess I should listen to some pampered American woman about what it takes to be a man lol.

You are either a troll, or just an incredibly dumb bitch. lol

crmoore · Accepted Answer

I wouldn't go as far as to say you're racist, at least not based on what you've said here. It probably isn't very palatable for most people but it is true, on average, their culture doesn't incline masculinity like other cultures (not that I view that as condemnable). I'd imagine people are taking issue with the way you're expressing it. "Culturally they lack masculinity" is about as close as you can get to an absolutist remark stating Asians as a whole are not masculine. Because there are certain masculine Asians out there, even if some traits Asians have might be comparatively less masculine.

Having a ragual preference when it comes to romantic or sexual relationships is not racist. But perhaps if you were to word it like "on average, I don't see as many masculine Asian people as I do other races, and masculinity is a key component of my appeal in men" then I think people would understand you more.

LaFemmeFatale_1 · Accepted Answer

You’re not neo nazi. It’s just your preference.

Speaking of neo-nazi, I am a girl who had only been into blond blue-eyed men in the past, not even dating any brunettes and then I fell head over heels with my Asian boyfriend, who’s quite masculine, very sexy and against any of the stereotypes that exists about Asians.

So… It’s about a man rather than his race, you can give me the hottest blondies in the world and I’d still choose my man.

bubblegunnn · Accepted Answer

Hey Asian girl here talkin. Actually i grew up n live in asia and lol i always prefer white guys rather than Asian guys.. but actually even tho im not really into Asian, i found them attractive tho, especially Asian tat guys

How am I racist if I don’t find Asian men attractive?

With piercing too and dont act cute would be double plus

But charles melton is unreal in my opinion he's irl squidward lol

And alsoo... Asian mixed white race also the winner 🥲 he's half Asian half white

intertwinedramen · Answer

Discriminating people against their visual attributes for the purposes of dating is NOT racist. Racism is when they are sought as less dignified for their inherent group, please take my opinion with some preservation but stereotype-ing isn't merely judging a group by the actions or traits of individuals but it's crucially also critisizing individuals by the norm of their group.
And defining a culture perspective on masculinity to a limited view was poorly voiced from you.
I wish you a good day, and thanks for reading.

razelove · Answer

Racism would be if you refused to rent to, offer jobs, or deny education to a certain race. Not fucking them doesn't apply there. Otherwise it'd be a toss-up, am I racist to everyone but white women, or Asian women? By far white women are the bulk of women I've slept with, but my wife is Asian and I've slept with her more than any other women in my life combined.

Anyway, if someone is judging you based on who you will, or won't have sex with, tell them to go fuck them. There's no blue balls EEO system. Nor is there any convincing reason to be a bi-racial couple unless things just turn out that way.

Don't let people try and guilt you into doing things you aren't comfortable doing. Call them on their BS.

ShesQuiet · Answer

No. People have type, some say they don't find white men attractive or Latin men attractive but that DOES NOT mean you are racist! Apparently today, everything is racist lmao but no you aren't racist just because you dont find yourself sexually or physically attracted to Asian men. It's the way your body reacts. Not the way you tell it to react. Hope this helped!

MountAverage · Answer

You seem to believe that the term "Asian" describes a certain phenotype. If you're not attracted to certain phenotypes, that's not racist. But here you are throwing around some super vague racial term instead. So maybe tell us what the fuck you even mean by "Asian" and what phenotypes they're supposed to be.

EarthRealm · Answer

I don’t like black Girls
But hey If you wanna believe we are both Racist then go ahead.
We can be racist together.
All jokes aside no your not racist for not being Attracted to Certain groups. It’s biology 🧬 it’s not something we can control.

Alwayreckles93 · Answer

You are not being racist at all. No one can forced you like somebody you don't feel attractive to. People have issues and they just try to find an excuse to called somebody racist. Don't listen to them.

MCheetah · Answer

Its not racist no, because that implies a hatred of everyone of one race. But it is discriminatory as you're implying you find them to be inferior, disgusting, and unworthy to be date material. People can date who they want, however.

Subarugirl · Answer

Yeah... because you just said that an entire race is unattractive just because of their race...… not because of any specific physical or character trait... just Asians... and their "cultural lack of masculinity"... which is also xenophobic

KarinMcDonald · Answer

I don't think so. Everyone has their own sexual "menu". What works for one person may not work for another. Personally I find Black Men to be very attractive in general. (not all of them)

Anonymous · Answer

Racism is claiming special priviledges for people based on their race.

For example: Claiming that only black people are allowed to say n**.

Fucking you isn't a special priviledge assigned to people based on their race.

SaartjieJane · Answer

It’s a preference… I feel nowadays people will call anything racist if they don’t like what you’re saying, i. e having a preference…

Imsmurter1 · Answer

Hey lady you don’t have to go out of your way to target us Asian men ok if we’re not your preference fine but if you want to dismantle us in the eyes of everyone there’s no other agenda here other than racial.

Apulu_Imback · Answer

You aren't racist unless you look down to them and are disrespectful to them.

Ms_Facesitter · Answer

No you're fine. It's okay to not be attracted. You don't hate Asians, you're just not attracted to them.

Guy13 · Answer

You’re not…that’s silly. It sounds like a west coast load of 💩…

athlete_7 · Answer

Nah everyone has their type and personal preff lol just because i dont like spicy stuff and someonelse like s it it doesn't mean i am racist. Its just a matter of personal taste.

Jamie05rhs · Answer

Wow. You think that Asian men lack masculinity culturally? Have you never heard of World War II?

Adronicus · Answer

I don't find certain races attractive either, if that makes me racist oh well.

Wise4myage · Answer

You aren't, liberals just love calling anyone a racist who doesn't agree with them.

QuietRunner · Answer

Yes you are a Neo Nazi for this racist opinion. You must accept that all other are attractive or you'll be racist for life.

Paul09 · Answer

Probably. I find every race has beautiful attractive women.

wolfunknown · Answer

That's not racist, that's personal preference

Anonymous · Answer

Not being attracted to a certain race or races is fine

Texaskid1 · Answer

Yes, you are worst than Hitler.

jahaims · Answer

Sexual preference doesn't make you racist

IJhonnyI · Answer

Your not

Iron_Man · Answer

You are not

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