Girls: how do you deal with a guy picking another girl over you?

[Anonymous]

[DermalPunch]

Well the ego takes a hit and you feel sad and lied to since 99% of people (unsubstantiated statistic) monkey branch, hedge relationships and keep their new interests warm while they dangle the old one. I personally find this disgusting and have never done it. In the end, you have been done a favour 100% of the time. So after the sad bit I feel relieved.

[PatriceONeal]

By people monkey branching you of course mean women. Men aren't hypergamous, men date across and down. Women date across and up.

[Aerissa_Jade]

His loss, none of them bitches are going to be nearly as good as me... and then I move on.

[DeltaCharlieEcho]

Women really need to just have their confidence shattered early in life and continue to have men shatter it constantly for the rest of their lives. The fact that you are in your 30s and don’t know how handle rejection is horrifying. Men learn that shit at like 13. You’re 18 years behind men.

[malwins]

LOL for real

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

If a girl has a great personality and tells me she has feelings for me then I would give it a try, If a girl comes out and says hey I really like you then that would give me the sign she likes me

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

Thanks for Most Helpful Guy :)

[FictionalCharacter]

It happens daily. Because I wasn’t to the guy standards and I’m not willing to change for him. But hey, why drag me on?

So when guys choose other girls over me AFTER leading me on. I just look at the couple from afar and tell myself “they deserve each other.”

[wittymilf]

I’m fairly intuitive and would generally be able to tell pretty quickly if a guy was into me or not so I wouldn’t pursue things with a guy who wasn’t feeling the same way as me.

[dustybiker]

You can’t choose who you fall in love with. I’d rather be alone than be with someone who liked others better, but was too much a gentleman to end the relationship.

[Alwayreckles93]

Maybe younger woman need to stop dressing like sluts.

[PatriceONeal]

Boom

[siseñor]

factual but damn

[PatriceONeal]

@siseñor the truth hurts.

[PatriceONeal]

Men need to stop simping too.

[siseñor]

@PatriceONeal not really

[Asker]

@PatriceONeal I totally agree, simps are pathetic and they make men look bad. It’s a major problem and a turn off. One thing is to acknowledge and value the companionship of your girl and another is to have willingness to become a her mop…I just can’t!

[boggboss]

For me it would be understanding that I just wasn't compatible enough and move on keeping myself busy continuing to try and date

[ChooChooHaha]

Remind myself that long term, he'll wish he was with me and miss me when shit goes bad.

[Rebecka33]

Well men always choose fake blondes over me til I go fake blonde then they question if they should be with me lol.

[mermaidcancermoon]

Once a guy doesn't want me, i move on. Im not one that lingers around.

[Blackcosmo]

I'll be really sad but eventually move on after awhile.

[Confusedashell123]

We are all different and they fit that is meant for you will pick you before anyone and everything else! This will only suck for like a few days the. You’ll be fine

[JessicaEarl]

Time heals all wounds. And a new distraction helps speed things up

[Anonymous]

If he doesn't likes you he's not for you, that's all. Just as I don't like all guys. No reason to suffer and stuff.

[TacosRAwesome]

Meh whatever. I'd rather they do that than make me wish they did.

[Anonymous]

By finding other guys who have interest in me. You are girl and it is always easy.

[Delia1979]

Move on I don’t need anyone that doesn’t need me. I certainly not fighting over anyone willingly anyways.

[PatriceONeal]

A man that needs you would be needy.. women don't want needy

[LazerBean]

That's just dating. Not a big deal.

[CubsterShura]

By picking another guy over him!

[Shehnaz]

Pick a better guy over him.

[siseñor]

stay on mi grindddddd

[Wise4myage]

If I was him, Id take them both on, lol.