Okay, I hope you don't mind, but I read some of your replies to others comments before typing up a response-
Yes, avoid him. It sounds like he likes you, but since you unintentionally rejected him, he's trying to move on by dating someone else. By giving him space, he can move on, and you won't be getting any mixed messages or further confusion.
If he asks why you're avoiding him, tell him, "I'm respecting your relationship by giving you space. We're still friends, I just don't want to get in the way."
Which, if he does like you, will probably just irk him, lol. But here's my issue: when he first took you out on a date months ago, he should have told you he liked you and was interested in you!!! Sorry to say, but it's partially his fault too. Just because he liked you, unless he came out and told you, "Hey, I'm taking you on a date..." you're not a mindreader. Not everyone can tell when someone likes them (I know I can't) unless they come out and tell you.
So while I get the confusion and him still having feelings for you, it's not fair for him to confuse you or send you mixed messages. I say back off and when he figures out what he wants, you two can talk again like adults.
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When you say he chose her over you, what does that mean? Like is he just giving her more attention? Since you said you are friends, I’m doubting it’s something romantic like he chose a relationship with her over getting with you, but I don’t want to make assumptions.
He was never your friend. And doesn't want to be, anymore
If you're worried about getting jealous, then yes.
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Maybe he is getting to know her a more than a friend but if you feel like he is not making an effort as a friend than maybe would be best
Yk the same thing happened to me few months ago but we are still friends. I had the guts to go tell him in person if you like him just go tell him than regretting later.
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