Is it okay that I always say something very opposite to the thing I actually wanna say?

[Agnes76]

So for last one month I am talking to a guy. We have met few times and I quite enjoy his company. In short I really like him. But whenever we talk I always make him friend zoned though I don't want that. I have said so many things that look like I am not actually interested in him. For last few days he also trying to be my friend only also looking for a guy for me. I don't know why I am so stupid but these things really upsetting me

[Rob1n]

No that is not okay. It is very frustrating for the other person (and for you) if you don't communicate clearly what you want.

If you notice that, just correct yourself. We are all humans and make mistakes. But if you don't admit your mistakes, it will keep on going wrong.

[Gent207]

If you mean what you say and say what you mean, then nothing can be confused or misinterpreted (excluding a language or sobriety barrier).

[DivineZero]

No stop doing that or you are setting yourself up for failure. Go to therapy and figure out why so it won't just show up in another place in your life.

[Guy13]

Wow, that's odd? Why?

[Avicenna]

No, that’s going to cause lots of problems

[brezzybaby]

I have a bad habit of this to.