Why can't I see an Indian guy as a dom?

[Anonymous]

I want to be the submissive partner of my future husband but I can only see handsome white guys as the ideal type for that role. How can I stop this?

[ChrisMaster69]

Learn what a Dom actually is.

it’s not about physical so much as it is emotional and a state of mind.

Also learn what a submissive is and the interaction between a Dom and sub.

There is a reason most Dom’s / Dommes and subs tend to be fairly intelligent as well, so that should also be a guide as well.

[Asker]

I think the physical aspect is really important. I want someone much taller and handsome to feel submissive.

[ChrisMaster69]

Taller and handsome are not fully what drives a sub to offer her neck for a collar.

A Dom has to earn it, simply being tall and handsome is not enough.

It works for vanilla relationships but not so much D, s ones.

It does come into it for some, however for majority it’s deeper than that.

[Asker]

I just think it can be more passionate with someone like that. Most Indian guys get really emotional with me. Many even call me goddess or princess so that doesn't really make me feel submissive enough.
I want someone who makes me feel inferior to him.
Also a bigger man looks more dominating.

[ChrisMaster69]

When you are on your knees looking upwards and listening, most guys look bigger.

[Asker]

You're really funny 😂

[ChrisMaster69]

I was not really trying to be funny.

If you were a sub, you would understand heart & soul, how it is to kneel and look up at your Dom.

What the actual feelings are and how much it hits you at an emotional level.

[Asker]

Maybe it's because I've never been owned.

[ChrisMaster69]

Maybe, however if you have dated a guy then if submissive you can get that feeling.

[Asker]

I have dated only one guy and he was tall. I liked that about him.

[ChrisMaster69]

@ Pink Anon, thank you for MHG, most appreciated.

I do suggest looking into BDSM and Dom / sub relationships.

You might be surprised how the real stuff differs from books and porn.

[Berethor]

Is it because the 1.66 is the average height for indian guys?

https://www.worlddata.info/average-bodyheight.php

[Mia-Wallace]

You probably don't know what a dom is.

[Asker]

I do.

[Mia-Wallace]

Have you ever had a dom? Are you collared?

[Asker]

No but I have watched porn and Fifty shades of grey.

[Mia-Wallace]

Girly, that's not going to give you any idea about what a dominant actually is.

Porn is entertainment and most of the time it's inaccurate and very limited, and Fifty shades of grey is a piece of garbage that is going to give you all the wrong ideas about BDSM.

You have to go out and communicate with actual dominants. You will find out many of them are not CEOs, very tall, or very beautiful/handsome.

The relationship between a sub and a dom is mainly psychological.

First, you have to have a psychological need to submit and relinquish power.

Now if you actually felt that psychological need, you will understand that the main problem in total submission is **trust**. You will look at men and constantly ask yourself "How can I trust him?"

That is the biggest question of every submissive. And that is when real dominants come into the picture. This is also when you understand how important clear and honest communication is. That communication is key.

A dominant is primarily a person you can deeply trust. Trust him with your life, that is. Then comes his skills in how to use bondage, whips, and above all, how to conduct and lead games.

Submission happens before you do anything physical, through communication and trust. That is the first and the main characteristic of BDSM and a D/s relationship, which is completely ignored in popular fiction (fifty shades) and also in porn. You can practice BDSM without most of the physical aspects of it - through rules and subtle interactions.

In any case, it's clear you don't have the right idea about BDSM. I recommend reading more about it and also talking to a real dominant (or submissive).

[ChrisMaster69]

@Mia-Wallace as always very well said.

[Mia-Wallace]

@ChrisMaster69 <3

[Anonymous]

Your first problem is wanting a man who is Dom. Men only think they are. There's really only three kinds of men. Those who know deep down they want to submit to Females and admit it and do it, those who don't admit and try to be "normal", and those who know it but won't admit and try to be Dom in order to fight it.

Take your birthright and use what you were given to be in charge. Your wasting your time trying to find a man who knows anything about real domination.

[DavidRaul]

You are just looking at the wrong place. Indian men are dom too lol.

[Asker]

Yes but I can't like them in that role.

[DavidRaul]

You just seem to find attractive to white men, thats it. Nothing about dom or being a sub

[DavidRaul]

You shouldn't waste your time and emotions with indian men i suppose

[boggboss]

Because of preconception u have in your head about Indian men or doms as a whole

[Anonymous]

I am Indian
5'11 height
And Dom

Who told you? Indian guys are not Dom?
If your partner is not Dom that's doesn't mean all are not dom

[Asker]

I have problems seeing an Indian man as a dom.

[Opinion Owner]

That is a different thing

[Yellovv]

Indian girls are horny that's why they need guy who is dom and fuck them hard...

[sheikalana]

Just find a white a guy.

[baserunner611]

What about native Cherokee white guy

[Loveisgirthy]

Wow there's a few out there alright

[Anonymous]

I'm Dom Indian guy 😜

[Asker]

Really?

[Opinion Owner]

Yep I'm sure. I'm Dom in bed.
Are you indian girl?

[Asker]

Yes.

[Opinion Owner]

So what exactly you want in Indian guy besides being Dom in bed?

[Asker]

He should be tall and handsome.

[Opinion Owner]

How tall are you?
How tall he should be?

[Asker]

5'4" and I want at least 6 ft tall.

[Opinion Owner]

Good luck with that. I'm short guy

[Preeti161101]

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