I personally prefer a tall woman who is at least 5'9"/175 cm, but ideally between 6'1"/185 cm and 6'5"/195 cm, with 6'3.5"/191 cm being ideal to me. That's because that was the height of the woman I loved the most in my life and if I were to ever have a soulmate, she was it.
She was 6'3.5" (191 cm).
Also, because of my sh*tty height, the primary women who ever gave me a chance, were tall women, who were around my height or taller (180+ cm).
Short women, 5'6"/167 cm and under, never wanted to have anything to do with me. So over time, I stopped being attracted to all short women, altogether. Besides them being the most picky and entitled about wanting tall men, I also just see them as being physically weaker than big and tall women and just not as good. Ironic, because that's how they always saw me, compared to some 6'5"/195 cm dude they always wanted.
So short women never wanted me, and now, I don't want them, either. Tall women give me more chances than short women, ironically (although most women in general want a man taller than me), so I love them for it.
So I most prefer a woman between 5'9" and 6'5", with 6'3.5"+ being ideal.
Ellen, 6'2"
MOST MEN, however, prefer a woman between 5'2"/158 cm and 5'10"/178 cm, with 5'7"/170 cm being the ideal female height.
I'm 5'9", I prefer a woman to be anything less than that. I have been heavily attracted to girls taller than me in the past. But one of the things I think about most is slow dancing with a girl. In that case, I'd rather have a girl shorter than me. Looking up into my eyes, resting her head on my chest. I love that feeling. I don't want to be the one looking up and resting my head on her chest while slow dancing 😂😂😂 same goes for hugging and kissing. I would rather bend down to meet her than jump up.
I am dating someone who is 6ft but I am 5'10 barefoot. When I am in my heels on Saturday I know I will be 6'2 but he will walk in with me proud as punch like always.
Some men who have been 6'6 have hated my height and like petite. Some guys at 5'8 dont mind I am taller. I honestly believe for the right guy they never care! x
Because most women won't give short guys (men under six feet) the time of day. If you're one of these men, then you probably understand. Both short women and tall women are like this, but if a man is shortER, then it's pretty much a near guarantee she will insta-reject him. Actually, the exact percentage is 96. So yeah, trying to flirt with a same-height or taller woman will result in a 96% chance of failure unless you're super rich or famous.
@far2gud4u You never mentioned that you didn't have a problem with dating really short guys. You only said some 5'8" guys don't mind you being taller than them. Either way, thank you for not being one of the shallow ones. Statistically, 96% of straight women will not date a short guy (same height or shorter than them). And half of those 98% of girls won't date a guy who is "short but still taller than them" (under six feet). Straight women almost universally want tall men, so finding one who doesn't is beyond rare.
@far2gud4u Women in general are still shallow over male height. A woman could say she only wants to date men six feet and all, which already limits her to only 20% of the men out there (not even the single or straight men; 20% of ALL the men). But then, she could say she only wants to date men 6'2" and up, which is only 8% of the men out there.
In a big city like Chicago, 8% of the male population is still 216,000 6'2"+ men. If only 0.1% of those men were a dating option to her, that still leaves her with 216 men taller than 6'2" she could claim she's open to. That's why on Tinder, they can get away with that and doesn't become a cat lady. In a city like Chicago, she has 216 chances to find one male partner 6'2" and above, assuming they're all straight and single.
Women can be shallow over height and everything else due to sheer numbers. Even if most men dismiss her, there's always two simps to take his place.
Taller women are great! I just like taller women don't know why but I find them to be very attractive plus there's an added benefit where I might have taller children who can actually fit in with my family.
For background on that last comment I come from a family of giants. Aside from my dad I'm pretty sure I'm the only person on my dad's side of the family who's actually shorter than 6 ft tall minus the female members of the family of course however even then they're still pretty tall
Around 6ft, I think it's be assuming the following is correct.
I'm 159cm, so in theory, I like the idea of being at a girl's shoulder.
That being said, it's not mandatory and the only height that's a dealbreaker for me, is someone way shorter than I am, because they'd basically be the size of a kid at that point.
It's 2022, it's hard enough to get a "girl" to take you serious that dosent have dick of her own lol.
I don't care if she's taller or shorter than me, little person or a damn Amazonian I don't care, as long as she's tall enough to drive a car, and short enough to fit in my car I don't care.
For me I like women that are no more than 2 to 4 inches shorter and not more than 1 inch taller than me. I am 5'8. 5'6 seems to be a great height for me, 5'9 works... but any women more than 5'9 or shorter than 5'4 kind of throws of the mechanics of sex for me... just doesn't line up in the ways that feels most comfortable to me.
The shortest I ever dated was 5'2 and the tallest was 5'10... and sexually it was awkward at times moving from one position to the other.
I think women of all heights interest me in some way. I personally don't like limiting my options. I love shorter women but I also love taller women but also really do like women my height.
I want to date with the intentions of marriage but I also want to see what I really like and like the best. Not to mention genetic factors like height... Really isn't the most important thing either what matters is what is on the inside.
I’m really short so my preference is someone around my height that I can see eye to eye with. lol that being said, height isn’t a factor I care much about. I’ve been attracted to girls who tower over me. It works out because then at least one of us can reach the top shelf lmao
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Anonymous
(25-29)
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Me and my wife are both the same exact height (5’8) and I love it since sex is so easy for us and also kissing is so much easier and more fun as well because of our height.
The average height difference or the most commonly preferred seems to be 5 inches, with the man being the taller one. Men seem not to usually have a preference and if they do, it's usually shorter than them from what I've seen.
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Anonymous
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Women often falsely assume that guys obsess over height the same way girls do. We don’t. For the vast majority of us it’s like reason number 36 out 50 things we look for in women.
I do like short cute “petite” girls. But I’ve dated really tall girls too and it didn’t bother me for a second.
It doesn't really matter what height she is, as long as she's a few inches shorter or maybe even the same height as I am. I'm 180cm tall myself, so technically around 5'10 in feet and inches.
I dont really care if she was taller than me. I really dont know what specific height I prefer but I just know it feels right when I see a girl I like.
Oh I didn't mean taller than me, just on the taller side. I can't say height it really depends on if she elevate herself to get up to practical height. Not really promoting wearing heels but if you are short and want a really tall guy you need to remove the penalty of dating a much shorter woman.
Well they aren't that rare and length has nothing to do with beauty. So it's irrelevant. I have never rejected a woman due to their height. But the question was what I prefer not what I have to pick from.
